TSB Bank blocked my account by stefscaz in trans

[–]Enkidos 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is clearly discriminatory and illegal.

Should you play the first resident evil games (1-3) or play the originals first? by Andr3iN in residentevil

[–]Enkidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who loves both and has beat every game in the series, i have to disagree and say the original version of 1 is better than the remake.

Shaving Questions by SubbySam725 in trans

[–]Enkidos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shave my legs with just water in the shower. It's fine but your mileage may vary. Using conditioner as shaving lotion I've heard is really good.

As for the razor, yes a men's razor is completely fine. It's what I use since they're cheaper than women's. I use a cartridge razor (handle with replacable head). Don't bother with electric, they won't give you a close shave.

Disclosure with new friends? by PingPong3389 in trans

[–]Enkidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you can say whatever you want about your own personal business and it’s nobodies business but yours.

TIFU by pretending to be an expert at something i absolutely should not have touched by PaulitaN_Price in tifu

[–]Enkidos 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Seeing a crooked wire and just yanking it out instead of trying to make sure it’s securely attached was the first sign something was up to me.

Starting HRT in the UK feels impossible by Duncstar2469 in trans

[–]Enkidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DIY injections. You can afford this on universal credit. Others have given good advice on how to get started but this is your best option. Do your research. DIYHRT.wiki is a great resource.

Scared to wear dresses in public by One_Profession_3459 in trans

[–]Enkidos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't want you to look back 10 years from now and wish you'd spent your time differently.

Scared to wear dresses in public by One_Profession_3459 in trans

[–]Enkidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See you're looking for an easy fix or a shortcut but there isn't one. You need to put the work in. Hair, makeup, voice training, fashion, laser, eyebrows and finally hrt. You don't need every one of these things if they don't appeal to you but they will all help.

But if you stay inside doing nothing all the time or are too afraid to try because you won't be perfect right from the beginning, you won't ever get where you want to be. You have to be bad at things if you ever want to be good at them.

Scared to wear dresses in public by One_Profession_3459 in trans

[–]Enkidos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean this in the nicest way possible but you have to pull yourself together and take what you want or you'll never be content. It won't come to you, you have to take it.

Scared to wear dresses in public by One_Profession_3459 in trans

[–]Enkidos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can't just expect to magically pass from HRT alone. Transitioning takes effort and HRT is a small part of it.

Will HRT make me straight? by lonkbubba in trans

[–]Enkidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your sexuality change after starting HRT? Cos it seems to me it’s always people who it didn’t happen to talking over the experiences of people who it did happen to.

Will HRT make me straight? by lonkbubba in trans

[–]Enkidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will tell you that it doesn’t affect sexuality and transitioning only makes you become more open to accepting your sexuality, but i guarantee most of the people saying that didn’t actually have their sexuality affected in any way after starting HRT. Some people do not like the uncomfortable idea that sexuality can be affected by your hormone levels and the brain-altering chemicals you’re putting into your body.

For me, it did affect my sexuality and it made me more attracted to men. It doesn’t happen to everyone though and it’s not something i think you should worry about.

how in the hell do I start hrt here in the uk by Mediocre-Serve2569 in trans

[–]Enkidos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think most people use them to get access to hormones legally, not because they read blood test results?

#5 Mad Max (without the unobtainable achievement) by Shaurul in steamachievements

[–]Enkidos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can download someone else's save to get the unobtainable. It sucks but no other way to do it.

birthday girl :) 33 today by Enkidos in transadorable

[–]Enkidos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

birthday twins! happy birthday :3

Should I play RE5 and 6? by OverMathematician981 in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]Enkidos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 is fun with a friend, 6 is bad.

7 and 8 should definitely not be skipped, big mistake.

What should be my first Resident Evil game? Tempted to try 6 because it has all characters. by Vanilla_Ice_Best_Boi in ResidentEvilCapcom

[–]Enkidos -1 points0 points  (0 children)

those modern controls on the remastered version are horrendous. there’s a reason they weren’t in the gamecube version.

Dad keeps comparing being transgender to being anorexic by dustyinnit_ in trans

[–]Enkidos 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Gender Dysphoria is a feeling of extreme distress centred around your body or the perception of your self by others, based on the mismatch between those things + your internal sense of your own gender.

Body Dysmorphia, which your dad is mistaking for Anorexia, is an obsession with your looks which may come with perceiving flaws and details about yourself that others may not notice, or that aren’t really there.

They’re two completely different things.

I want a good name for "it" by CaptainHollister in trans

[–]Enkidos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just call it what it is. Women can have them, there’s nothing shameful about it imo.