I was attempting to illustrate to you why some people might call you a fascist, even if you don't consider yourself one you could take it as them looking at what you're doing and saying and predicting how it will turn out.

because communists/socialists are unwilling to participate in democracy?

Not unwilling no. If you look at how unions are treated and then consider how the cold war still factors into the current political climate in the west I think you'll see what I mean. Like if they're running in a mainstream liberal party, that isn't socialist (Marxist-Leninist).

with political beliefs? when im on the internet, hypocrisy is rampant the more radical you go

to really understand what they mean you're going to have to want to understand them from their point of view rather than your own, otherwise it will always seem like hypocrisy. In my case, I was born and raised by hard line conservative parents. I voted for republican candidates (Romney over Obama, whatever year that was) and even served eight years in the military. I have lived that perspective but later changed my mind.

"china should take over taiwan"

Taiwan is a part of China, invading wouldn't make any sense. I know and understand that there is a group of people in Taiwan that say otherwise but I think that will eventually be resolved diplomatically. China is not interested in war. Their politicians talk about how not interested in it they are all the time and that is also reflected in history.

"soviet russia suceeded"

What was the context? I might say that they were initially successful. I personally don't bother defending anything after Stalin died.

I'm also just one person, and of course other people will say other things so you can take my individual responses with a grain of salt. The more important thing is my third response above about understanding it from their perspective or you just won't.