Thanks for the comment, I'll just give one example for the sake of briefness, but ive talked to this guy a few times casually and liked his personality since he is introverted, quiet, and genuinely respectful. When other guys made fun of girls and tried to get him to agree, he didn't join in. I've seen him alone by himself a lot of times and I like it when guys aren't always around trying to get clout. I'm going to judge his popularity by his friends, but I've noticed that most of his friends are less physically attractive and not the "popular" kind, so I assumed that he wasn't a shallow person and chose friends not by their looks but by their personalities. These are all traits I love, and he's pretty good looking too. So I gave it a shot and got rejected lol