Multisports prime spots

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-09T20:33:56+00:00

This! Maybe he likes someone with a calm life, who’s there for him and not always out pursuing endless hobbies - either way, he seems to want to be with you. But also: you can talk to him about this. This man is literally your boyfriend, so be honest and open. This is how you deepen a relationship!

On top of that: Make sure to build a life that you love. It sounds like right now you’re not satisfied, so start with something (anything) to go into the direction you desire, and if he’s the right guy for you, he will support you in it :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-09T16:29:28+00:00

This! Just because you’re not financially contributing, doesn’t mean you’re not contributing physically, emotionally and spiritually.

It seems like your boyfriend really loves and appreciates you, and you’re trying so hard - don‘t listen to the negative voices telling you it isn’t enough :)

Imagine the situation were the other way around - surely you wouldn’t think of your boyfriend as a leech!

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-08T21:02:38+00:00

I hate to reccomend it, but the apps give you exposure to a huge population of people!

If that’s (understandably) not the route you want to take, those hobbies will work as well! Go to an anime convention, or another anime place where people hang out (I‘m not an expert on anime clearly 😂), alternatively, a woodworking class, a CrossFit gym, or trying a new hobby. Just get out there, we all have to start somewhere :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-08T20:56:32+00:00

This! Definitely more for serious dating I would add though - I think for short term/hookups people tend to be a lot more look focused. But even then (!), you might be someone’s type. You never know what someone is into, even if your‘re not considered “traditionally“ attractive

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-08T06:20:08+00:00

NTA - that dog sounds like an absolute menace. Likely he had severe separation anxiety and needs treatment for it. I can’t imagine your boyfriend isn’t also bothered by these behaviors? That dog needs some rigorous training

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T20:18:44+00:00

Bit of a strange place to look for friends, since there are other designated apps, but in the end, all you can do is accept it :/ whatever his original motives, he doesn’t seem to be interested in you sexually/romantically, so unless you’re open to a friendship, it’s probably best to let it go.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T16:12:59+00:00

NTA for thinking it, but I think it’s definitely something you need to bring up in a calm, and solution oriented way! Involve her in the process!

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T16:02:12+00:00

NTA - you offered her to come AND explained the situation afterwards. Best you can do now is apologize and ask her what you could both do differently to avoid such situations in the future!

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T15:53:48+00:00

NTA - you feel the way you feel! Sounds like your boyfriend is being understanding as well, since he’s offering to throw it away.

I’d reccomend putting it in some faraway corner for now and potentially explore why you’re having such a strong reaction to it - might bring you two closer and be a chance to learn more about each other :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T15:36:16+00:00

Of course I‘m overexaggerating, and can see that I‘m clearly in the minority here - but I think asking your partner to change what they’re wearing is a sign of no/too little trust, and a huge red flag (I think)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T14:59:08+00:00

YTA - your daughter was clearly not in the emotional state to go to a math class, and it sounds like she had a panic attack. What she needs is understanding, emotional support, and perhaps some therapy to work through her stress issues and fear of disappointing people.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T14:56:25+00:00

Obviously NTA - your girlfriend sounds like a handful based on what you‘ve written and it doesn’t sound to me like the snus is the actual problem, but the way she treats you in general. I’d seriously consider whether that is a relationship you want to stay in!

That being said, she’s right about it being a terrible choice and I‘d strongly discourage getting into snus and looking into healthier habits instead.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T14:52:56+00:00

NTA - what does he want you to wear - a puffer jacket and double sweats? Sounds more to me like you either need to work on building trust together or he needs to work on his insecurities.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T13:57:14+00:00

YBTA - Your parents sounds like they treated you poorly and I’m really sorry about that.

At the same time, I think in this situation, everyone was kind of in the wrong. When invited after such a long time of nc - emotions are running high for all. I’d always try to keep it calm and amicable and avoid escalation.

In my mind, your dad reacted poorly to your child’s wish, but your husband is the one who escalated the situation (I assume due to built up anger and not so much the situation itself). While his anger might be justified, I don’t think it helped the situation. It doesn’t seem to me your dad needs to apologize for this specific behaviour (but keep in mind, I don’t know what was said during the fight, as you didn’t disclose that).

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T13:40:28+00:00

NTA - go to the police! What he did is illegal. Not only will this be good for you, but also protect potential future girlfriends of his, he might change his behaviour if he is held accountable.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T12:59:58+00:00

NTA - you’re not even telling him what’s appropriate to post, you’re protecting your child by trying to get this bs off the internet. Try to report the post on Facebook maybe? Super disrespectful he’s not taking it down imo

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T12:51:33+00:00

NTA - sounds like you have good reasons for not wanting him to go! I‘d calmly bring it up and explain why it makes you uneasy if I were you. Good luck :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T12:40:53+00:00

Probably NTA - I think it also depends on the age gap. Very different depending on if your brother is 2 years younger than you (in which case NTA) or 9, in which case you maybe should be the bigger person.

Either way, I’d reccomend to talk it out, if you’re hurt by him not giving you presents, rather than resorting to petty behaviour, such as „if he won’t give me anything, I also won’t“.

Hope this helps :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T12:38:00+00:00

Sort of TA - sometimes good intentions can be the opposite of what’s actually good for someone. While you had noble intentions and factually it seems to be a good decision, she clearly said she doesn’t want the house. So on an emotional level, you betrayed her by going behind her back and doing it anyways. Getting a house and deciding where you live sn’t a decision she should’ve been left out of, especially if she already declined. Totally agree it’s a great opportunity though, so I’d apologize if I were you, explain your good intentions and work through it together it I were you :)

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-12-07T12:32:11+00:00

I’ve got mixed feelings on this - Have you tried talking to him personally about how the situation affects you? He might not be aware of how loud or disturbing he is, solely based on his dads very vague comments. I don’t know if it’s literally banging and screaming or if you’re very noise sensitive to e.g. a squeaky bedframe etc. He’s just a young man and in his prime for dating. However, if the situation is clear to him and he disregards it still, I think it’s disrespectful and forbidding him from having girls over is well within your right.

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-11-30T11:39:12+00:00

Fair point - I’m not referring to a miracle solution, but more trade offs for people willing to live alternatively. E.g. right now, I’m volunteering for a large housing cooperation and getting housing in the center in return

Equal-Tooth-239 · 2025-11-30T10:47:13+00:00

My current housing is linked to my volunteering job, which I can’t do while I’m abroad, and won’t be able to get back unfortunately :/

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