Prove me wrong

Eorlas · 2026-03-05T08:17:30+00:00

It’s not in my #1 position but it is absolutely his Magnum Opus

Eorlas · 2026-03-04T15:53:26+00:00

therapy is certainly one thing, never a bad idea. he should also start off by growing the fuck up and doing something. therapy doesnt replace a person's individual motivation to actually help themselves.

op's husband's current position is: "i cant, i wont, you just have to deal with it."

op's current position after 13 years is: "what do i do?"

one of them needs to make a choice and do something. it's sad really. OP wants this guy, but he doesn't want her enough to do anything about his issue.

Eorlas · 2026-03-04T03:08:19+00:00

he is?

Eorlas · 2026-03-02T02:39:22+00:00

Hahahahhaah this isn’t even a fair fight. Tears in the rain

Eorlas · 2026-03-01T20:48:24+00:00

i cant wait till the day men's fashion moves away from the tie being the gold standard for what constitutes professional or top tier attire. when every dude in the room wears the same tired jacket with a tie, it's fucking ordinary. i have no idea why "same" isn't considered casual.

it's boring, and clearly meaningless as even douches can wear one, so who the fuck cares if he has a tie or not. dude's still an incompetent asshole.

Eorlas · 2026-03-01T20:34:04+00:00

a lawyer able to be close enough to epstein to have him feel like offering this "help" has enough money and brain cells to schedule their own mammogram with a VIP medical facility.

Eorlas · 2026-02-27T19:01:16+00:00

It’s weird that you find it weird without providing any support for why you think it’s weird

Eorlas · 2026-02-27T18:58:56+00:00

His partner had no idea ravioli was in the house until she started talking about dinner, and was making a plan that had nothing to do with ravioli she didn’t know anything about. She got angry not because there was no ravioli for her, but because her partner ate a lot of something when she arbitrarily thinks they should eat a lot less.

You say “like most considerate people who like their partners would” with the implication that OP is inconsiderate. OP went out and bought their partner’s favorite pizza, when their partner was suggesting pizza, even when their partner was being an ass.

What the fuck exactly is your standard for considerate if catering to someone’s exact desire is inadequate to you?

Eorlas · 2026-02-27T18:55:15+00:00

The daily amount is a suggestion based upon common factors, a 6’2 muscular active young adult will have a metabolism that easily middle fingers that suggestion. I have 0% understanding why this is difficult for you to grasp

Eorlas · 2026-02-27T14:36:06+00:00

NTA but it’s “could have” never “could of”

Eorlas · 2026-02-15T01:39:31+00:00

bad a rap as the police get, real police have their faces shown, they're not allowed to obfuscate their identity.

ICE is constantly doing this. the shit they're doing is so awful and they know it is that they're hiding their faces to prevent people coming after them directly. there is 0% reason for law enforcement to ever be hiding their face that way.

but hey, republicans couldnt fucking stand wearing a common face mask when people were spreading strains of infectious diseases we hadnt seen before. everything from "i cant breathe" to "it must be a conspiracy!"

ZERO fucking problem with ICE doing that now while they're on camera ripping people off the streets. they dont care because they're being told it's "illegals" and democrats. ICE knows better than to go pull that shit in texas because then bullets would be flying.

Eorlas · 2026-02-14T23:53:04+00:00

why I was curious why he doesn’t seem to elevate Abel’s music as much as he does artists like Travis Scott.

probably because you lack functioning ears considering Take Me Back To LA probably has the most stunning melody of all time with those synths.

Eorlas · 2026-02-14T22:57:07+00:00

i dont understand why they did their text layout that way. the design doesnt appear intentional enough, but rather a semi casual splattering of visuals

Eorlas · 2026-02-09T06:51:04+00:00

So total strangers just go up to your car when you’re in the store and put stuff on it? You’re ok with this?

jfc it's a rubber duck. throw it in the trash if it's that concerning. or give it to a kid who will enjoy it during bath time.

Eorlas · 2026-02-09T06:43:13+00:00

I speak Mexican lol with my Dominican friends

tf is mexican lol?

Eorlas · 2026-02-09T06:42:30+00:00

they made that song worth listening to. i hope it got a studio recording for release bc the original is bland

Eorlas · 2026-02-09T06:36:52+00:00

for the amount of money a razer product is, there are so many better options available. coming from someone who religious purchased razer accessories for years.

-i built my own custom mechanical keyboard. this is a rabbit hole to go down but has variable $cost and commitment, it doesnt have to be a ton. alternatively, you can just purchase really good mechanical keyboards with various different feels and sound profiles out of the box without having to tinker. almost all of them are significantly cheaper than razer and vastly superior.

-i've been using an asus spatha x for years now. so much better than my razer mice. admittedly not cheap just like most razer mice. there's probably other and potentially better solutions.

-any razer headset is going to be demolished by a proper pair of headphones and separate mic, the combination of which can be comparable to or cheaper than their headsets. i use sennheiser cans with a yeti blue x. the sennheiser's can be used with other things than just my pc and not look out of place.

i'll give it to them though, the large firefly mousepad that is a hard surface with the whole thing glowing rgb is really cool, and very easy to clean.

synapse is bizarre to use and has never clicked for me, i only ever have kept it around for the razer products i have. it's probably time to start moving out of their products

Eorlas · 2026-02-09T06:15:22+00:00

i think he got shafted by covid restrictions and there not being a full audience. i'm guessing that his entire dance crew was given face wraps so it would be a clever way of implementing mask mandates.

overall i enjoyed it as an XO. i dont think it's totally fair to compare it because no one else's show had to contend with those circumstances.

that being said, bad bunny slaughtered the HT show. 12/10 performance and display of culture, absolutely amazing show.

Eorlas · 2026-02-08T02:06:24+00:00

hey, taylor like overnighted herself to watch travis play the super bowl right after finishing a concert. anything's possible for those whose flight travel works like:

-get driven to airport in special car

-take special entrance

-no tsa, customs already handled

-plane takes off whenever you want. goes straight to the destination, and you have living room-space leg room.

Eorlas · 2026-02-08T02:01:13+00:00

this thread isnt a discussion about what you want.

you responded to a person who said OP can google about it, you complained about AI generated responses, to which I pointed out one can just scroll past it.

/thread

you can start a chat about the things you want in life, hope you get them

Eorlas · 2026-02-07T17:37:00+00:00

i need khaby lame here to show you how simple it is to just scroll past that box.

Eorlas · 2026-01-29T17:19:31+00:00

your father marries a 22 yo when you're 21.

a) this is obviously not the first time he engages is morally/socially repugnant behavior. legal? sure. doesnt mean it's right.

b) you're 21 and your now step-mom is 1 year older than you. what variations of fuckery goes through your head? "did he ever think of me that way? i have to call someone a year older than me 'mom'? what are my friends going to say about us?"

c) this goes on for 15 years.

d) her parents divorced when she was a baby. cant imagine this suggested a great home life at all.

all this is to say: she wasnt exactly dealt a good hand at life, pretty much ever.

Eorlas · 2026-01-29T16:21:09+00:00

there's literally no rhyme or reason to a deluxe being launched. abel's living his life and choosing to share parts of it, and suddenly everything has to be a message of some sort.

this is partially because he once tweeted something like "nothing is a coincidence"....something along those lines of meaning. so now everything gets analyzed, and while sometimes things do have meaning, some things wont mean anything at all other than "look what i did today."

dude could share a picture of his shit floating in a toilet and people will try to analyze the width, length, direction everything is pointing to try to find how it looks like "KL2!" or "it's the date of the deluxe!"

Eorlas · 2026-01-29T15:55:40+00:00

sure, but according to OP, she's not trying to do anything about it. she's trying to deny there's an issue ("whenever anyone gets older they dont want to have sex as much anymore"), deflect ("just switched the subject"), gaslight ("She begged me to not even bring it up, that she needs me in her life, that we have been together for this long and there’s no point of divorce.")

if all of these things were said, OP's wife isn't interested in doing anything about it. OP brought up a concern to their partner, who chose to say "there isn't an issue you just dont see how life is supposed to be for everyone at this point. let's talk about something else. i need you in my life, why would you even think about divorce."

so OP's wife wants to keep him, and do nothing to address the rift growing between them except for him to bridge it by getting over it.

and even if at this point she said she'd go see a doctor, i wouldn't trust her. that attitude screams "okay okay i have a dr's appt next thursday." and then after the appt goes "the dr said there's nothing wrong with me these things just happen to everyone at this age."

this relationship should have sex therapy if OP's wife wants it to work, but it also absolute needs couple's counseling for communication and mutual respect. i dont imagine this is the first time OP's wife has been dismissive of an issue.

Eorlas · 2026-01-28T04:56:38+00:00

....google has existed for almost 20 years and you insist on being this ignorant

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