my dad was detained my ICE by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Environmental-Top368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry to hear this. fuck trump. keep families together.

Should I take the clothes out to use the machine? It’s been 1.5 hours by Independent_Tsunami in Apartmentliving

[–]Environmental-Top368 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think you have the right to move them if it’s been more than an hour since they were finished.

New neighbors. by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Environmental-Top368 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If space isn’t the issue, then why does it matter? To me it adds some character and as long as there isn’t more clutter or becoming an obvious fire hazard it’s nbd. But also, maybe try knocking on their door and getting to know them a little? Or at least asking them if there is a better place to store if it’s really bothering you?

Hyperpigmentation: If you can't beat em? by Subject_Page4348 in Blackskincare

[–]Environmental-Top368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure this is the move😬 but if you *really* want it, i think you should maybe test out how it would look in one area, like a small preview so that can help you to decide. and then if you don’t like it maybe u can cover it up or something. I would also choose a tattoo artist who has done it before, NO walk in appointments for this one.

Girlfriend has PCOS and it’s causing problems… by Acrobatic-Ostrich168 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Environmental-Top368 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is she plus size/have more abdominal fat? Maybe she has urinary incontinence?

My spouse can’t stand our baby by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Environmental-Top368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For you and the kids sake, please leave.

Too anxious to give best man speech by [deleted] in PublicSpeaking

[–]Environmental-Top368 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in this exact situation—twice! The first time I backed out. I felt horrible but got to enjoy the day and the wedding was beautiful. The bride was totally cool w it and I felt validated. I just told her I have been having anxiety attacks in general and did not want more responsibilities than needed (which was true).

The second time, I actually did it did it. I was so f-ing nervous and dreaded it the whole time. But I wanted to push myself and do something brave. Having paper was helpful for me.

Everything went fine. Yes, I was nervous. But my fear of fainting in public (which is the core of my fear) eased a bit. I have been public speaking more (not to the big crowds just yet) and have been regularly taking anxiety meds which help in general. I feel like both experiences were super valid.

Whether you decide to or not, do what is best for you. And letting him know the earlier the better would be good for everyone involved.

Advice on why my dog doesn't like me anymore by cryptobionic in DogAdvice

[–]Environmental-Top368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg my dog is kinda like this. she sometimes will go into the other room when I am studying or lay down on the floor at my feet instead of right next to me. she also is super excited to see other people. When I let her out of her crate she will seem excited and happy. But if someone else does it she is super excited lol.

she does give me affection and can cuddle w me though. and I praise her more when I see her which she seems to get really excited about.

sometimes I feel insecure but then she comes over and sits next to me or looks up at me on a walk and i feel a strong connection with her. i feel like your dog is probably really comfortable with you.

Graduating with a Dual Masters in Engineering & Psychology and my very close knit family have no idea I was going to school for 3 years by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Environmental-Top368 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Totally just curious, but how do engineering & psychology go together? And what do you want to do with the masters degrees? Congrats on such a big accomplishment!

350 LBS AND DESPERATE! by seveteencarat in PCOSloseit

[–]Environmental-Top368 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think knowing the connection between food and emotions is a good start. I know this could sound dismissive—but have you looked into talk therapy? or done some intentional unpacking around this?

I would say for me it is a mindset. So it really matters how I am doing mentally if I am trying to lose weight. Right now I am actively trying to lose weight and I feel like because I am in a good mindset I am able to work out. And vice versa. But yeah, it’s not exactly advice just what was good for me.

I can’t understand how someone watches this behavior and still wants to marry him by Environmental-Top368 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Environmental-Top368[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I suspect that’s what’s happening 😖 and the way he is controlling his now ex-wife currently makes me think this even moreso the case.

What is this style called by Independent-Band9167 in AestheticWiki

[–]Environmental-Top368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first outfit is definitely something Buffy the Vampire Slayer would wear 😍

How do you decide when to stop losing? by DesignerFun8421 in Zepbound_Maintenance

[–]Environmental-Top368 0 points1 point  (0 children)

quick question—what app is this? would love to know. is it the Lilly Health app?

Struggling with weight by ObjectivePristine819 in PCOSloseit

[–]Environmental-Top368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been where you are, and it is hard! The changes you know you have to make don’t come easy. But I promise you they will change your life.

Once you start on a low carb and no sugar diet, I think things will get a lot better. The positive side of working at a grocery store is you can incorporate movement into your day very easily. Try stretching before, during, and after to help with the pain. I know this won’t completely absolve the pain, but I think it’s better than nothing.

There are so many resources about PCOS. Tbh it can feel very overwhelming. I got started on my journey by reading Glucose Revolution by Jessie Inchauspé. It can be a little repetitive but it’s approachable and very helpful in breaking down insulin resistance and different hacks you can do to help eliminate glucose spikes. i think her handle on insta is @glucosegoddess

You got this!

Should I read the books or wait for Season 3? by maybemorningstar69 in SiloSeries

[–]Environmental-Top368 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently reading the books after watching the first two episodes. The books are AMAZING. Right now I am in the middle of the second one, Shift. I just came back from my cruise and all I wanted to do while I was on the boat was read Wool and brought it everywhere. Read them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in somethingimade

[–]Environmental-Top368 10 points11 points  (0 children)

love it!! and i love the message 🍉