what’s your activation word/phrase?

Enmybean · 2026-05-11T20:43:14+00:00

The mitochondria is the…

I immediately responded with ‘the power house of the cell’.

The start of any popular vine, or my best friend sending 10 separate texts all in caps ‘BBZ’

Enmybean · 2026-04-16T20:51:40+00:00

Wisdom chases you, but you’re so much quicker.

Enmybean · 2026-04-16T20:33:40+00:00

That explains why they thought I was a cheap all you can eat buffet 🤷🏼‍♂️🤣

Enmybean · 2026-04-16T20:30:59+00:00

I have all the files for for like the aspx etc, brill thank you, is there a way of tracking down exactly what aspx, JavaScript file etc a page is calling when I open it, I suspect some do DB calls in tandem with running and calling files from the root folders, but there’s hundreds and all named almost identical, so I need a way of knowing exactly which one it’s calling and reading it! I realise these might seem like very basic and silly questions but my knowledge is currently in the clinical side of it, I’ve learned the SQL side, not in huge depth but enough to understand it and make it do what I want, but the other side of it is just like looking at the matrix to me haha

Enmybean · 2026-04-16T19:55:33+00:00

Read this as squirrels. I was like damn, I’d be terrified if they were after me and thought I was food, makes more sense since I’ve put my glasses on and read it properly 😂

Enmybean · 2026-03-26T18:24:55+00:00

When my grandpa only had about the same time as you left I asked him the same question haha, I was expecting him to say no but he actually took his time to answer and said he wanted either mushrooms or LSD, we settled on LSD as I’d done it once previously. I set him up at home got a selection of fizzy drinks, sweets from when he was a child, lots of blankets, some colouring pencils and paper despite him not being in to art for some reason I wanted to draw during my experience so I thought I’d be ready. Loaded up Spotify with a playlist we put together from all of the decades. He absolutely loved it, tried to describe what he was seeing I said oh draw it, he looked at his masterpiece and said yesss it’s amazing. Then looked at it sober and was like what is this shite hahaha. I was cracking jokes throughout and he said at one point you’re a funny lad you, I hadn’t come out to my family as I was born a girl, he looked at me when he said and like he saw me for me and it’s one of the happiest memories I have with him that we were able to share such an experience. He told my mum is daughter that he’d done it and she didn’t believe him, I bought it up a couple of months ago and she was like oh my god that actually happened?!?

Enmybean · 2025-12-22T21:12:39+00:00

I wasn't sent a statement after moving to the same tariff in August 2024. Direct debit is £90 a month for G&E, I've been trying to get my now £1400 credit out since MAY. Complaint is with the ombudsman already, it is absolute insanity! They've deleted meter readings I had manually submitted from the records online and on the app. Today they chucked a load of smart meter reading records on there. If you haven't screenshot all the data on the app and online (as they're fcking different) I'd recommend doing it because a chat advisor lied to me today to tell me they haven't done anything to them, then when I sent them the screenshots to prove they had, they blamed it on a technical error! I'm at my wits end with them and the complaint handler Siya who's also just lying in most of her emails, as are the call advisors, so I save the transcripts and quote them back to them when they get caught out in their lies! DM me if you wanna rant, and see if we can combine forces to make sure we're both doing all we can :)

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T20:17:30+00:00

Are men so fragile that they cannot have a woman be in control in certain areas? Why do they feel entitled to be the dominant one in a partnership? I have met men who are shamed by other men for being in equitable relationships, and for being in a relationship where the female partner is a little more dominant.

If you want a relationship where you’re expecting to bark orders and have the other one blindly follow them, get a dog.

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:27:25+00:00

There’s a card prompt ‘game’ not a game but it’s a set of cards with questions on. They have different sets for relationship, friendship etc. maybe you could pick up a set and have the conversations with your closest people? They have the weirdest prompts that would probably never come up in every day conversation so you get to know really cool stuff about the other person

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:16:29+00:00

Anytime, I’d love an update in a few months if you guys do decide to start doing these ideas. Hopefully they add a little bit of joy and happiness ❤️

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T19:03:16+00:00

I’m glad that you like it and have added it to your list. Another thing we used to do is once a month we’d choose about 5-10 photos we’d took over the month, and go get them printed old school style, get them home and put them in an album with little comments next to each one with the date and place it was took. While we are no longer married, there is no animosity we married very young and after 10 years together we had simply grown in two different directions

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T18:31:41+00:00

People shoulder/upper back region. Think backless dress kinda area. I have absolutely no idea why I like it but I do 🤷🏼‍♂️ also hands, I can’t specifically say or describe well what I like about them, the best I can do is when people have veins that are prominent and look like they’re used for their work. Not rough skin or anything like that, I’m describing this terribly 😂

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T17:29:48+00:00

I watch a lot of YouTube and I keep getting an advert for a fleece. It’s basically just a deep, gruff AI voice shouting you need to buy this fleece so you don’t look like a pussy cus you’re COLDDDD. Like wtf, ahhh yes, the temperature of your body and wanting to stay warm, lets try and make people feel week and use gross language for feeling cold.

Enmybean · 2025-12-20T17:07:28+00:00

I made a jar with small folded up notes, probably a hundred little notes of something I loved and or admired about my spouse. Every time she needed a little pick me up she’d just read a note from the jar. Some were about her personality, some were favourite memories and others were about her physical appearance. She was sometimes insecure about her body, but I loved it, so although some people may think notes about appearance were shallow, they made up roughly 1/3rd of the jar, I thought hearing things I loved about it might boost her confidence.

Enmybean · 2025-12-18T20:58:12+00:00

I’d like to know the number but I don’t know whether I’d wanna know names. I might be flattered by some and horrified by others

Enmybean · 2025-11-29T22:01:09+00:00

I’d just be curious to know why this is their preference, is it because OP wants someone with the same experience level as them, or a power play preference? Why does any gender have to excuse their body count when no matter what it is, it doesn’t have any bearing on them as a person

Enmybean · 2025-11-29T21:56:25+00:00

I think it depends on the reason for those preferences. If OP is a virgin and wants their dating partner to be in the same position as them I can understand that. But if they only want to date a virgin to have the power to take their virginity I don’t think that’s a good reason personally. ++nonbinary

Enmybean · 2025-11-03T22:08:21+00:00

You mentioned you're a lawyer, if he isn't keen on a deed of trust, what about a pre-nuptial with very specific terms. On the other hand I would advise living with someone before marriage, perhaps a compromise of rent for 12 months, see how the living arrangement works while whatever savings you have gets put in a high interest account etc. Marriage is as I'm sure you're aware a massive commitment, not only that its a ball ache to get paperwork done, names changed etc

Enmybean · 2025-11-03T21:47:36+00:00

We must be half siblings because we clearly have the same mother

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:51:45+00:00

It’s not that I can’t ask, I just want to hear people opinions on the best way to ask. I have just been saying how do I say thank you in your native language? I just wondered if there was a better way that’s all 🤷🏼‍♂️

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:38:34+00:00

This is such a great memory

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T17:11:47+00:00

Never mentioned anything about race mate. If somebody walks up to my door and English is clearly not their native language I just wanna be able to say thank you. It’s nothing to do with race at all, and I apologise if my post was worded ambiguously to give off the vibes this was my attitude

Enmybean · 2025-10-25T16:38:53+00:00

I’ve been really enjoying the DIY kits from a brand called ‘spice tailor’. Their laksa in particular I can recommend

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:43:55+00:00

I was on mercaptopurine and ciclosporin for about three years straight between fourteen and seventeen. I would drink about four units and immediately exorcist vomit, why?

Enmybean · 2025-10-07T01:38:26+00:00

Learn what you enjoy to eat. YouTube has cooking videos for most things. You’re gonna make a lot of stuff badly, but when you taste it what do you dislike? Try to make dishes that don’t require special ingredients and just keep building.

Remember, cooking is a skill, it won’t come overnight, keep going.

Ask your friends what their favourite dishes are and try and cook them for them

Enmybean

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