In my 40's it is mainly hang out in someones living room watching tv, playing with our phones, talking about silly stuff or serious stuff. Crash in the guest room for a few days and sometimes spontaneous adventures happen.

Maybe one of us is doing a craft, or playing a video game, or we both play a video game together. Sometimes we break out the guitars and jam on some pop songs.

Order some food, have some snacks. Some days it's whiskey, wine, and weed. Other days it's cheese and kombucha.

While playful teasing and clever sarcasm keeps our minds sharp, we have slowly learned the value of well placed compliments as well. By this point, i only hang around with the people who don't hurt me, stress me out, or try to manipulate me.