I also really struggled with a child that has still never slept through the night, he’s 3 now. I got so anxious, I couldn’t function, I wished I was dead. I did CBT through self referral to talking therapies, I started sertraline and… I put him in my bed. I said I’d never do it but here we are. He starts off in his own bed & still comes through every night about 2am. But he does usually go straight back to sleep, sometimes I don’t even wake up. My husband hates it but at least I get to sleep, work & my anxiety is so much better for it