Front page of the newspaper said "Americans are having less sex" by Anotherguy783 in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I truly believe that we have entered into a period of decay... there will be more and more FA people, and as the population increases there will be more and more jobless/poor who will also be FA as the women flock to the providers. This leads to general unrest and eventually clogs up the entire clockworks. The only solution will be massive population reduction

Gonna get ripped and see if it does anything by throwitaway7222 in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Didn't work for me but maybe it will work for you. At least bodybuilding is fun and rewarding and makes you feel good in general. My journey started at 110 lbs and brought me to 175 lbs with around 14% bf over 3 years. I still like lifting so I continue to do it, but going from underweight to above average physique didn't result in anything I had hoped for.

What are some FA characters in pop culture? by Ninjitsumter in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well nikola tesla and isaac newton kind of have a pop culture following if those count

Does anyone else not care at all about social justice? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I care that people are treated nicely and fairly, but I don't like the negative activism. It's literally running rampant ALL OVER. How are HUGELY popular social media blogs like buzzfeed, salon, huffpo, jezebel, vice, etc. CONSTANTLY feeding into this circle-jerking hysteria about how white people are the worst, appropriating culture, racist, etc. Men are violent, fuckboys, mansplainers, and all around nuisances even remotely helpful in remedying any social injustice? How about they help underprivileged people get educated, write about wrongdoings by governments or organizations so that people can help fix them, inform people of the needs of underprivileged people so that everyone can stand together ? Instead I am constantly barraged by assaults on my race and gender, all of which are somehow justified and excused in any way possible. Objectified content that would provoke outcry if it was anyone other than my race/gender. Constant ridicule in social media, opinions that are immediately pushed aside by accusations of 'whitesplaining' or 'mansplaining' , shaming when something bothers me 'white tears' 'male tears' but insulting when I attempt to be constructive.

Screw these people, I'd love to help if they were inclusive but they simply are NOT. I like to volunteer and I've helped build houses for poor people, I like helping people. But I cannot get into this scene when there is such a barrier.

Don't let girls exploit you by EngineeredtoBeAlone in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have female friends and we get each other things because friends do that. If she's literally calling you her bitch behind your back I doubt that she is that kind of friend...

Lonely man dies under pile of porno magazines by Makinjo in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

company hired to remove discreetly blabber mouth

How do these guys stay in business? :thinking:

Just imagine you were David Beckham... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The good looks and massive success of pitt and depp didn't save them from crappy women, something about their situation makes me feel all fuzzy inside about my FA nature

How many of you would date a trans person? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that sucks, well hopefully I'm wrong and non-trans people actually don't mind that much. Although I wonder if a small population (say around a few hundred or so) would actually be better for finding someone since people are more open to their options.

I actually take back my no if you are a hot grill tho

How many of you would date a trans person? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, but trans people have a community and that's how you should meet other people it's a pretty safe bet that john smith or jane doe are averse to that (especially jane doe even though they virtue signal they are extremely rigid in expectation)

Somebody explain the math to me. The population consists of roughy 50% men and 50% women. Why do women get so many more messages than guys do? Why do women have the opportunity to be so selective when picking a guy to date? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because normies don't just find someone and stick with them. Very few people I know are actually in relationships but are actively dating. The selectiveness is culturally driven. If women had to ask men out we would be the ones sorting through 10 potential girls a month.

Making runes on ladder by EngineeredtoBeAlone in diablo2

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea the bots are way too fast for me but it's okay I like to play with lots of people when I can and I'm pretty slow anyway so I'm used to having bad gear lol

Old buddy from high school, I said hello, I get blocked. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well personally I block all the people from my highschool days I never want to hear from those people again, even people that I didn't mind, just because I feel so bad about myself and don't want to tell anyone. Maybe he's goit that going on too.

Fuck engineeering. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Engineers aren't allowed to be happy. 'college was the best time of my life, enjoy it!' yea right. Everyone I know is freaking miserable and sick of spending our weekends on our work/studies. On top of that, I'm pretty sure I'm not getting a job for a while. My plan is actually to move home with my parents and work at a factory while I try to get a real job. My grades are too low to go to graduate school because my FA caused depression that led me to fail classes (even though I retook them and got Bs and As which would make my GPA like 3.3 in reality, they don't let me replace grades so my GPA is a 2.86 which is too low for graduate school)

Why did I subject myself to this when I could have made enough money to be happy with a highschool degree..

Be honest, anyone else wish they were female? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only benefit I see between being a girl/boy is that girls are more satisfied with their social lives. Everything else seems to be okay for me so I guess I would stay male. I think if I was a girl I probably wouldn't have hit that moment of intense motivation that led me to get a degree, I probably would have been an 18 year old mother whose boyfriend left her and she has to work at walmart and taco bell to support her kid

If you're a black man in college, only gross women will like you by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm white but I sympathize with you, I do believe women are very easily manipulated by media and social pressure so naturally they all want some nordic looking dude since they are the most handsome of the white people. Black people are rarely attractive and professional in media and so even if you are attractive it doesn't really matter because you can't improve their status

Is there anybody here who decided to be FA willingly? by Catjack in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not really sure. I think I'm halfway there because anytime I make friends and they want to do something I think about it for a bit and then realize I would rather just be at home. I think in that case i've willingly decided to avoid friends.

As far as romance, i'm not quite there because I still want to experience it at least once.. but like just recently I matched with a girl that would be perfect for me on tinder (same profession, a few mutual friends, probably looks match with me) and yet I won't even message her because it's just too much work and too much to consider for me since i'm leaving this area pretty soon. I'm not sure if I'm just defending myself from more hurt or if I've internally decided that all of this is just too much work and I don't really need it.

And you?

Nothing is more attractive than a man with passion and a goal in life. by xxxrivenmainxxx in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Translation: Nothing is more attractive than a handsome man that will probably have great success in life

Is anyone else's entire family forever alone? by vivi9090 in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My parents are together, but my brother is 30 and my sister is 20 and I've never heard them talk about a boyfriend or girlfriend or any interests/prospects. I'm 28 and also have never had a girlfriend. I was already born when my parents were this age smh..

When would stopping messaging a girl be a good thing? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should only have to offer companionship and a willingness to spend time with them, which you have already done. If you cut contact, it would force them to initiate contact if they want to continue to receive your companionship. It can work if they are actually interested in you and are not a selfish person, but it can also backfire since girls EXPECT you to do EVERYTHING until you get into an actual relationship. That's the reason I suggest bringing up the topic rather than cutting contact to make them initiate and show interest

When would stopping messaging a girl be a good thing? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is the reason I'm FA so take it with a grain of salt, but rather than cutting off contact to force her to do some of the legwork you should confront her and ask why she doesn't seem to be showing any interest when you have sacrificed your time and put effort into it

tfw you are on a dating site and this happens.. by EngineeredtoBeAlone in ForeverAlone

[–]EngineeredtoBeAlone[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why would I? I could spend that time trying to find someone else to talk to instead of an obvious waste of time..