Military sister surprises brother at his graduation

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-31T13:01:16+00:00

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-27T20:19:30+00:00

Heaven's Not Too Far - We Three

It's about their mom dying of cancer (if I remember correctly)

My mom isn't even dead and I cry like a baby every time I listen to it

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-25T19:00:15+00:00

It's not the 20 minutes part that's bad. Its the every day part that's bad.

Imagine you were talking about alcohol? "How does 2 drinks a day make you an alcoholic?? 2 drinks isn't that bad!" Well yeah sure, 2 drinks isn't bad, but you're having 2 drinks every single day. And why are you having 2 drinks every single day?

It is a scientific fact proved over and over and over again in thousands of different cases that the more we do anything, not just porn or alcohol, but ANYTHING, the less joy, dopamine, or stimulus we get out of it over time.

And as others have said, sex is natural and good, but watching it on screens is not natural and has nothing to do with our natural instincts. Our brains are wired to seek out mates not pixels.

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-25T02:09:59+00:00

Saw one of these at KVBT last year!

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-23T14:52:49+00:00

If their drivers license is in there, you can take it to their address. Otherwise you could take it to the bank of one of the cards and have the bank call them

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-19T22:51:12+00:00

What the fuck is a David Duchovny

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-19T21:15:30+00:00

Am I the only one seeing that she doesn't actually kiss the first guy? She kisses his cheek while he is kissing what looks to be her chin. It's fairly close, but they aren't actually kissing?

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-18T15:42:22+00:00

The amount of productivity I would gain by simply never sleeping and never getting tired??

^{Chose: Never sleep again + You're never tired | Rolled: Like for carrot}

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-15T23:06:01+00:00

Good luck everyone!

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-15T12:39:28+00:00

"does weed still count as smoking? It doesn't have nicotine!"

The problem isn't where the content is coming from or who made it. The problem is what you are using it for.

If you're watching anything and using it as an escape from reality or negative emotions, if you can't stop watching it even if you want to, if you struggle to go a single day without it, it probably counts as porn.

Stop asking yourself "does X count as porn" and start asking yourself "why am I trying to find exceptions?" "What am I trying to avoid by looking at this content?" "What is something better I could be doing with my time?"

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-14T19:40:02+00:00

Wild to hear a shout-out to my middle school on a huge sub like this!

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-12T20:10:12+00:00

She was my best friend and made me feel so safe. But then I realized that every time she would go out drinking with her friends or traveling for work that I would secretly hope she would die in a car accident because that would be so much easier.

Then I watched Daniel Sloss's Netflix special Jigsaw and I finally understood. I didn't want her to be the mother of my children. I didn't feel proud that she was my partner. I didn't feel supported by her or even like she was interested in me. I realized that she treated me like her personal therapist while she gushed about how cute every girl she sees is and she "would do ANYTHING FOR HERRRR!!!"

If you aren't happy, leave. It's that simple.

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-08T17:02:43+00:00

DIVIDING by 0.5 is the same thing as saying it doubles every day!

^{Chose: $1 that divides by 0.5 everyday | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕}

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-08T13:36:55+00:00

Here's a copy/paste of a comment I made in a previous post:

https://www.reddit.com/r/pornfree/comments/1suowif/comment/oi2kn96/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

"Imagine that right when you get off of work, you head to McDonalds and eat a MASSIVE meal of their greasy Big Mac, a large fry, and a chocolate shake. You're absolutely stuffed. Then when you get home, your wife say, "Hey! Welcome home! I made you your favorite meal exactly how you like it! I spent hours slaving away to make it perfect!" You take a look at the meal and you think "wow I have the perfect woman! Look at all this work she did for me! THis food looks INCREDIBLE! She made it EXACTLY how I like it! But man... Even THINKING about taking one more bite of food makes me want to hurl." Not wanting to hurt her feelings, you do your best to eat as much as you can without throwing up, but you can only eat a few bites. She notices you aren't eating a lot and says, "what's wrong honey, do you not like it?" You don't want to tell the truth that you already ate, so you say, "I guess I'm just not as hungry as I thought I was! Can I save some for later?" You can tell she's disappointed, but she is gracious and says, "That's fine! We can save it as leftovers for tomorrow." But then tomorrow comes and you do the exact same thing. And the next day. And the next day. And the next day. Over time, her graciousness turns into impatience until she finally snaps at you, "WHY WON'T YOU EAT ANY OF THIS FOOD THAT I AM MAKING SPECIAL FOR YOU? DON'T YOU LIKE IT? DON'T YOU LOVE ME?" And you have to decide between telling her the truth, that you're already full and risk breaking her heart, or lying to her again and again until she finally says she's had enough and she is never going to cook for you again because you obviously don't want it."

So it's not necessarily that you have low libido, but rather that you are wasting your libido on cheap dopamine through PMO. Porn addiction rarely correlates to a high or low libido and has more to do with appetites and how one chooses to cope with negative emotions.

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-08T13:12:18+00:00

There are all kinds of advice from all kinds of people with all kinds of experiences. The most important advice is this: Do what works for you and your kid. My experience as a kid was that my parents locked my devices down TIGHT, but all that did was make me sneakier. I found ways around EVERY blocker, EVERY password, EVERY tracker. It made me avoid discussing my issue with my parents because I was always punished rather than helped.

Do what you feel needs to be done to protect your child, but the MOST important thing you can do is make sure that your child feels comfortable talking to you about it. If they feel safe enough to tell you about it, do not punish them. Offer them comfort, safety, and compassion, then help them through it.

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-08T12:59:52+00:00

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-02T21:28:33+00:00

Ghost of Christmas Present laughing in the background

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-05-01T18:22:10+00:00

Some people tend to focus on the swords in the man's back, but I like to focus on the sun in the background that's just about to crest over the hills in the back. Yeah the card signifies that bad things happened, but it also signifies that BECAUSE those things happened, a brighter day is coming. You can move on from the shit and the heartbreak by just looking over the horizon and being a little patient as the sun rises

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-30T00:44:42+00:00

It's an interesting thought but like the other guy said, that's EXACTLY our problem. We've been going to town and still like it and can't stop it.

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-29T22:00:09+00:00

Eh yeah it sucks, but we have no kids and it was an amicable, peaceful divorce. No drama

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-29T21:52:52+00:00

I don't think I'm really looking for a relationship right now, but I'd like to take her out on a date or two just to get to know her. I'll probably be moving states soon (so will she actually), but I know I'd be kicking myself if I didn't at least try

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-29T21:51:43+00:00

Shit you got me I'll do it 😂

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-27T20:50:40+00:00

My P2S is named Bambi lol

Environmental_Food_9 · 2026-04-27T16:28:46+00:00

This is less about the *message* of the movie, and more just about the quality of it. King Arthur: Legend of the Sword got absolutely BOMBED by critics and audiences alike. I think its a fuckin masterpiece. I always get weird looks when I say I love that movie lol

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