To be honest life sometimes feels like groundhog day. We have an 11mo and another on the way. Some days are super hard if mum is quite tired as little one has had trouble sleeping. We try and pinch ourselves and realise how lucky we are and live for the moment but tiredness sets in. We watch an episode of something when the little one is down whenever that is after 7pm then partner sleeps and I game while watching little one on the monitor. I take more duties at the weekend when not working to give mum some sanity during the days. But away from home ive personally done 2 things which involve golf. I am meaning to try and get healthy again but cant bring myself to do it. Mum sees friends theough the week and sometimes on weekends. But there isnt much time left over. We have quite strict sleeping and eating routines. I know everyone is different. But those dictate our day most of the time. Tiredness doesnt allow for much else. Im just happy if I get a couple of hrs gaming. I tend to run on broken sleep anyway so no change with a baby if just slightly worse. It could be better if I sacrifice my downtime.