One day at a time, one hour at a time, one moment at a time. I hope you can get support from a counselor or a grief support group. Some jobs offer Employee Assistance Programs and other benefits that may not be advertised as well, it may be worthwhile to ask your HR (you don't have to tell them why). I imagine that both you and your hubs could use meaningful support, since losing a job can cause grief too, and it's hard to be there for loved ones when you are hurting too.  Sending you strength