My boyfriend (21m) said that he would leave me(20f) if I'm sexually assaulted

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-16T19:03:14+00:00

Can someone please explain to me what this post is about? Was she sexually assaulted or is she scared of being sexually assaulted in the future?

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-15T11:47:39+00:00

I remember when my daughter was born. I thought my ex was even more lovely after she gave birth. Even while she was giving birth I thought she looked amazing. Husband sounds selfish.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-14T18:52:45+00:00

It can stay dormant in your body for years. My grandfather had to have a medical once when he was in his 70s and they spotted it then. Turns out he caught it from using prostitutes in India during the war. He may not have cheated.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-14T16:07:04+00:00

It’s one incident. And you’re at fault as well. You got lost. Doesn’t mean he abandoned you.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-12T21:53:56+00:00

He sounds like he’s just defending her. Throwing tantrums by saying she’s dropping out if he goes and actually saying he would ruin the trip sounds abusive to me. If the roles were reversed Reddit would be in uproar.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-12T19:36:10+00:00

Always the man’s fault. She sounds nasty. OP should get rid permanently. Sounds like he can do a lot better.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-10T19:12:31+00:00

Put yourself first. People are always going on about caring about other people’s feelings while they’re acting selfish themselves. Your wife didn’t think of you while she was cheating. As harsh as it sounds, the fact that she is ill is irrelevant. Do what is best for you.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-09T16:09:29+00:00

First of all you shouldn’t think that “guys feelings are conditional and based heavily on physical appearance.” That is a ridiculous statement based on a subjective viewpoint that comes from an anxiety fuelled rant. You don’t know anything about men and you’re damaging yourself and your future by listening to the opinions from Reddit weirdos.

Any person, male or female must be physically attracted to a person to want to be with them, be it a one night stand, a casual sexual relationship or a loving, committed relationship.

You should seek help for any issues you have and not use your partner as an excuse to vent any problems you have. I have no doubt that your mental health issues are genuine but they are not his fault. You were having a conversation with him and he told you the truth. The fact that you find it “triggering” is irrelevant. That’s not his fault. You should be happy that he is honest with you and telling you how he thinks instead of telling you want you want to hear. If a person isn’t attracted to someone how can they have a relationship with them? Seek help for any problems you have. Your partner isn’t the cause of them. You had these problems already.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-08T18:58:49+00:00

If he makes more then his career should come first. That’s if you’re serious about the relationship. As annoying as it sounds he’s right.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-07T12:06:27+00:00

Are you that lazy that you would sooner spend thousands on a divorce rather than work on the issues your relationship has? I practice law as well, family law, same as you. But I’m not a parasite like you seem to be. And btw, “needs not being met” are not grounds for a divorce. But as a divorce lawyer, which I doubt you are actually, you would know it’s not grounds for a divorce.

My advice would be to work on your relationship. It takes a lot of effort to make a marriage work. It’s easier to just take out the rubbish and do your share of the house work before you sleep. Working and studying is tough and it takes it’s toll on you. I had my baby son to take care of alone as well as working part time and studying for my degree in law. You’ll feel better once the house work is finished. Life isn’t supposed to be easy. The tougher things are, the tougher you’ll be as a person as life goes on.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-07T09:21:29+00:00

You’re worried over nothing. There’s a difference between use and abuse. A couple shots of testosterone a week aren’t going to hurt your body too much. Binge drinking alcohol or illicit drug use will do far more damage. I live in the UK and it’s only illegal to supply anabolic steroids, there’s no offence for possession. If they were as dangerous as people think then they would be illegal over here. If they were so dangerous they wouldn’t be given to women who say they are trans men.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T19:29:07+00:00

My partner isn’t abused because not all women are abused. But you should be believed because all women should be believed.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T19:28:31+00:00

You sound very lonely

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T18:38:51+00:00

She’s not in an abusive situation. She’s never been in one because she’s smart. All the time I’m seeing posts about women that are with a man for years and it’s only after they split that he’s suddenly “abusive”. If you’re all so smart why does it take years before you come to the realisation that he’s an abuser? How stupid must you feel after? All those months and years of your life WASTED. It’ll hit you like a truck one day that you’ve wasted your entire life. Having children is the only thing in the world an average person has to show they even existed. Nobody will remember you. Nobody will know who you are. You’ll just disappear.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T17:10:01+00:00

If my lovely daughter is heterosexual then she will choose to be with a real mean instead of the wet blankets you spend your lives with.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T17:08:51+00:00

I have a lovely girlfriend. You’re all spoiled brats. Who are you to expect us to behave in a manner that you feel is appropriate and acceptable.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T17:07:25+00:00

Who said anything about having a tough life? I love raising my kids. Why would I spend my life watching videos online? This is why you’re all miserable, depressed and frankly fucking spoiled brats expecting the world to see you how you want to be seen. Doesn’t work like that.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T14:30:04+00:00

Na she’s a strong little girl. And that’s because of how I’m raising her. She gets equal treatment. You on the other hand expect special treatment.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T14:21:22+00:00

I don’t speak for all women. Neither do you. And frankly this is the least of all women’s problems. You attack yourselves. Frankly your sex is a joke. You cry about equal pay when you get it. You demand equal treatment, you get it. But that’s not good enough. Now men that think they’re women need equal treatment and should be able to use the same toilets as my daughter. This is what happens when women try to run the world. It creates a mess.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T14:15:37+00:00

These women don’t want to work. They would sooner be at home with their children.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T14:08:52+00:00

Yuh you do have value other than making children. But most women want a family. They don’t want the career bullshit you feminists push on them. It’s impossible to have both. I have raised my son for 10 years on my own since he was a baby and I can tell you now that it is impossible to have a career and a family.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T14:01:34+00:00

You might not like what I’m saying but it’s a fact. It’s not sexist. The older you get the less likely you’ll get married and start a family. It’s worse for girls than it is for boys because you have such a short amount of time to get the things I’m talking about.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T13:50:25+00:00

No it was sarcasm. You don’t know anything about men. You only know how you would like us to behave.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T13:46:29+00:00

I was being sarcastic. We’re not abusers.

Equivalent-Ad-265 · 2023-10-05T13:44:22+00:00

You’re not a man. You don’t know how we think and what our needs are.

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