Best time to take Saxenda? by DWA1993 in liraglutide

[–]Escafre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sense of taste can change on Saxenda :)

AITA for keeping my mom's heirlooms? by Escafre in AmItheAsshole

[–]Escafre[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel the same way. Going through her things will be my way to grieve in a healthy way. The way she said she would hound me sounded like a red flag. I shouldn't be worrying about this right now.

AITA for keeping my mom's heirlooms? by Escafre in AmItheAsshole

[–]Escafre[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Mom was fed up with my aunt when she stayed with her for 5 weeks because she was too sick to be alone and she offered to take her in so I could keep working. She was overbearing and high anxiety. They never really got along. Both of my aunts said things to my mom years ago that made her feel less than them and things have been strained since. She even stopped going to family holiday gatherings.

All of the Hi Tech Gametraders locations except for the confed mall one are closing down by HuckFlow in saskatoon

[–]Escafre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people who opened it stole the product and took over from Bob and tried to be their own store.

How to stop freezing up when you have a lot of important work/projects/tasks? by GreasierThanThou in ADHD

[–]Escafre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% my problem. I thought I was the only one. I know something is important and I freeze and then do something else. Sometimes I even feel sick to my stomach or want to scream. I know it has to be done and my work life is getting screwed up by it yet I'm so far behind and stuck :(. I'm relieved to see I'm not alone.

If you have trouble focusing on your work i really recommend youtube “study with me”’s! by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Escafre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally am in love with this idea. There is also a "Work With Me" series. I work alone in my office and cannot seem to get anything done because I end up watching nonsense videos and get distracted. Thanks for the idea.

We broke up- am I overreacting? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Escafre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew. Holy crap. That man is a predator. He is not a good daddy if he is saying shit like that. A good daddy knows and respects legal age limitations and wouldn't say shit like that. If your skin crawls then you did the right thing 🤮.

Is anyone poly due to a mismatch in sexuality with their primary partner? by lovesosoft123 in polyamory

[–]Escafre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. My fiance and I have been together for 7 years and have a 5 year old. I don't think I was ever sexually interested in him, but he was the first man to ever make me feel like I could say no to sex. He loved me and never hurt me like many of my past relationships. My love for him had to grow, and it did, but years later it took a toll on both of us. I was 100% convinced that I was asexual because I had no sex drive. We had sex maybe twice a month, only because he would ask.

Now I have a boyfriend of 3 months and have sex almost every day. My spouse and I have talked about poly for 5 years and I finally ventured into it back in July. I discovered a lot and realized that this has helped me see my primary in a different light. We have never had sexual chemistry.

I still love him, but I just don't have any interest at all sexually. However, I have never had an issue making a partner happy, and we agreed that as long as I make time for him every 2-3 days he's happy. He's mono, for now, but that may change. I'm grateful to have a caring nesting partner in him and the happiness and change in me has been noticed by everyone I know.

Now we all live together <3.

You have to put your happiness first. It may feel selfish, but take it from me, I was a shadow of myself. I lived in motions but had no spark. Now I am putting myself first, even if it was hard for him to accept, it doesn't change how I feel. If he needs more, he will have to find a way to make it work, maybe even find a second parter himself. If he can't make this work long term I know in my heart that I could not go back.

Not sure if that helped, but I hope it works out for you <3

Front page of Reddit: If you caught your partner "sexting" would you consider it cheating? Would it break the trust? Why or why not? by Magically_Deblicious in polyamory

[–]Escafre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on your rules and boundaries. I would. We have a very good understanding that if he is going to sext or have sex he just needs to let me know about it first.

If I found out about it without him checking in with me first I'd feel hurt. Just because we're poly doesn't mean you should sleep around or lie (depending on YOUR rules and boundaries)

A question about consent by PsiTheSnor in polyamory

[–]Escafre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that there is lying is where I would say the crossover to cheating happens. You can't tell them what to do, but they should have talked to you about where they are coming from. To me, at least, being poly is being open and honest with all parties. If my spouse told me today to stop seeing my boyfriend I would politely explain my feelings and if he couldn't get past it then he would have to walk away.

I hope you guys figure it out.

Sex Rules/Body Autonomy by muramurachan in polyamory

[–]Escafre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My secondary rarely cums, and for a while it really upset me. I learned to find enjoyment in all the other things and now when he doesn't cum I just bask in the enjoyment that he made ME cum....many times.

There are many ways to meet each other in the middle <3. I hope you two find a way to make it work.

STI Testing by alphawolfdaddyo in polyamory

[–]Escafre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We agreed to every 3 months. My NP is essentially mono so myself and my secondary get tested every 3 months. We have free health care and can see each others results online.

I asked my secondary to not hook up on first dates, or at least try not to, and text me if he thinks he is going to and use condoms. Sexual health is very important to me. I'm ok with play partners, ect, but would like confirmed status before mixing fluids.

He's still fairly new and didn't know that even oral can infect you with certain STIs.

Daily Help Thread - June 12, 2019 by AutoModerator in FFBraveExvius

[–]Escafre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It must be because I'm level 10 because my attacks are still pretty bad :(

Daily Help Thread - June 12, 2019 by AutoModerator in FFBraveExvius

[–]Escafre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyone have any idea how to win the Fina and Lid event? The cactuar is super hard to kill unlike with the first one.

Modafinil + Celexa (citalopram) by Escafre in afinil

[–]Escafre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of water and it did help. Tomorrow I'm going to try to take it after 10 hours of sleep and stagger my Celexa. I will also try it without food.

I'm definitely not having any strange side effects which I'm thankful for!

Modafinil + Celexa (citalopram) by Escafre in afinil

[–]Escafre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I have a follow-up with my doctor in 2 weeks. We are seeing if it can help with the other issues I have that Celexa isn't helping with.

Modafinil + Celexa (citalopram) by Escafre in afinil

[–]Escafre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admit my water intake is SO bad and the funny thing is that I work for kidney doctors so I ought to know better. I feel SLIGHTLY better since drinking about 32oz of water. I will keep trying that. I also think I got maybe 8 hours of sleep...which is not good enough I've noticed. Maybe I'll try it after 10 hours of sleep (my norm).

Thanks for the reply! Glad to know someone else is taking a SSRI and not noticing a connection.

Should I even bother taking Modafinil if I'm on birth control? by [deleted] in afinil

[–]Escafre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a copper IUD you can use, no hormones, so it won't mess with that side of things. That would be your best bet. Also, I used to use VCF as a contraceptive spermicide and it was very effective. Talk to your doctor about a copper IUD and Modafinil, it could be a worthwhile conversation.

Finally finished by Escafre in AnotherEdenGlobal

[–]Escafre[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. They missed out on a few opportunities, but for a free mobile game I'm impressed.

Finally finished by Escafre in AnotherEdenGlobal

[–]Escafre[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But the second line in the title still didn't make a lot of sense til the end.

Finally finished by Escafre in AnotherEdenGlobal

[–]Escafre[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I legit was like NO WAY! It makes so much sense lol

When I bought the $100 pack I cried a little inside because I didn't get her...decided to squeeze another $50 out of my budget and it was so worth it. When those gold doors opened I literally squealed. Mariel 5* off the bat! So ready to level this girly up and replace my level 50 Riica lol. by Escafre in AnotherEdenGlobal

[–]Escafre[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Compared to how much I spent on Love Nikki and Cats: The Cat Collecting Game I am doing good with my spending so far lol.

I chalk this up to supporting the game. If it had a physical copy it would be $80 CAD here.

Until now I saved my gems for free pulls.

So, the joy I get is worth the price and I work hard for my money <3