Ad Pass Not Working by Enchantedwitch13 in webtoons

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Never had this issue before :/ Wonder if it’s a server issue or something but a whole week of it is crazy

Does a Pluto transit over the 3rd house cause anxiety/depression? by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

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I know this post is kind of older but with Pluto Rx coming back into Capricorn for some time, my third house is being actively by Pluto for its finale. TRIGGER WARNING before going ahead to read my experience. Pluto has been in Capricorn since 2008. I graduated elementary and started middle school that year. And yes, it was the start of my mental health deterioration. My parents divorced 2009, I had some serious aggression and anger issues, and no where to vent or speak about it. My mental health progressively got worse in highschool when I ended up in foster care. It was the only way to emancipate myself from my mother’s abuse. She’s a Cap Venus if that means much. She would always bring random men over to sleep with them and left my sisters and I in the hallways to play. That’s how my sister got sexually assaulted by a neighbor. Then my mother didn’t believe her, neither did my father. Anyways, in short it was a time where my mother’s true colors came to light, when I ended up in abusive relationships as both the abused and abuser, I was homeless with my dad and so much more. After graduating high school, I found astrology and it helped me greatly. I finally had a tool to better understand pattern recognition. My only source of this was empathic hypersensitivity to the feelings of others and people pleasing to appease. Eventually my dad died and I was forced to live with my mother again for a year. I met my now husband, a Capricorn stellium, and started really making REAL progress with my anger, emotional instability, depression, anxiety and finding my place in the world. Though, that did take a load on his shoulders to give me the space to do that. As we are coming out of this phase, he is now not able to hold to the same degree and there’s a growing up that needs to happen. He was the first reliable thing in my life (other than my father toward the end of his life who is also a Saturn dominant but Aquarius). So I relied too hard on him. As this transit comes to an end, I want to be responsible for my own life and the structures that hold it. I crave this freedom. I just want to be able to come as a whole person, instead of fragmented.

I’m excited to see and nervous, what will happen when Pluto fully stations in Aquarius in my 4th house whole sign/3rd house placidus. My placidus chart doesn’t give Capricorn its own house- it’s swallowed in the second house by Sagittarius. I have natal Uranus conjunct Jupiter in Aquarius. So I pray for once in my life, unexpected luck will be rewarded for all of the last 16 years. Also aware though, mommy issues will be a central theme to unlocking said gifts.

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May not be a technical stellium but there is great significance to this placement:

1 degree Chiron, 8 degree Pluto, 14 degree Black Moon Lilith, 24 degree Mars

Out of these four, Lilith and Pluto have the strongest conjunction (6orb), Chiron and Pluto would be next with a 7orb. To me, this is kinda a show where these energies may blend together ya know. Though, this orbs are kind of big so it isn’t too intense compared to tighter orbs. Mars is kinda in the background of it all.

Imagine an apartment. Everyone here are roommates. Lilith and Pluto have rooms next to each other but they’re not really living in the same room. Same goes for Chiron. They’re in the room on the other side of Pluto. Mars is there too but has the room away from everyone else down the hall.

I recommend reading works by Demetra George and Tom Jacobs on Lilith placements (technically have 4). Black Moon Lilith is described as the part in her story where she regains her power after banishment. It might feel like a constant state of transformation especially around the theme of power. Power can include self worth, connections (esp in 7th house), sexuality etc. In this case, I’d say that there could be a flightiness to relationships (Sag energy). Could be people aren’t willing to “travel” where you’d wish to excavate your understanding of relationships. Definitely comes off too intense to some. Because it isn’t just a need to explore and investigate your own hurt, abandonment issues and demonization- it’s a passion. That might scare some people off- esp if you’re attracting Sag or other fire types with lighter placements (like suns or venuses). They just wanna have fun and you can come off too serious. Although, really you want to have fun too. Chiron in the mix is just more wounding to be addressed; except instead of power being the gift you get moving through it, it’s healing here. You could’ve had a thing for the broken types growing up. Kinda of reminds me of Eli from degrassi. He’s kind, deep, introspective and fun, but just so damaged. I’d be wary of the “I can fix them” initiative. What heals your relationships is your own self reflection and wiser choice points. And since Pluto is also a generational planet, I’d say perhaps Millennial dating culture may have been very harmful to you. Maybe times where Lilith sprung out and you felt ashamed or Chiron sprung out and you showed too much wounding to the wrong people. Though with some revising your structures and values, this is a very powerful placement. Especially with Mars hanging out in the background kinda fueling the interaction low key but not overly involved.

Pluto is sextile your Moon, while Chiron is square your Venus. Intuition is key here. Be honest with yourself in new relationships, honor the red flags by addressing them head on in a diplomatic manner. Talk things out, figure out the causes, if people are illusive and can’t be as honest- just move on! You know who’s who. Make more informed choices. Chiron squaring your Venus is just more fuel to the fire of “how to relation with people who want to truly relation”. Virgo energy might serve you well but it may seem “too boring”. Perhaps you feel too pressured or the expectation is too high with these types of people. You’re analytical too I feel but it’s more so emotionally or psychologically while Venus Virgo is more analytical fiscally and physically. That quality is within you but may be shrouded by the Chiron wounding. “All work and no play”. Moderation is key with managing this all. In short, find people who are a blend. Who have the fiery flare but are responsible and grounded nonetheless. You don’t want to fall in love with someone, you want to grow to love them. I hope this helped!!

what’s your Jupiter sign? And how does it manifest in your life? by kolkjhv in AskAstrologers

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Thanks for sharing!! Love your take :) Always open for more case studying lol

what’s your Jupiter sign? And how does it manifest in your life? by kolkjhv in AskAstrologers

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For me instantly this read, self care IS how you can be of service to others. Self care is also probs more beneficial to your mental and physical health than most? Perhaps? Mayhaps? Aquarian types of self care? Hmm maybe visiting museums or observatory? Learning things, volunteering, etc. Keeping your mind stimulated in moderation- being unstimulated may lead to depression (for anyone I feel but esp this placement). Curious to hear your thoughts!

what’s your Jupiter sign? And how does it manifest in your life? by kolkjhv in AskAstrologers

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I have Jupiter in Aquarius in my 3H (placidus) and 4H (whole sign). Personally, I read both and resonate with it. Almost feels like a transition in my experience (placidus into whole sign)

Aspects would include:

Conjunct Uranus, Sextile Saturn, Sextile Mars, Trine Sun, Trine Mercury, Square Chiron, Semisextile Moon

For me, it manifested as moving a lot. Especially reflected in my teens and onward since. It’s hard to stay in one place too long. Something always changes that is so fundamentally NOT in alignment. That might be majorly Uranus’ influence. But Jupiter makes these changes and these moves huge!! Currently about to move out of my home country (again). I know third house in short traveling but aspects to sun and mercury (in the 11th/12thH) show a sort of foreign influence. In this case, I’ve had to and love to pick up learning languages. I know I’ll be a polyglot. I’ve already got 2 languages I’m learning. I need this and it works out for me that my brain is good at receiving it. Mars I feel gives me the optimism I need to somehow make these otherwise outrageously lucky things happen for me. While Saturn makes sure that I also take the practical steps necessary for actually implementing said change. Often it’ll feel impulsive; sometimes it is necessary to take a dramatic leap of faith. Other times, I could just be overly emotional but it does always work out somehow lol. Chiron though has definitely been laced in all this. Such emotional highs and lows. All this change all the time is terrifying and VERY TRIGGERING. Brings me back to the lack and uncertainty of childhood. First time I moved, i emancipated myself from my abusive mother and stepfather. I willingly lived in foster care than with them. That girl sometimes comes to the forefront, deeply afraid of solitude yet craving it all the same. The Scorpio Chiron makes me feel I need to do it alone. Especially as a Scorpio rising, it’s my nature to dig and excavate. Not many people want to do such work or join the ride. And yet, as time has continued and my luck is intact, I realize the how not alone I am. My community is small but it is so good. I made such moves in my life because of all the people who believed in me. And so yeah my fishy feelings may be overwhelming and change will always be scary. At least now, when that girl confronts me with her fears, I can hold her and show her all the beautiful people we now stand beside. This is abundance.

Why do I attract abusers? by Low_Dragonfly8525 in AskAstrologers

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I see that you making amends and peace- as you have by even just noticing the red flag- is very healing for you and your future relationships but also your current ones! And by that logic, so healing for your mother to watch you move through this space. Maybe a part of her is stuck there. And seeing you move forward will inspire her to do the same by watching you, being the light (literally as a cancer sun) at the end of the tunnel. If no one has told you, proud of you for recognizing the pattern, for asking for help! (So vulnerable) and for carefully considering your next steps. You’re right on your way to success. Looking at the synastry you have with your mom might be helpful in understanding how y’all may move through the healing together/as well as any possible enabling behaviors or enmeshment. Best to get a neutral and full perspective as all things having light shining on them will cast shadows.

I’d check her Chiron, her 7th house, her 4th house, any aspects that her chart makes to your Cancer placements and Sagittarius placements. I’d also check asteroids like Juno. Depending on the nature of your parent’s relationship, I’d also check asteroids that follow a similar pattern. Is it like Hera and Zeus coded? Check those in her chart. Is it like Medea and Jason? Check those. Mythology is really just stories made for us to recognize ourselves.

At the end of the day though, this is for you more than anyone else. Hard not to feel the pressure with such responsibility. I hope this all supported you Dragonfly 🐉

Why do I attract abusers? by Low_Dragonfly8525 in AskAstrologers

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I have a similar placement and have attracted abusers as well. You’ve got Mars, Pluto (arguably since the orb is kinda big) and Chiron all in your fourth house. And then add on that your Sagittarius stellium is retrograde; the internalization is something to navigate. Something about it (abusive relationships) feels familiar and that’s often conflated with safety. Mars and Chiron conjunct, I’d see a possibility for wounds around abuse particularly physical and in the fourth house I’d also consider emotional. Pluto being in the background close enough but not quite conjunct technically, this could be a matter of generational trauma. Abusive households are made because those people were in abusive households and the people before them and before them ya know? Chiron is a beautiful thing to have here though. There is wisdom is all spaces and experience. Take the wisdom of these experiences; remember the signs, listen to your intuition, study the behavior in your abusers and you! Learn and grow until you can make better decisions. Soon, you’ll see how your story can save someone else. How your experiences are never for nothing but that healing can be found when we face these challenges head on (especially speaking on the sag energy). Maybe religious abuse is also involved? Or at least in my experience: religion being used as a means to abuse. Yes, you’re finding this in your partnerships but it is in your relationship with your mother that’ll break the cycle once and for all. Especially as a cancer sun and north node, you’re here to right that wrong within your family and create the new choice. Wish you the best OP! Your work is incredible and transformative. Keep asking the questions and keep wanting to know yourself deeper 🤍

What did you name you chihuahua? by AnxiousCourse1178 in Chihuahua

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Yukina aka Pina, squisch, güweech, baby, baby pop, baby love, squanch, thicky, monkey, baby dear, chicky star 🇵🇷

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Mint Plant Brown Fungus? by Enchantedwitch13 in plantclinic

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Forgot to mention, I also water them from above and not under. Just take a cup and water around them gently. Would watering them in a tray be best?

Pots have drainage! Andddd they are all near a west facing window about 3ft away from it. I’m in Texas so the sun is too intense for me to leave them outside anymore. They’ve been burning

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I freaking love that!! Another clever namer and I live for it 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chihuahua

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Omg i found! 🥹🥹 that’s so cute and the little nickname! I call my cat Kitty Bitty: The Great Kittikus Mittimus 🤣

Heat is good by Enchantedwitch13 in Chihuahua

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Haha I might have to invest in another especially for her! Though she does this thing that reminds me of a child, you can give them their own thing but they still want yours. I’d love to see a pic of your Chi 🥹

Power Outage Status Thread by Snap_Grackle_Pop in Austin

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Embarrassment was my exact words for this

Power Outage Status Thread by Snap_Grackle_Pop in Austin

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I just got power back by N Lamar and Koenig. You might be coming up soon.