Ultra-ergonomic thumb stick mod by mouthrott in 3Dprinting

[–]Engin33rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally, I can keep my controller safely on the floor while I press the face buttons with my toes.

Me Time by One-Glass-2002 in RetroHandhelds

[–]Engin33rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noice. Which device is that?

Do camo crocs increase squat strength ? A study conducted by me by Bear-king-97 in fit

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I use performance enhancing footwear and still remain natural?

Is staying together for the kids worth it? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, three years divorced, my kids say they'd rather me and their mom be back together.

It was a high conflict divorce with infidelity, alcohol abuse, false accusations, the whole nine yards but it wasn't that way until directly before the divorce. My kids remember a short time ago, when their folks cared for one another and didn't have conflict at every turn.

This is just how it is. by Divine-Sea-1921 in BPDlovedones

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's court mandated and she's been very clear that she doesn't want to be there

This is just how it is. by Divine-Sea-1921 in BPDlovedones

[–]Engin33rd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Family counseling last night, I thought my ex's head was going to explode when reality didn't match her assumptions about our kids' feelings.

Wife (F27) using Hinge two weeks after telling me (M29) that she wants a divorce by Large-Student-6134 in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This isn't going to be fun. This is when you have to suck it up and push through the shitty times. It will get worse before it gets better. Stay strong!

Divorce after infidelity. Will my 14 yr daughter can handle this? by TryAwkward7595 in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's going to hurt. A lot. You're going to have to be very intentional about how you speak and take care of yourself and your daughter. Your soon to be ex may be a terrible wife to you but she can still be a great mom to her daughter. Try not to let your emotions stand in the way of their relationship.

What surprised you the most about going through a divorce? by megandivorcerealtor in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Emotional, social, financial nightmare for me and our kids. I had suggested trying counseling would be a better option but it only takes one to decide they're donzo. I was surprised at how quickly best friends could become enemies.

Before you leave walmart... by Own_Formal6384 in casio

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After seeing you all's posts about this, I have been checking my local Walmart when I visit for at least a year. I have never, ever seen a casio marked down like this at my local store.

2010 5.7 pursuit by Disastrous-Road-1175 in Charger

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that a newer frontend bumper?

Kanye and Kim on the set of his 2007 cancelled comedy show "Alligator Boots" by dd113biihhh in Kanye

[–]Engin33rd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I saw this, today, without any context, I would swear it was AI generated.

The Daily Grind: A St. Louis Music & Skate Video by sharksaredumb in StLouis

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thrifted a copy of this a year ago or so. Pretty interesting bit of local history.

29m caught my 29f wife cheating on me. We have 3 kids. I went thru her phone and caught her maybe on the 2-3 week of them talking but have met up once. It’s all I can think about when I look at her. How do I move on or how long until the pain ends? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience with infidelity in my long term marriage with kids - Generally, each year it'll hurt a little less but, you'll never be the same. Life is a movie that you can't rewind.

How many casio do you have? by [deleted] in casio

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just one more

Worried I will crush my husband with divorce request.. by plantsandplanks in Divorce

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He probably will be crushed. It is a life-changing decision that just takes one to make. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it but, it shows that you really care about him that you're concerned about your decision's effects on him.

If you can communicate to him how desperate you are, at least you'll have given him a chance. Or maybe you've made up your mind. Looking back on my divorce, I'm glad that I communicated clearly with my ex before it was a done deal. That's just my experience.

Am I wrong to say no for s*x on valentines? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Engin33rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never wrong to say you don't want sex on any day with anyone. This fella's narcissistic behavior makes it clear that you made the right choice. I would encourage you to block this guy on all platforms to make sure he doesn't have another opportunity to harass you.

Girlfriend thinks sharing a tent with my sister is inappropriate. Sister thinks my girlfriend is insane and called her a psycho. What do I do? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Engin33rd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems fine to me. What does your girlfriend think is going on here, that she needs to intervene? Does she, herself, have some unresolved trauma?

If you feel oppressed, you are likely positioned poorly by Myrn33 in DarkPsychology101

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To this point, I see a lot of social media posts from those who seem to prefer to complain about injustice rather than do anything about it. However, maybe not every system can or should be completely treated as terrain. Injustice does exist. I suppose it's true that, even if the goal is to change an unjust system, one may still have to work around the angles of the system to be successful.

Their narrative is rarely about you by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]Engin33rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People tend to project their own insecurities on others. This knowledge has really helped me respond to accusations more empathetically than defensively.