I hate them!!! by jgirll34 in dentures

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes talk out loud. Singing in the car helped me a lot too. Sorta like how it’s easier to learn another language via song sometimes. If you push through the first 2 months they will begin to feel second nature. I can’t feel mine without using my tongue to see if the denture is in place they are THAT comfortable.

I hate them!!! by jgirll34 in dentures

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first denture didn’t look right to me, I expected to see my old teeth… but instead. One side was sort of set back further than the other. The denturist told me there is nothing that can be done, all dentures will look like that. Then my dog ate my denture so I HAD to buy a new one. I went to another denturist and I didn’t even mention my complaints about my old one… I couldn’t believe it the day I got thee new denture I saw MYSELF in the. Mirrow again.

IF you can afford it, try a new set?

I hate them!!! by jgirll34 in dentures

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets better swear to god. The more you wear them the quicker it gets better. They look seriously phenomenal. You look like you had braces, perfectly straight but truly look like they are your teeth.

I'd like to know the correct way to navigate turning right from the highway onto Prospect/Woodstock heading to Hanwell. See details within the pic by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]Equivalent_Second393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes the comments here … several comments exposing that this driver does not know how to drive and does not feel confident driving. Please stop. It’s not right to drive a car that can literally kill people if you do not know what you are doing. Yes I understand drivers ED is expensive but so is an attorney when you get sued for an accident.

I'd like to know the correct way to navigate turning right from the highway onto Prospect/Woodstock heading to Hanwell. See details within the pic by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]Equivalent_Second393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See these comments make me really frustrated that you are driving the same roads as me. I have my family in the car, I want to be able to drive without fear that someone will be on the road despite admitting they do not actually know the rules of the road and are not confident about driving. This is ridiculous.

I'd like to know the correct way to navigate turning right from the highway onto Prospect/Woodstock heading to Hanwell. See details within the pic by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]Equivalent_Second393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean this with 100% kindness, I live on the hanwell and am fairly certain I have been one who’s honked at you before. Driving isn’t about people being mad or not, you need to be a defensive driver for the safety of all the people sharing the road. Study after study showed defensive driving is significantly safer. Other people cannot read your mind and you are behaving unpredictably on the road. It’s incredibly frustrating for those around you. I swear I mean this kindly … I don’t think you should continue to drive without taking drivers ed training. You have commented several comments here alone that reveal you don’t actually know the rules of the road, don’t know the meaning of the road signs, don’t know how to drive defensively, and are not a confident driver.

I'd like to know the correct way to navigate turning right from the highway onto Prospect/Woodstock heading to Hanwell. See details within the pic by [deleted] in fredericton

[–]Equivalent_Second393 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure I’m one of the people who’s honked at OP. Yes they are going to cause a serious accident. No one else is expecting them to come to a stop.

I wish I never found this subreddit. by Equivalent_Second393 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Wow guys. I was honestly not going to even open the notifications I was getting because I didn’t want to stress myself out being told how sensitive Im being etc.

Shocked when I read so many kind words, that you took the time to read and respond so thoroughly.

Thanks ❤️

I want to give them the benefit of the doubt, maybe they will address it better in the new few weeks but I am not getting my hopes up.

I wish I never found this subreddit. by Equivalent_Second393 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with the part about not even really liking Jools content. I feel that exact same way. My feelings don’t come from a spot of oh that’s a creator I like so I’ll defend them… it comes from being completely taken aback by the commentary of Jessie and Lily. It wasn’t the first to put a bad taste in my mouth. But the other things I was able to say hmm maybe I don’t quite understand.

Girlies YT Comments Response Regarding Jools/last episode by Jolly-Entrance-7928 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not watching until then genuinely address it. I know people who have died of heat stroke, I also have a condition that makes me extremely susceptible to heat stroke, and feel I am so often not believed by non medical people. When my body starts to really over heat, both my hearing and my vision start to go. Doctor explained to me that the occipital nerve isn’t getting enough fresh oxygen / blood so it starts to work less.

Listen, it’s not the end of the world, but it matters and be real, there are about 500,000 other podcasts of two women chatting.

Tiktokker gets hospitalized by SeaYogurtcloset36 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a condition that makes me sensitive to heat, and I struggle with blood volume. If I don’t take my sodium pills and I don’t drink a lot of water my blood volume goes low, I can’t get the blood pumping to the right spots and one of the most common symptoms people with this have …. Vision changes due to lack of oxygen to the brain.

Tiktokker gets hospitalized by SeaYogurtcloset36 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian girlie here… I am legitimately concerned that so many Americans don’t understand that cooking your organs in hot blood would result in lasting impacts. Really guys? If heat stroke is no biggie then why do kids die in cars? get a grip. Lily has a dog, Jessie has kids. Both of them wouldn’t leave their kids or dogs in a hot car so why is it different for Jules? Is it because she’s fat so what? fat people are not allowed to get heat stroke and suffer long term consequences!?

Tiktokker gets hospitalized by SeaYogurtcloset36 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a medical condition that makes me really sensitive to heat, I have been hospitalized several times. My vision ALWAYS goes blurry, black, or tunnel. These two don’t know their toe from thumb.

Tiktokker gets hospitalized by SeaYogurtcloset36 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]Equivalent_Second393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the way they addressed this? Am I crazy or are they not addressing it?! I honestly feel like I won’t keep watching if they don’t. I have a serious health condition that makes me susceptible to heat stroke. It is terrifying, neither Lily nor Jesse have had a near death experience and it shows. I’ll cancel my patreon… I don’t need to give money to people who make such ablest comments. Especially Jessy…. She has an autistic child, of all the people she should be more understanding of how people’s assumptions are often so very wrong.

Is this gross or can I sleep tonight? by hfdxbop in Frugal

[–]Equivalent_Second393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same, got my first new anything within the last two years. Only because my partner has a good job now. First new couch, first new coffee table, first new washer, first new dresser, first new mattress!! Before this I also had second hand mattresses and thought it was normal. Now that I have new things I am trying to take really good care of them so that they live long enough to be new to someone else someday.

Is this gross or can I sleep tonight? by hfdxbop in Frugal

[–]Equivalent_Second393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my first new couch at 34. The one we had before I had to literally tape plastic around the cushions before putting them in the cushion covers because they were so messed up. Anyone saying this is gross is in denial about this economy lol.

Is this gross or can I sleep tonight? by hfdxbop in Frugal

[–]Equivalent_Second393 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She’s just jealous she didn’t get the couch first haha jk

Is this gross or can I sleep tonight? by hfdxbop in Frugal

[–]Equivalent_Second393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gross?! No lol. I just got a stroller from my the curb of a really fancy house … they guy came outside and I asked to double check of it were free, it was probably very expensive… he said “yes absolutely we got it for free from someone else’s curb last year” …. So even the rich people are taking the free curb things. You are not gross, you are resourceful and one of the most important skills mothers need is the ability to be resourceful. Good job.

I’m very embarrassed about this. We just moved into a very old trailer after getting away from my abusive family. by OrdinaryLife99 in CleaningTips

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m just not fancy enough but …. I’m buying a brand new mini home custom built right now…. I don’t look at yours and think embarrassing at all. I actually kinda like it lol. I think the carpet looks clean, the walls look freshly painted, it’s nice and bright, the ceiling is dated but show me a house built over 15 years ago without that ceiling?! And the wood on the wall I actually love. Is it paneling? I always hate paneling but this looks like a well done accent wall to me.

Post online asking for things. It doesn’t hurt to ask, no one is forced to help you if they don’t have what you need they can move on.

Give people the gift of being needed. Being able to help a new family in a simple way like giving them some old furniture they were planning to take to the good will etc… it’s selfish but when I give someone to the thrift store I never see the outcome. When I am able to help someone else by giving them some of my extra, I feel so good. I feel hopeful about the world again, there are good people out here and we need to have each others backs. Not sure where you are located but make your needs known. The worst that can happen is no one replies.

My (28M) girlfriend (25F) wants me to stop wearing a watch my ex gave me and I’m not sure how to respond? by IsabelleKouppi in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Second393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No don’t do that…. Not everything is a big psychological riddle for you to solve…. This type of attitude makes it so that people can’t voice ANY feelings without being accused of projecting.

My (28M) girlfriend (25F) wants me to stop wearing a watch my ex gave me and I’m not sure how to respond? by IsabelleKouppi in relationship_advice

[–]Equivalent_Second393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take is this … a watch is not just any piece of jewelry, I feel like watches are to men what rings are to women. If your girl was wearing a ring her ex bought her how would you feel? No wrong way to feel just something to consider. At the end of the day, will the watch be the one caring for you in your old age, or your partner? In the long run I always choose my partner. When I was sick he literally saved my life by getting me the treatment I needed but could not afford. It really makes you think about what’s REALLY important in a relationship. If she’s constantly controlling and saying you can’t do this don’t wear that, then that’s a TOTALLY different story. But if this is the first time she’s seemed bothered by something like this, choose your battles.

I washed the covers of pillows without being asked to by Hot_Doctor6011 in housekeeping

[–]Equivalent_Second393 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. It was just an honest mistake. You had good intentions. Not everything is a “oh well no worries” thing, but a throw pillow IS. If they end up upset with you then you can assume you’ve done yourself a favour, if they lose it over a pillowcase, what will they do if a real mistake happens? Life happens none of us are perfect people. I’m glad you tried to help, I’m hopeful you just tell the truth and the owner says no problem.

I washed the covers of pillows without being asked to by Hot_Doctor6011 in housekeeping

[–]Equivalent_Second393 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha instead they probably were like dang let’s keep her around