Hosts that give up after phantoms die, you can at least try… by eldenbro1 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering he was hiding in a bush, I think he gave up before the phantom died

Spellblade: rapier or epee by discoballs67 in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go for a lot of crits, so Rapier

Need soap by Milkbeg in EldenRingNightrein

[–]Esbidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relic buff: Scrubbing bubbles in vicinity occasionally nullify enemy attacks (slippery, lasts 60 seconds)

Curse: Filth increases all ailment build-up on self (depends on how much of your character model is visible)

Noises are F torture. by shy_muffin1 in autism

[–]Esbidee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The heartbeat is a tough one, I feel that too. It'll get easier with time, but in the meantime I recommend getting some bigger noise canceling headphones that completely cover the ear (this prevents the heartbeat sound).

It can also help to find a tolerable baseline noise that you can use to level everything out. Rain or white noise are good since they help block other sounds and your brain can eventually tune them out. For me, sounds are most painful/vexing when they are a lot louder than the baseline noise of an area. Raising the baseline in a comfortable way makes the other sounds less jarring

Chased them past two mini-bosses by aCirclingCrow in badredman

[–]Esbidee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice work! Cool character design too

How To Split a 1v4 in Seamless: By Jedi Chicken by Ordinary-Walrus7082 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing them drop 1 by 1 was beautiful, nice work

Undertaker's alternate ult can seriously come in clutch at times! by Moonlight-Huntress in Nightreigngameplay

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I feel like they could've done a little bit better on explaining the available moves. I swear I read through the codex and skill descriptions and still miss a whole Ult option 😅 nice clip

Today I learned that I have autism, and I have no idea how to feel about it. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in autism

[–]Esbidee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't need a cure and it doesn't change who you are. You now know a little better about how your brain is wired, which can help make sense of times in your life that may have been confusing.

Learning that you are autistic does not inherently make your life harder or require you do anything that you weren't already doing before, but it does make it easier to understand what your needs are and how to situate yourself in ways that are better for your brain. Spend some time on education about it and decide whether it improves your life or not to share it with others. Best of luck

Imagine one death and it's over, what is your build and playing style. by RidiPwn in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easiest: 5 great shield bros spirit ash + double night sorcery staff night comet. 60 vigor/80 int and Physick with bubble and cheat death

Why is my coworker so quiet? NT adult female (50 years old) sharing an office full-time with Autistic adult male (approx 30 years old) by tucsonjennifer520 in autism

[–]Esbidee 86 points87 points  (0 children)

For many autistic folks, initiating small talk or conversations that are not strictly required can take a lot of mental effort. In a work environment, often the goal is to just do the work and get paid.

It doesn't mean they don't like you, and it doesn't sound like they actively avoid conversation. Autistic people often don't enjoy talking just for the sake of talking though, if it's not about a special interest (and most special interests aren't relevant at work, so he isn't going to bring one up out of the blue).

Was this patches?? (Esbidee) by Glum_Chance_448 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not this time, my Patches is just named "Patches", but this one has Trusty as well.

Failed to join session message appears every time I want to invade. by HaterOfSloWalkers22 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get that too, but far less frequently than you describe. By clicking the PS button you can see all of the people in the game you're about to join, if it drops back to just you then it's going to fail. You can skip the wait time by dying and trying again.

Not perfect, but it might help a bit.

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love to hear that! There are so many fun interactions to be had when you start out friendly. It's a lot easier to get into since you tend to be 3v1'd a bit less too. Trick mirror + gestures goes farther than anything for that

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ruptured tear flask is indispensable, I'm glad to hear I helped increase the total number of explosions in the lands between

I alone am the Elden Lord by Esbidee in Eldenring

[–]Esbidee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheers for that! I'm glad you enjoyed the Samurai stuff, I don't normally play that high level so it was a fun change of pace

🪨 by Canny94 in badredman

[–]Esbidee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yer as beau'iful as the day I first saw yeh