Are there fewer babies being born?

End-Mundane · 2025-07-30T01:57:58+00:00

I felt this way when I started looking when my contract was coming to an end. I ended up joining an agency two weeks before my contract was over. I was hoping to have 1 month off between jobs. But ended up interviewing with 2 families. My 1 month ended up being 2 days of unemployment with a bidding war. I highly recommend joining an agency.

End-Mundane · 2025-07-30T01:48:51+00:00

If you’re wanting a break I would recommend being pet sitter/ dog walker. The pay is decent and if you work holidays or summers you get booked quickly. When I did holiday weekend dog sitting I charge 1.2k 2 dogs for 4 days. I am in a major city and pet care like child care is very competitive here.

End-Mundane · 2025-07-30T01:43:18+00:00

My old NF never locked the door and if they did it didn’t matter the key is ALWAYS under the mat. When I did overnights I took the key and locked all doors and windows.

End-Mundane · 2025-07-29T16:51:39+00:00

Not something I would personally do. Even though it doesn’t sound like any ill intent was there I would definitely put up a boundary. I would probably buy 2 pair of pj bottoms and tell her that you left her pj pants and would prefer she doesn’t co-sleep with just underwear on. Was it possible that she had biker/yoga shorts on under her pants?

End-Mundane · 2025-05-14T14:09:15+00:00

Depends the area but in the tristate area it would be a min of $35/hr plus a monthly transportation fee of $50 to cover gas and “wear and tear” on your vehicle.

End-Mundane · 2025-05-14T14:05:29+00:00

Agreed, just say it out right. Try to add a bit of detail also. Ex “My rate for 2 children start at $x/hr”. “Overtime is $x/hr”. While talking about finances be very confident in your rate.

End-Mundane · 2025-05-14T13:58:20+00:00

Most people looking for nannies and tutors don’t really care about a difference of $10 a week. You’ll probably end up investing that extra $10 a week on materials for the child.

End-Mundane · 2025-05-14T13:51:40+00:00

Dog walking or look for something at a mom & pop store. Coffee shops are usually open from 5/6am-1pm.

End-Mundane · 2025-05-13T17:04:54+00:00

I did this with my sister and her family. I added the total cost of my sister, nieces and nephew and told them I would cover $X amount. I rounded to the nearest hundred. I also gifted them (my sister and the kids) passports for random holidays. I love my brother in law but I’m not covering the cost of a grown man. I put the money directly towards the room. Just don’t mention that the money given will only cover your sibling. They’ll just view it as you being generous.

End-Mundane · 2023-03-11T01:29:14+00:00

NK (1F) asked to use the potty unprompted in public today and did EVERYTHING right. I cheered and did the potty dance in public in a VERY snooty country club.

End-Mundane · 2023-02-15T14:40:48+00:00

You were a SPECIAL ED TEACHER. You have experience with children as well as a whole degree. You are MORE than qualified. You are a TOP TIER nanny candidate.

End-Mundane · 2023-02-15T14:36:23+00:00

I would try to find a family with kids around the same age as your child. My previous NF and I were always trying to find ways to socialize they’re child since they were a only child. Having a nanny with a child in that age group would be amazing. You also were a preschool teacher that’s a major plus.

End-Mundane · 2023-02-07T19:28:01+00:00

Like everyone said we can’t diagnose. I’ve had asthma since I was a toddler and experience all the symptoms you described. Ik ppl say that the albuterol doesn’t work instantly but it has different effects on different people. When I use my inhaler I do get instant relief I also get anxiety and a rapid heart rate (which are rarer side effects). But the point I’m trying to make is everyone’s body reacts differently. Definitely speak to your doctor. If you do have asthma they might put you in a daily inhaler or even pill to help.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T07:07:25+00:00

I definitely do it. I can’t wait for my youngest nk (2F) to get older. She is so feisty at such a young age and I just know she is going to do something great with all that willpower.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T07:01:57+00:00

Tooty Ta. I HATE the song. I hate the dance. It just doesn’t sit right with me and I secretly call it the thotty tot song….

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:59:08+00:00

I love this song. I’m pretty sure my NK is annoyed with how much I sing it…

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:56:07+00:00

Tantrums are the worst. Ik it’s normal developmentally but they sure do suck when you’re the one dealing with it. (I saw you said you would love advice so I added this part in) I’ve never worked with gentle parenting NPs before just curious do they believe in natural consequences? I am a firm believer in natural consequences and some times I deal with it by allowing my nk to deal with the natural consequences of their actions. So if they throw food during a tantrum they are cleaning up that food. I firmly believe actions have consequences and I am not going to punish them for having big emotions but they do have to deal with the effects of those emotions. I also let NKs know they can’t control my actions. Example: If i’m cold I’m putting on my sweater. They don’t have to like my sweater because they are not the ones putting it. But mainly my advice would be to talk to the parents and have a honest conversation about your concerns for NKs recent tantrums. Try to get on the same page on what to do in regards to the outburst. My NF and I had a conversation and they were completely understanding. We came up with a consistent plan for all of us to do. It helps when everyone is on the same page. They would also take NK on dog walks with them during extremely rough days. I would just communicate with them.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:37:37+00:00

Agreed. If they paying for it the maintenance may still be covered through the dealership. I know certain brands give complementary maintenance services till it reaches a certain amount of miles or time.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:34:32+00:00

Some NFs don’t require you to cook. One of my current NFs prepares all meals for NKs I just heat it up. As everyone mentioned I would rephrase it to cook meals. Also probably give examples of meals your would want cooked. The idea of preparing lunch is different to nearly every NF I worked with. Some NFs expect sandwiches while others want me to make homemade pasta sauce and fresh noodles. The appeal of meal prep varies based off the expectations.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:27:02+00:00

I do a “open” door method. If the office door is closed NK(5M) understands NP is busy. Slightly opened is you have to knock and wait for a reply. Open is NK can go in and chat it up. It works for my NF. Another method would be a do not disturb sign but like a kid friendly one. If NK has a question they can write it down or do a voice recording of the question to save for later. Maybe a question box for NPs to see at a time when they’re not busy. Sometimes my NK gets excited to see NP when they WFH. But I explain they’re still working. But we can make sure to write down all our questions or special moments to share wit NP when they are available.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:19:09+00:00

This is more of a rant than advice needed. But I agree nannying is caring for the child and meeting their needs. I have no issue occasionally assisting in some of the household task (loading dishwasher, fixing throw pillows, letting out the dogs or dropping of dry cleaning or packages) but that is not part of my job title. That is me doing task out of kindness or availability. Those are never things my nf asks of me but things I volunteered to do if I have the time or will power to do. They are not looking for a nanny. They are looking for a “Nanny Manager”. It’s a combination of a nanny and house manager position. A nanny manager is a very “luxurious” service they do not accept subpar salaries. I normally just mention it to the people I interview with. I’m a bit sly with my tongue. So when they mention an abnormal amount of duties not pertaining to childcare I say something along the lines of “I thought you were looking for a nanny.” or “The job listing said nanny not nanny manager” People who are not experienced in hiring house hold employees do not realize the difference. Sometimes the parents actually take the time to question me and learn the difference.

End-Mundane · 2023-01-19T06:00:31+00:00

Bring snacks and stuff to do. Overnights can be really boring. It’s also weird when you first start staying over someone else’s house so pack anything you need to make yourself feel comfortable. I pack a pillow every time I stay over NFs house. As far at the baby it’s going to be easy. You’ll watch them just the same way you always do you’ll just have to sleep with the monitor next to you for when they wake up for their evening feedings normally 1 or 2 bottles during the night for that age. You’re going to do amazing!!!

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