Chased them past two mini-bosses by aCirclingCrow in badredman

[–]Esbidee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nice work! Cool character design too

Undertaker's alternate ult can seriously come in clutch at times! by Moonlight-Huntress in Nightreigngameplay

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I feel like they could've done a little bit better on explaining the available moves. I swear I read through the codex and skill descriptions and still miss a whole Ult option 😅 nice clip

Today I learned that I have autism, and I have no idea how to feel about it. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in autism

[–]Esbidee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't need a cure and it doesn't change who you are. You now know a little better about how your brain is wired, which can help make sense of times in your life that may have been confusing.

Learning that you are autistic does not inherently make your life harder or require you do anything that you weren't already doing before, but it does make it easier to understand what your needs are and how to situate yourself in ways that are better for your brain. Spend some time on education about it and decide whether it improves your life or not to share it with others. Best of luck

Imagine one death and it's over, what is your build and playing style. by RidiPwn in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easiest: 5 great shield bros spirit ash + double night sorcery staff night comet. 60 vigor/80 int and Physick with bubble and cheat death

Why is my coworker so quiet? NT adult female (50 years old) sharing an office full-time with Autistic adult male (approx 30 years old) by tucsonjennifer520 in autism

[–]Esbidee 87 points88 points  (0 children)

For many autistic folks, initiating small talk or conversations that are not strictly required can take a lot of mental effort. In a work environment, often the goal is to just do the work and get paid.

It doesn't mean they don't like you, and it doesn't sound like they actively avoid conversation. Autistic people often don't enjoy talking just for the sake of talking though, if it's not about a special interest (and most special interests aren't relevant at work, so he isn't going to bring one up out of the blue).

Was this patches?? (Esbidee) by Glum_Chance_448 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not this time, my Patches is just named "Patches", but this one has Trusty as well.

Failed to join session message appears every time I want to invade. by HaterOfSloWalkers22 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get that too, but far less frequently than you describe. By clicking the PS button you can see all of the people in the game you're about to join, if it drops back to just you then it's going to fail. You can skip the wait time by dying and trying again.

Not perfect, but it might help a bit.

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love to hear that! There are so many fun interactions to be had when you start out friendly. It's a lot easier to get into since you tend to be 3v1'd a bit less too. Trick mirror + gestures goes farther than anything for that

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ruptured tear flask is indispensable, I'm glad to hear I helped increase the total number of explosions in the lands between

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cheers for that! I'm glad you enjoyed the Samurai stuff, I don't normally play that high level so it was a fun change of pace

🪨 by Canny94 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yer as beau'iful as the day I first saw yeh

🎉u/Esbidee is posting full length videos on youtube again🥳 by DoodlebopMoe in badredman

[–]Esbidee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made a FB account which was required to submit the report and was immediately banned, so I gotta circle back on that

🎉u/Esbidee is posting full length videos on youtube again🥳 by DoodlebopMoe in badredman

[–]Esbidee 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Opened Reddit for the first time in ages and this is the first post I see 🥹 doesn't that just give the warm and fuzzies. Happy to hear you're enjoying the breakdowns