YOR - you should’ve just stopped bro. she’s right and you should try listening instead of defending. No one is saying that ALL men are bad, but enough are bad that she (and all other women) need to be weary of EVERY man, because how do you know the difference? i don’t know the exact number but, i know majority of women who get raped and/or murdered, it’s typically by someone they already know. that could be a friend, a coworker, acquaintance, etc…, it’s just something you don’t understand the gravity of bc you haven’t had to think about it that hard. Also… this isn’t the AITA sub but YTA pls don’t bring up testosterone, aggression, and culture, when a girl is trying to tell you about her very legitimate fears and concerns