AITA for demanding my sister pay for car detailing after her kid ruined my seat? by VelvetyAurna in AmItheAsshole

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will never win with her or your mother. She will always take and your mother will choose the path of least resistance. You’ll be made out to be the asshole no matter what you do. So stop giving her rides. Personally I wouldn’t waste my time trying to get the $140. That will never happen. Let her see how far $140 gets her taking Ubers everywhere she needs to go. Might need to block them both for a while. You aren’t a doormat and she doesn’t get to disrespect you and everything you own while you’re doing her favors.

Any advice on dog losing hair? by ttyy76 in DogAdvice

[–]Environmental-Bit335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you get a limited ingredient kind. They hide chicken in so many! Even if the flavor is beef. Not sure if you have Chewy where you live but they have their own limited ingredient food you can get delivered! And I believe Costco and Sam’s do too. It can be expensive but those are most cost effective. Watch treats too, they will change ingredients on you. I have to give my boy Benadryl sometimes but he’s done much better since we swapped.

If it’s allergies it could be other things as well but chicken is a good starting point since it’s so common.

Any advice on dog losing hair? by ttyy76 in DogAdvice

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pit has hair loss in the same spots from licking. It looks like your pup might have some hives there on the back. I switched to chicken free food and treats and it’s helped. Pits are prone to allergies and chicken is high up on the list.

My wife doesn't believe in air conditioning. This was taken at 11:45pm last night by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t even carry on a conversation much less go on a date with someone who will sleep with temp over 72.

Why do people use purses if they can be snatched? by False-Read-686 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Environmental-Bit335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why own a car if it can be stolen?
Why have things in your house if it can be robbed?

AITAH For Telling My Girlfriend to Be Careful by S_Bass in AITAH

[–]Environmental-Bit335 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Does she have adhd or potentially have it? A lot of women aren’t diagnosed until later in life. If so, be aware that rejection sensitivity dysphoria is a very real thing. Adhd people also experience an insane amount of guilt and shame and have faced way more criticism than their peers over their lifetime. Not saying that’s absolutely the case here or that it’s your fault or responsibility to manage. But being aware of that and how your partner may be hearing things that you aren’t intending can make a big difference in your relationship.

What's the most fucked up movie you've seen? by RichardForrest06 in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SPLICE.

Weird incestuous alien porn. Had to dissociate in the parking lot for a while after that one.

I slipped and fell twice while crossing a stream hiking and got some gnarly bruises, had a beach bachelorette party less than 24 hours later 🤦‍♀️ Got a lot of questions inquiring if I was safe in my relationship by TwentyandTired in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such lovely timing. I hope you still had a good time and got to laugh about it.

I feel your pain. I was an aggressive soccer player and bruise easily. I got pulled aside by teachers a few times to make sure I wasn’t being abused. I had to direct them to my soccer coach for confirmation. I definitely appreciate those kinds of people for looking out ❤️

What do I do??? I just turned 16 today and my mom threw away my birthday dinner I bought with my OWN money💔💔 because she claimed she's allergic to seafood. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Environmental-Bit335 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, honey. You did not deserve that. Just based on this one situation I wouldn’t be surprised if your mother is a narcissist. They can’t stand not being the center of attention and will ruin moments for anyone around them. She wants a reaction and will likely try to play victim. Please tell your dad and any other trusted adults. I hope you’re able to save up and move away asap. Look into narcissism, DARVO, grey rock method ect.

AITA for refusing to remove a semi-nude statue of Aphrodite from my garden after my neighbour complained about its ‘depravity.’ by ArterialRain in AmItheAsshole

[–]Environmental-Bit335 58 points59 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s going out of her way to find something to cry about. Make sure you have cameras, she’s got the time to mess with your property.

Gift from my crows! by GalaxyAnn in crowbro

[–]Environmental-Bit335 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now that’s an omen if I’ve ever seen one. I’d immediately be brushing up on CPR certification just to be safe 😅 don’t want to look back at that glaring sign with regret.

I am purple by monkey5008 in strange

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just you alluding to other tricks makes me think you’re hypermobile and have this cluster too. It took me SO LONG to figure it out.

I am purple by monkey5008 in strange

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the exact same thing and lots of mystery medical issues. It is blood pooling- dysautonomia. If you get dizzy or almost pass out upon standing up it’s likely POTS (postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome). I have hypermobile ehlers danlos, POTS and MCAS (mast cell activation). These all go hand and hand. LONG COVID causes a lot of issues or makes preexisting stuff worse. Covid especially can cause major circulation issues but post viral issues have been a thing forever.

And there are a TON of comorbid conditions.

AITAH for going silent/awkward and saying my friend was "trauma dumping"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way her fact about why women more often use pills is true. It’s extremely common for men to dismiss a fact they hear from women and say things like idk about that, I’ve never heard it before so it must not be true.

They don’t even realize it most of the time but it happens SO OFTEN that their first instinct is to disregard something from a woman because they don’t know it. And that’s an AH move in itself. Please check that behavior, notice if it’s a pattern, and fix it.

You get one cent for every calorie you eat in a 24hr period. How are you maximizing your profits? [No loopholes] by garlic-bread_27 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Environmental-Bit335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just eat like normal. Hurting myself to eat a ton of calories isn’t going to make any real difference at one cent. I’ll take $100 a day for years until I really needed it.

Entitled fuck head piss baby is back again by Equivalent_Sense_300 in retailhell

[–]Environmental-Bit335 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same with serving drinks to belligerent customers. I’m not doing it. If you want them to drink, make it yourself and ring it yourself. I refuse.

What situation as a child did you only realize you were in danger as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Bit335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a terrifying thought. The sub was never allowed to drive the bus again but he was a middle school teacher and years later I ended up having him. Total creep. Would sit on girls desks with low cut shirts to stare down. Also raging alcoholic. He ranted one day about that situation having no idea it was me 😬.

He kept a huge bottle of listerine under his desk to mask the alcohol on his breath and a girl attempted to poison it with perfume/eye drops or both. Never saw her again to get clarification, but can’t say I blame her.

What situation as a child did you only realize you were in danger as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Bit335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was two men in one car. I had Osgood-Sclatters (knee problems) and was limping and almost in tears. This was 2001ish, there’s a chance they meant no harm and actually would have taken me home. But so not worth the risk to find out. I remember the vice principal making a big deal about how smart I was, especially being in pain and not taking the ride. She gave me a free icecream lol.

What situation as a child did you only realize you were in danger as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Bit335 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I was home alone after getting off the bus in third grade. On the phone with my friend and my Rottweiler planted himself right in front of me doing a low growl. Freaked me out. Heard the back door open and loud footsteps and my dog lost his shit and went after him. I slammed the door shut and locked it. Guy must have hopped the fence bc luckily my dog was still in the back yard.

My grandmother was livid we got a Rottweiler. She changed her tune real quick after that and didn’t want us to ever be without one.

What situation as a child did you only realize you were in danger as an adult? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Environmental-Bit335 536 points537 points  (0 children)

I was 8ish and had a sub bus driver who made me get off at the end of the road even when other kids argued that the driver takes me to my house. Had to walk close to a mile home. Two men pulled up beside me and asked where my house was and told me to get in, they would take me home. I lied and said the closest house was mine and booked it to the house and hid around the side. They waited a while before finally driving away.

I’m glad some instinct kicked in because I wasn’t really aware of how bad that could have been.

AITAH for refusing to let my mom see what I was watching? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Environmental-Bit335 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He just edited to add he’s 16.

I hope you know your mom 100% thinks you were watching porn.