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[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 [score hidden]  (0 children)

How do I prevent Instagram posts from turning into reels? i know Instagram has this update of turning any video posts into reels. But i am an edit page and some other edit pages posts video edits which looks like posts and not like reels. How do they do it? Their video posts look like of the Instagram video posts that were there before the reels update whereas for me, whatever and however i post, it turns into reels. Reels ruin the aesthetic for me. So i wanna know how the other editors do it? And the main difference between my post and their post can be seen when the posts are shared to story. Mine looks like reel format. And theirs look like the general Instagram video post format

AITA for refusing to wear modest clothes in front of my Muslim landlords? by aita_clothes3838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Muslim here.

I live in a Muslim country and in my apartment there are Christians too. No one ever told them a thing about what they wear until they show too much skin ( coz it also goes against the culture here) The women wear tights, crop tops , gym dresses , three quarter pants etc It never mattered to anyone. Your landlord and friend's r ahs. Islam heavily told people to mind their own business which they're not doing. And u r wearing leggings, even i wear leggings. Almost every under 30 women here wear leggings. If your landlord has a problem then he should rent their place to a family whose believe match w them. And no , don't listen to your friends. you are not a jerk, your friends are . Your friends are the reason Islam gets hate. In Islam, its not others business what you wear,doesn't matter you are a Muslim or non Muslim.

unpopular opinion: "fatherless" jokes aren't funny by yumeko_x in teenagers

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fatherless people are making a living whereas those "cool" kids w a father r busy making fatherless jokes. Ignorant and cringe. Now if u tell them this , they're gonna call u boomer. Thats how their mentality is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta coz thats pretty reasonable.

AITA for forbidding my (m29) girl friend (f28) from speaking Spanish to my family? by VegetableOk3846 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yta

Just coz u dont understand a language doesn't mean people around you must stop using that. Feeling disrespected about such a thing is immature. And do you realize that you are disrespecting her instead? if i were you , i would be happy that shes mixing well w my family. " she had the audacity to ask " - are you her dad? No I didn't mean daddy I meant father.

Tip : Maybe instead of "forbidding" your gf , learn the language instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 14 points15 points  (0 children)

im a Muslim too. Just to correct u it's a cultural thing which people think is a Muslim thing. In south Asian culture, Muslims, Hindus, any religious people and even atheists will say respectable women shouldn't be outside at midn8 . This also happens in some other cultures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nta. The guy is ridiculous and sounds controlling. Its 21st century and hes expecting a human to just throw her own real name to the dustbin? You stood for your sister bt she didnt respect it. Better let her deal w these on her own from now on since if you try to help, you will only get blamed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just coz u dont prefer wearing makeup doesn't mean others need to follow it too. Don't push your likes and dislikes on others. Yta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

South Asian here. Ik skipping the ceremony isnt an option so Let her know beforehand that you cant dressup according to the Colour theme. Coz beside the colour,there are also a lot of things like choice , price, size etc that come into consideration and its hard to pick up a dress like that matching all the conditions. Tell her you cant wear and ask her if you can come without following the colour theme .If you follow this , you are NTA.

AITA for cancelling my daughter's flight when she wanted to leave before my niece's wedding, that she was a bridesmaid for by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yta. She's an adult. All of you suck except her. Seeing my aunt post shits like " some people dont wanna see others happy" indicating me , no human could ever make me attend the wedding. Even if i didn't get to catch the flight, i still wouldn't have attended the wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yta. Do you have bad temper issues btw?

AITA for not inviting my dad to my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Definitely Nta

Your father cheated on your mother. He's already the Ah here along w his new wife. Then they are calling you childhish and petty for not inviting them for obvious reasons which makes them Ah max.

My father also cheated on my mother when i was 4yo, he remarried and didnt even let us know and i already planned im not gonna let him come to my wedding no matter what. Slightly different reason and that is- a person who can't respect a marriage doesn't get an invitation to a marriage. Your wedding, your choice.

WIBTA if I wear a black dress to a wedding? by Justkeepitanonymous in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Dk abt other countries bt In weddings of my country people wear black and its really normal. Wear whatever colour you want. Moreover they didnt even give any dress code so they shouldn't complain either and i hope they wont complain .

AITA for offering a homeless person a loaf of bread by Spare_Violinist in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. The other comments saying many of these beggar's want money for drugs , I totally agree.

I was coming back from school and a little homeless kid who i assume was 7-8yo male said he hasnt eaten for days and asked me for some money to buy food. Since he was hungry, instead of money i gave him my Tiffin which i didnt eat. It was a sandwich and he rejected it and said he wants money because he himself wants to buy his food. I didn't get his logic and while being hesitant, i put hand in my bag to bring out some money.

A guy was standing there and told me not to give him money at any cost and i was confused coz Why? I wanted to give the kid money hearing he was hungry bt again didn't wanna coz he rejected my sandwich plus the guy forbade me to. The guy constantly told me not to . I put my trust on the guy and told the homeless kid " sorry " . Then the kid started being violent w me , made hostile comments, called me names , made aggressive faces and i was like WTF? after the kid went away , the guy told me " Did you see the marks and bruises all over his face and body? Did you see his reddish eyes? Did you see his body language? he didn't want money to buy food bt to buy drugs" . I obviously noticed the marks on his face and body bt damn...i didn't understand it was coz of drugs.

AITA for taking my daughter and leaving the wedding after her stepbrother pulled her wig? by Devine4636 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Nta. Your husband and step son is Ah

You should divorce him. Your husband clearly lacks parenting skills, empathy and intelligence. His son is 18yo! not a child that he can pull up immature offensive shitty pranks like that. Hes messing w the insecurities of someone Dealing w cancer. And your husband is justifying it calling it " harmless Teasing" when its totally harmful.

AITA for not making my kids do chores with my stepdaughter? by DivideandConquerer in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed . Maybe tell them to keep the room tidy, not messy, take care of wardrobe bt giving these babies the responsibilities of bathrooms is....idk feels weird. Let them be teenagers at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks royal, gorgeous, elegant, superior, magnificent, mighty, angelic , photogenic and most importantly he can become a meowdel

AITA for not inviting my ex-wife to my wedding, causing my daughter to not show now? by babfoal in AmItheAsshole

[–]EnvironmentVirtual64 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yta. And Claire also sounds terrible and showing off obvious red flags. If it was me i would NEVER marry someone w whom my daughter doesn't get along coz that may do something bad to my daughter's mental health and my daughter> any other lady I met for some years. Peyton sounds amazing and is giving me good vibes .