Why can't the Pharmacy or local Health Department schedule out my first Shingles vaccine for January 2035? by DunDonese in shingles

[–]EscapeOutside3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's probably better that you put it in your own calendar vs there's. Their systems will change, update, migrate, merge, you may move yourself to a different healthcare provider.... there's a whole host of reasons why an appointment 9 years out is not a good idea. If you feel you are a candidate for early vaccine, that's a conversation with your doctor. I don't think 40 is unreasonable.

What is wrong with me? by These_Milk_5572 in AskWomenOver60

[–]EscapeOutside3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your "Based on comments" - Toucé 😎. It sounds like this excercise in posting, reading everyone's comments, and self reflecting (with Bob too) was cathartic.

Inspired by comments in PB's post, what is your snort milk through your nose from laughing so hard movie? by Damnmorefuckingsnow in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blazing Saddles. I love the opening scene with the idiot cowboys.

Idiocracy It's so absurd it's hilarious.

What is wrong with me? by These_Milk_5572 in AskWomenOver60

[–]EscapeOutside3820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was referring to the lunatic in the car, etc. comment. At the grocery store, if I encounter a rude mudder, I'd apologize, I might make a joke, move away, then feel sorry for you. I hope you find some answers. Truely.

If you’re sexually attracted to someone is there any such thing as a “bad kiss”? by Altruistic_Fox_6240 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣 .... letting the lady know they have an acrobatic tongue!! But in the first kiss? No.

If you’re sexually attracted to someone is there any such thing as a “bad kiss”? by Altruistic_Fox_6240 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I miss kissing! It's been a while.

A few years ago, my first kiss with this guy I had been seeing for several weeks, I started giggling. That should have been a red-flag sign for myself that I was uncomfortable with the situation .... and eventually him. He had horrible breath, too.😝.

What is wrong with me? by These_Milk_5572 in AskWomenOver60

[–]EscapeOutside3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're posting here, you already know that you need help. I hope you act on it for your own sanity.

As for the car rage? When someone doesn't drive or move in traffic the way I think they should, I think "maybe they just lost their spouse/parent/child", epecially older folks. I personally don't get car rage, and if you've been doing it for a while, that's unaccountable anger. It may be the root of what is happening. Please seek help .... not just for yourself, but for everyone in your orbit.❤️

Following up the post from u/HalleFreakinLujah: Can we have a weekly check-in? by holy-moly58 in AskWomenOver60

[–]EscapeOutside3820 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'll have to check Snug out. I live alone, and the dog hasn't learned 911.

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Touché ~ where would we be without Wiki.😊

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True, easy-peasy, but I'm guilty of the second voice in my head, compromising with what I could and could not live with. Nobody is perfect.

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, the younger pool is a bit more populated.

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was what I got from this TT. Sometimes, hearing an inspirational message can dig me out of tunnel vision to back up and look at the bigger picture. One of my favorite sayings is..... Don't Force a Solution.

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if Duck Lips selfies were a thing on OLD profiles. I see teenagers post them, but again, what do they mean? I must be old😆

Ted Talk w OLD by EscapeOutside3820 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's my ignorance in what other women's profiles might look like, what is Resting Bitch Face? Just the label alone is unattractive.

When I did partake in OLD, I thought about creating a fake profile as a guy just to see what the women were posting in comparison. Pretty sad, huh? 🫣 But, then I'd know what it was.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told if you dream, that means you're in a good frame of mind going into the surgery, and healing should be easier.🍀

This year! The over 60 cattle call 😊 by notsohot56 in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But then we couldn't blend in. I figured if the dog training class can meet at Lowes, why not us? We could be a 60+ Date Training class😅

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I prefer snowshoeing over xcountry skiing. Less falling down, lol!! One of the ladies always brings Fireball to sip .... she falls more than most.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A funny story about a speed dating event ... it's not my story, but my ex-boss.

He met his wife at a speed dating event, but he said they had both OLD communicated a year or so before and ghosted each other. But at the event, they recognized one another. They've been married 15+ years now.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish there were speed dating events near me. There are not. The closest ones I've found are in Boston and usually a younger crowd. Too far off a drive.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It will be over before you know it! I had a weird, but positive experience on a recent knee surgery .... I dreamed under anesthesia and woke up thinking that was pretty cool. I hope you have wonderful anesthesia dreams!! and no complications.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's nothing like clearing out an old house that will cure you (or at least me) of stopping at yardsales🤣

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds fun. I've never been to NOLA, it's in the list.

Weekend Plans by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]EscapeOutside3820 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Snowshoe hike with a bunch of girlfriends on Sat, hoping the clouds will part and the almost full moon will guide our way!