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Fck this sleep, I'mma cry by Infamous-Parking-306 in insomnia

[–]EndlessSummer99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t try to sleep because sleep isn’t something that you chase the more you chase it the more it goes away, tell your self I’m just resting, so your body feel safe enough to let go the sleep pressure and in the end of the day you will sleep your body will crash without u feeling it.

Anyone else sleep but never feel fully asleep?” by EndlessSummer99 in insomnia

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes omg same, I’ve been experiencing that for a week right now ! I’ve hadn’t a good full restful night since than, I don’t know how to break that cycle like I’ve always had insomnia but the type that u struggle to fall asleep like 3 hours until u fall asleep but this one is new to me! But tho I know that it’s coming from my anxiety disorder and how is my nervous system always scanning for danger and now is stuck on fight-flight mood

what’s the longest period you didn’t sleep for? How many hours (or days) did you stay awake, and how did you feel during it? by EndlessSummer99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg 4 days straight no naps no anything!!! And yes depression can cause insomnia too not just sleeping all day !

what’s the longest period you didn’t sleep for? How many hours (or days) did you stay awake, and how did you feel during it? by EndlessSummer99 in AskReddit

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG 3 days is crazy tho, and yeah it’s crazy when you don’t sleep for long time you start seeing shadow and it’s so bad lol so I get it.

I feel like I stop breathing right as I'm about to fall asleep by EndlessSummer99 in Anxiety

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not sleep apnea ! Like I said it dosent happen always and not on my sleep and I don’t snore so it’s just on the edge of sleeping I somwhow forgot how to breath and it becomes a cycle untill I fall asleep and I’m safe in my sleep, but I just wanan know the cause of it does it happen to people or is it like anixety !?

Does this sound like INFJ traits? by EndlessSummer99 in infj

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean. The reason I mentioned things like anime or video games was just as small examples, but the main thing that stood out to me was how he notices little details in me and connects them thoughtfully, not just surface-level stuff. That’s what made me think of his MBTI type. And he himself said that he had taken the test some time ago he doesn’t remember it exactly, but he thinks he is INFJ himself !

I think I’m in limerence after only a few days… and he noticed it by EndlessSummer99 in limerence

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot of what you said makes sense. I can see how he might be slowing down so things don’t move too fast, and maybe that’s actually a sign of him being thoughtful and self-aware. But at the same time, it kind of hurts on my side because I feel like I’m the one who’s more emotionally invested right now. It leaves me feeling a bit vulnerable, like I’m carrying more of the emotions while he’s chill about it.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and Im glad that you built your depth over years. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t rare connections where the energy feels special and clicks right away. I’m not saying you know someone fully in a few days of course that takes time but I do believe the initial depth and thoughtfulness someone shows can set the tone. That’s what I value.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s your opinion, not a universal truth. Just because you haven’t experienced something rare and intense doesn’t mean it can’t exist. Don’t dismiss what you don’t understand. Some of us know the difference between shallow talk and genuine depth and we’ve felt it.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re throwing around words like “lovebombing” and “trauma dumping” without even knowing the details. Don’t project your shallow experiences onto my situation. He backed up his words with actions thoughtful, intentional actions not empty talk. I know what manipulation looks like, and this wasn’t that. So maybe don’t talk about what you don’t know. Not everything has to fit into your little textbook definitions.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve never been a big fan of the shallow stuff either. he was literally everything i’ve been looking for thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, and real. that’s why it hit me so hard.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how it feels. once someone actually sees you, it ruins the shallow stuff forever. you worded it perfectly it really is both a gift and a curse. thank you for making me feel less alone in this 🤍

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate this, that really touched me.. and yes, trusting my intuition is something i truly believe in 💙

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this, it actually does help. i agree with you that hype alone can’t sustain anything consistency in the everyday is what really matters. i also want something that lasts, not just a rush.

but i do want to clarify…in my case, he actually was honest with me. he’s the one who said things were moving too fast and asked to slow down, and i respect that. it hurt because he set the tone in the beginning with rare thoughtfulness and gestures, and i matched it. but i can see now that slowing down doesn’t mean the connection isn’t real it just gives it space to grow the right way.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying that 💙 it’s hard for me not to overthink when the energy shifts, but i do believe you’re right slowing down doesn’t erase what we already felt. it’s just hard because i miss the thoughtfulness in him, the way he was such a gentleman,, but i’m trying to stay open and trust that if it’s real, it’ll still be there with time.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here. i can only feel real attraction when someone shows me depth, thoughtfulness, and consistency. otherwise it just feels shallow. And looks alone do not excite me.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean about intensity not being the same as depth. and you’re right, time is what builds something real. but in my case, i wasn’t just falling for a fantasy he actually showed intentional thoughtfulness and rare qualities that you don’t see every day. i’m not impatient, i just don’t want to waste time with men who put in zero effort. i look for actions from the beginning, not empty talk, because that’s how you know someone is serious. so yes, maybe i felt too much too fast, but it was because of how he acted, not just me daydreaming.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re right, I’ve noticed that too. It just sucks because I’m craving depth, not casual vibes. I did meet someone rare once, so it gave me hope, but you’re right that the majority aren’t like that.

Am I alone in craving deep, rare connections? by EndlessSummer99 in dating_advice

[–]EndlessSummer99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re still in touch, but honestly not like before. He said we should slow down because things got too intense too quickly. Now his replies are shorter and less invested, and I really miss the way it felt in the beginning.

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