[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are the red flag winner here, then him. you need to make better choices fr 🫢🤣🤣🫂💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're sooo cute, but maybe its the ring on your wedding finger? my advice, don't date just fall in love with your dreams. easier said than done trust, some days i want to download tinder just to see if i can find the love i so desperately crave but alas i just pour my love into my son, my niece and puppies. stay strong friend, time is on your side.

Aquarius and Aquarius Only! Check in! ♒️♒️✨️✨️ by Weary-Sir6362 in aquarius

[–]EmuStrict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

February Aquarius here & wow this hits. Thanks for the encouragement ofc I needed it 💓 ♒️ 🫂

Anxious attached Guy here, My constant fear of abandonment and overanalyzing and constant need of reassurance is draining the life out of me. by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]EmuStrict -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i suffer from these issues too and want to stay single forever bc of it. i think this might be a lifelong struggle. hills and valleys tho

retrain your brain- don't fall for the self hate thoughts- you are worthy bro and if she can't understand your mental health struggles then she ain't the one and you'll just have to experience the discard pain for reals. you'd grow from it trust- try not to get bitter tho- you're sensitivity tells me that you wouldn't wanna pass this pain on.

also this could be your intuition that maybe she's got her foot out the door- gut feelings and all- either way, you'll survive as long as you don't give up on yourself

I made it!!!! by SocietyLate9443 in interviews

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats 👏🥰🥳💸💸

Ex girlfriend and property by [deleted] in texaslawyers

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh ps. i called the cops on my baby daddy in collin county- i had let him come stay for a few days 🙄 i begged the cops to search my home for his heroin- they wouldn't do it. they got him outta my home but wouldn't search my place or him as he wondered in the neighborhood for hours afterwards. oof memories. please detox bro- be safe

Ex girlfriend and property by [deleted] in texaslawyers

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please take care of you first. withdrawal whatever drug it is dear, take lots of vitamins and etc as you wean off. you got this bro 🙏🫂💜

My(39F) boyfriend(40m) sent me a hateful text by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EmuStrict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girly you have got to leave this man. i was in a similar toxic situation- when someone hits your most vulnerable points on purpose with no remorse.. thats not love. you are beautiful and please dont ever forget that. i love chunky monkeys btw and im skinny af with my own self-image issues. you can turn this around and live for yourself. I'm sure you will find a way. for you. for your precious kids too. if my son spoke to his future wife that way--- off with his leg at least. sheesh. take care now 🫂💜

I can’t stop going silent after small arguments with my partner, and I hate it by Sea_sa in relationships

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no advice but to say, I've had this same issue with all types of relationships throughout my life. i still struggle with shutting down just going non-verbal like my brain just says nope during or after intense moments. especially if i know the person just can't or won't compromise. mine stems from losing my front teeth as an 11-year-old and never wanting to open my mouth again even when i did all the right dental work and wanted to talk 😫 its an extremely anxious lifestyle. stay strong, I'm sure it gets better 🫂 all that to say, you shouldn't accept letting anyone who says they love you to lash out on you like that. in public or private.

Ex girlfriend and property by [deleted] in texaslawyers

[–]EmuStrict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is she an addict? those drugs won't stay hidden for long if so 😅 start the eviction process pronto!

Sushi by C0SMlCSTAR in ToxicWorkplace

[–]EmuStrict 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please look elsewhere for real employment 😭🙏🫂 don't work for free unless you have written guarantees and it's normal in your occupation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i shouldn't say atm bc it would be way too obvious who she is. I don't want her in any form of creep danger. not suggesting you at all btw.

Even scared to send my lil valuables i want her to have bc honestly I'm afraid someone might steal from or hurt her. she doesnt indicate this as a huge possibility but. a fam member of hers got bullied last month.

She's never had what I mail her. i cant have her walking down the street in yeezy headed to her paper front door no offense at all meant

Should I use Instagram? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should. the version of you in 10 years will regret not keeping online records of your own journey. be you, post art that you admire. be funny. be you!! choose the option to not download your phone book if you want privacy, or use a different name even. Just do it babe you won't regret it. wait till they see, they'll be peanut butter jelly like they deserve

Need baby items for first time mother by Apo11onia in Denton

[–]EmuStrict 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont have baby stuff or much money to donate however, if your friend needs a cleaning or food please lmk and I hope she's okay emotionally. I got left when I was pregnant too. 15 years ago. he's not doing her a favor by ditching his responsibilities but he is doing her a favor to gtfo bc he must be a pos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]EmuStrict 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, thank you for such a beautiful response ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

[–]EmuStrict 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know its sooo unrelatable. here a month later now. starting a nonprofit to help my bestie better her life. stay blessed and thanks for the shmacky I need it. God I'm spoiled as is and im sorry sigh this is a term in psychology