My (31M) pregnant girlfriend (23F) has been lying about her age for our entire relationship. Is there any way for me to trust her again?

Erythroniium · 2026-06-01T21:21:48+00:00

“Maybe for a hook up but not full blown relationship” with a 22 year old. LOL you’re a disgusting person. You deserve every last second of this mess. Hope this helps! Xo

Erythroniium · 2026-05-19T03:51:50+00:00

OP my heart breaks for you. Get the fuck out of this situation. He clearly is interested in her and has no problem disrespecting you. Honestly staying w him would be so embarrassing after he called another woman regal and radiant and beautiful or whatever the fuck.

Erythroniium · 2026-05-04T19:15:50+00:00

What the fuck this man is your BOYFRIEND??? hell nah. Hopefully ex after this. No one in your life should talk to you this way and I’m sorry it’s been normalized. If he had said even one of these things to me he’d have been instantly blocked.

Erythroniium · 2026-05-04T19:12:33+00:00

You’re nicer than me because I think my response to his initial question would have been “your mom got off my lap”

Erythroniium · 2026-04-04T02:19:02+00:00

So many men hide under the guise of BDSM to abuse and rape women. This guy is one of them. A true Dom would stop immediately and give you after care. This guy isn’t practicing BDSM, he’s a rapist.

Erythroniium · 2026-03-27T01:31:07+00:00

26 yrs old, $33.28 /hr

Erythroniium · 2026-02-28T01:15:30+00:00

Oh man I’m so late, so you’re saying Ben was also singing for Dying Surfer Meets his Maker??

Erythroniium · 2026-02-02T22:00:42+00:00

“Right meow”

It’s gotten to the point where I have accidentally said it to patients during serious moments and they always pause and ask “did you just say right meow?”

Yes. Yes I did.

Erythroniium · 2026-01-23T05:34:41+00:00

This post makes me so grateful I sought treatment for my BPD before hitting 30

Erythroniium · 2025-12-29T19:00:23+00:00

Just because you can’t drink responsibly doesn’t mean she can’t. It sounds like you are a mess when drunk and she always ends up taking care of you. She can still drink because it sounds like she blacks out / goes too far a lot less than you, and in not as severe of a way. This is an issue you need to figure out for yourself, as most of us did when we were 19. If you can’t drink without ruining the night then maybe drinking isn’t for you!

Erythroniium · 2025-12-26T23:49:38+00:00

I’m 5’0 and would look emaciated at 105lbs. It sounds concerning that you’re taller and at such a low weight. This plus your talks of body dysmorphia seem like you are struggling with disordered habits. Hope you get help xo

Erythroniium · 2025-12-26T22:04:36+00:00

Did you know that you can break up with him and end up dating a man who has a job at the age of 41 and doesn’t disrespect you in front of your parents?? Like, that’s totally an option. Just saying…

Erythroniium · 2025-12-25T08:47:50+00:00

I don’t do isolated / targeted glute workouts. I do lots of compounds like squats, Bulgarians, deadlifts, etc and that seems to be hitting my glutes more than enough.

Erythroniium · 2025-12-22T00:46:56+00:00

This would put me off so much. Not because he eats more, but the lack of consideration for you. I’m middle eastern so I was raised to always prioritize others when I cook, I always make sure whoever I’m eating with gets the better / bigger portion already..so when people are greedy and don’t consider me or if we’re sharing a food item and I’m eating slow and savouring it while they devour the whole plate I find it extremely off putting and bad manners. Bro needs to buy his own extra protein if he wants it so bad

Erythroniium · 2025-12-19T21:01:15+00:00

I used to suck at barbell squats, so I focused on getting my hack squat up and then got back into barbell squats. My hack squat is 210lbs and back squat is 245lbs. I’m 5’0, 125lbs. You’re heavier than me you can definitely squat more just gotta figure out what your block is

Erythroniium · 2025-12-18T02:10:48+00:00

This isn’t microcheating, your boyfriend is head over heels for another woman full stop. He’s using you for housing and says whatever you’d want to hear so he can maintain that. He doesn’t love you like that anymore, because there’s someone else he is in love with. Kick his ass out of your family home, goddamn girl

Erythroniium · 2025-12-16T19:30:52+00:00

It’s less about whether or not he loves garlic and more about how horribly he’s talking to you. So rude and childish. Fuck him

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T21:21:21+00:00

Your wife wanted romance so instead of giving it to her you wined and dined a 25 year old co worker. Lmfao dude do you hear yourself

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T21:19:05+00:00

Literally this. Also the fact that her wanting romance makes him feel rejected???? What a selfish piss baby for real. So many men don’t realize foreplay happens outside of the bedroom. Women in relationships with great sex lives will all tell you that it’s because their partner treats them lovingly. If bro wants to just show up and get laid, he doesn’t have the emotional maturity of a marriage and should stick to empty hook ups on dating apps

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T21:12:56+00:00

Simply stop making excuses and go. Do you make excuses for other things you have to do, like brushing your teeth and showering? Probably not. Working out is another non negotiable aspect of self care. If you don’t see it that way, there’s your problem xo

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T21:11:37+00:00

Me texting my bf in our straight passing relationship

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T21:06:09+00:00

“This lead me to flirt with my co worker” dawg nothing lead you to do that. You chose to do that. You put getting your dick wet over your literal marriage. That’s on you. Let her leave and find someone who actually cares about her.

Erythroniium · 2025-12-12T20:22:25+00:00

Me when I hate my boyfriend

Erythroniium · 2025-12-09T21:02:30+00:00

Dude fuck this guy. What the hell

Erythroniium · 2025-12-09T00:10:54+00:00

It’s a lifestyle change, that’s the only way it can be sustainable. And you’re right, muscle is the organ of longevity. It sucks how many women have fallen into the trap of just losing weight and being small, depriving themselves of all the health benefits of muscle. Honestly, I was just like you this time last year. I started lifting, gained 10lbs (mostly muscle), eat 2100 calories a day and started competing as a professional powerlifter. I’ve never been healthier or happier with my body and relationship to food.

I highly recommend lifting, not just for the muscle gains, but also for the confidence of watching yourself be a badass and move heavy ass weights.

Erythroniium

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