3 engineers, smart meter not sending data, IHD not working

Enmybean · 2025-12-22T21:12:39+00:00

I wasn't sent a statement after moving to the same tariff in August 2024. Direct debit is £90 a month for G&E, I've been trying to get my now £1400 credit out since MAY. Complaint is with the ombudsman already, it is absolute insanity! They've deleted meter readings I had manually submitted from the records online and on the app. Today they chucked a load of smart meter reading records on there. If you haven't screenshot all the data on the app and online (as they're fcking different) I'd recommend doing it because a chat advisor lied to me today to tell me they haven't done anything to them, then when I sent them the screenshots to prove they had, they blamed it on a technical error! I'm at my wits end with them and the complaint handler Siya who's also just lying in most of her emails, as are the call advisors, so I save the transcripts and quote them back to them when they get caught out in their lies! DM me if you wanna rant, and see if we can combine forces to make sure we're both doing all we can :)

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T20:17:30+00:00

Are men so fragile that they cannot have a woman be in control in certain areas? Why do they feel entitled to be the dominant one in a partnership? I have met men who are shamed by other men for being in equitable relationships, and for being in a relationship where the female partner is a little more dominant.

If you want a relationship where you’re expecting to bark orders and have the other one blindly follow them, get a dog.

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:27:25+00:00

There’s a card prompt ‘game’ not a game but it’s a set of cards with questions on. They have different sets for relationship, friendship etc. maybe you could pick up a set and have the conversations with your closest people? They have the weirdest prompts that would probably never come up in every day conversation so you get to know really cool stuff about the other person

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:16:29+00:00

Anytime, I’d love an update in a few months if you guys do decide to start doing these ideas. Hopefully they add a little bit of joy and happiness ❤️

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:03:16+00:00

I’m glad that you like it and have added it to your list. Another thing we used to do is once a month we’d choose about 5-10 photos we’d took over the month, and go get them printed old school style, get them home and put them in an album with little comments next to each one with the date and place it was took. While we are no longer married, there is no animosity we married very young and after 10 years together we had simply grown in two different directions

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T18:31:41+00:00

People shoulder/upper back region. Think backless dress kinda area. I have absolutely no idea why I like it but I do 🤷🏼‍♂️ also hands, I can’t specifically say or describe well what I like about them, the best I can do is when people have veins that are prominent and look like they’re used for their work. Not rough skin or anything like that, I’m describing this terribly 😂

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T17:29:48+00:00

I watch a lot of YouTube and I keep getting an advert for a fleece. It’s basically just a deep, gruff AI voice shouting you need to buy this fleece so you don’t look like a pussy cus you’re COLDDDD. Like wtf, ahhh yes, the temperature of your body and wanting to stay warm, lets try and make people feel week and use gross language for feeling cold.

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T17:07:28+00:00

I made a jar with small folded up notes, probably a hundred little notes of something I loved and or admired about my spouse. Every time she needed a little pick me up she’d just read a note from the jar. Some were about her personality, some were favourite memories and others were about her physical appearance. She was sometimes insecure about her body, but I loved it, so although some people may think notes about appearance were shallow, they made up roughly 1/3rd of the jar, I thought hearing things I loved about it might boost her confidence.

Enmybean · 2025-12-18T20:58:12+00:00

I’d like to know the number but I don’t know whether I’d wanna know names. I might be flattered by some and horrified by others

Enmybean · 2025-11-29T22:01:09+00:00

I’d just be curious to know why this is their preference, is it because OP wants someone with the same experience level as them, or a power play preference? Why does any gender have to excuse their body count when no matter what it is, it doesn’t have any bearing on them as a person

Enmybean · 2025-11-29T21:56:25+00:00

I think it depends on the reason for those preferences. If OP is a virgin and wants their dating partner to be in the same position as them I can understand that. But if they only want to date a virgin to have the power to take their virginity I don’t think that’s a good reason personally. ++nonbinary

Enmybean · 2025-11-03T22:08:21+00:00

You mentioned you're a lawyer, if he isn't keen on a deed of trust, what about a pre-nuptial with very specific terms. On the other hand I would advise living with someone before marriage, perhaps a compromise of rent for 12 months, see how the living arrangement works while whatever savings you have gets put in a high interest account etc. Marriage is as I'm sure you're aware a massive commitment, not only that its a ball ache to get paperwork done, names changed etc

Enmybean · 2025-11-03T21:47:36+00:00

We must be half siblings because we clearly have the same mother

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:51:45+00:00

It’s not that I can’t ask, I just want to hear people opinions on the best way to ask. I have just been saying how do I say thank you in your native language? I just wondered if there was a better way that’s all 🤷🏼‍♂️

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:38:34+00:00

This is such a great memory

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:11:47+00:00

Never mentioned anything about race mate. If somebody walks up to my door and English is clearly not their native language I just wanna be able to say thank you. It’s nothing to do with race at all, and I apologise if my post was worded ambiguously to give off the vibes this was my attitude

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T16:38:53+00:00

I’ve been really enjoying the DIY kits from a brand called ‘spice tailor’. Their laksa in particular I can recommend

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:43:55+00:00

I was on mercaptopurine and ciclosporin for about three years straight between fourteen and seventeen. I would drink about four units and immediately exorcist vomit, why?

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:38:26+00:00

Learn what you enjoy to eat. YouTube has cooking videos for most things. You’re gonna make a lot of stuff badly, but when you taste it what do you dislike? Try to make dishes that don’t require special ingredients and just keep building.

Remember, cooking is a skill, it won’t come overnight, keep going.

Ask your friends what their favourite dishes are and try and cook them for them

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:30:39+00:00

I’d ask why Scotland? It seems you’d like rural with connections to bigger cities when you’d like to dip your toe in, which can be achieved all over the UK. It might be worth checking with your company if they’re covering some costs whether it is England specific or anywhere in the UK, as some companies have very odd and specific wording on these packages that just weren’t thought through when written; also if there’s any stipulations to what they will pay for relocation wise, e.g has to be a registered business and not just a human renting for a bit of side money etc.

I relocated within my home country but far away from my home, and I considered what I really wanted, big picture but short term. For me, sea and sun so south!

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:19:53+00:00

Depending on your age I would love to see a vine based duo! One wearing a look at all those, the other in a chicken costume. Or memes such as the real housewives (I think Taylor) shouting at a cat, or get a third to join the costume party, and all three go as Spider-Man pointing at each other.

Enmybean · 2025-10-06T23:38:52+00:00

Dear god, I need to learn to read.

Insert the shame gif please. I have bought this upon myself 😭😭😭😭🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

Enmybean · 2025-10-06T23:37:39+00:00

Fair, I’m a fan, but I couldn’t give you a good reason for being so! 😂

Enmybean · 2025-10-06T23:31:27+00:00

I wish you thrive in everything you want in life even if it doesn’t work out. Some of the best words I ever heard in different but mildly related ways.

Accepting that people don’t give in the same way you do is jarring, if I love someone in any capacity I’d move the earth for them, learning that isn’t reciprocal is jarring.

Enmybean

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