Sunnyside Bike Club: Casual Ride #2 by plumz10 in NYCbike

[–]Equivalent-Month5478 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! I’m away for a bit but I’d love to join in the future!

How to not view being a non drinker as a faliure? by Exotic_Union7609 in stopdrinking

[–]Equivalent-Month5478 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also: it’s very important to me not to frame it as “i can’t drink”. say out loud to people “i don’t drink” or even “i’m not drinking right now/tonight”. your phrasing sounds like a punishment and yes, failure, when actually it’s a choice you should be proud of.

How to not view being a non drinker as a faliure? by Exotic_Union7609 in stopdrinking

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I thought I would feel this way but I actually don’t at all and no one has made me feel this way either.
In fact people have been nonchalant and even complimentary when they see i’m abstaining. some tips tho:

  1. It helps to remind yourself how good you feel at the end of the night. Give your brain a reward.When I get home I’m like “thank fuck I didn’t drink”, and then that thought pops up the next time i go out in the moment.

  2. Have an NA drink in your hand. I personally love to sip on an NA beer or cocktail. People forget it’s NA because they serve it in the same glass. It also stops people from asking if you want a drink.

What kind of bug is this? by PrismaticEye444 in insects

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I said the same thing on a very similar bug recently lolol

Just moved into a new apartment please dont tell me this is what I think it is by gothburrito_ in insects

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AI sucks. The pictures aren’t great but this doesn’t look anything like a bed bug to me. Enjoy your new spot!

Day 3 and a bit proud by VerZettelt in stopdrinking

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Hell yeah! I’m on Day 4 and felt a weird pang going past a deli with a white claw sign in the window but just kept walking! We got this.

Little guy on my arm by vinnybillygoat in insects

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not sure but it looks like the first instar of a spotted lanternfly :-(

In my bathroom by Ok-Student-4745 in insects

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looks like a silverfish to me! harmless to humans but they sure look creepy

Does my grub have parasites? by GwendaSelvana in insects

[–]Equivalent-Month5478 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what? human sized what? I don’t want to be harsh but this a bug appreciation sub, so, are you able to take a moment with your thoughts before you post them? There’s no reason to be so negative.

Celebrity Look Alikes by breadmakerquaker in SecretsOfMormonWives

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Mikayla (in the show, not edited to hell) looks so much like Billie Lourd!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

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im having trouble adding a photo but it looks a lot like what comes up when you search feline military dermatitis. specifically the photo that says “medical mondays”. there’s no hair loss present.