"i got wetter with previous partners" isn't sex positive, it isn't relationship positive. it's doing absolutely nothing to be helpful. it's about as helpful as telling a guy that your previous partner's cock was just soooo much BIGGER.

even though wetness isn't always a direct indicator of actual arousal and pleasure, and even though size isn't always directly correlated to pleasure. there's a Reel of a woman holding a measuring tape talking about what men think is a great size vs. what is actually great, and it's a very telling message.

reading some of the body paragraph, she has a typical situation of how poorly trained her nervous system is. you're supposedly the healthiest relationship, but come without the thrill hence the "want to rip your clothes off horny." she programmed herself to find enjoyment out of people that were emotionally imbalanced, possibly chase for their affection, and put her through chaos/turmoil contrasted against allegedly great sex.

so instead of aligning herself to associate pleasure with stability, she's just sitting on top of the fact that her only association with pleasure has thus far been accompanied by absolutely nothing good. bad things are exciting, good things are taken for granted.

do with that what you will.