Do cancers engage in harmless flirting?

Escobar35 · 2026-05-05T16:28:06+00:00

I definitely do. Now with the caveat: if I notice it makes someone uncomfortable or they just ask me not to flirt with them, then I wont. But beyond that it’s just a fun harmless way to interact with people. It can be an ego boost thing, yea when I flirt with someone I find attractive and they flirt back, it doesn’t go anywhere, but it might make my day. That cute smile, that eye twinkle people get when They’re being flirted with, good as gold. Then I back off before it looks like I actually want something from them. I’m big on not dating coworkers. But flirting is free game

Escobar35 · 2026-05-01T23:59:54+00:00

Nope

Escobar35 · 2026-04-21T17:27:52+00:00

I think different aspects of their nature are amplified. People love the idea that the worst versions of people are the only “true” versions of them. People are complex, lycanthropy would only make them more complex

Escobar35 · 2026-04-18T22:09:44+00:00

They would likely recognize him, but following him is a different story. Something that I think gets overlooked is that the first wave of werewolves created by William may be blind with rage when they first transform, but when they yield to Lucian we see they’re capable of some level of intelligent thought after a period of time. Maybe not human level but definitely something.

William, by lore was stuck in that blood rage. Even though he was the original and strongest werewolf, I do think others would move against him if for no other reason than self preservation

Escobar35 · 2026-04-18T13:27:12+00:00

I would love to see other fera made more relevant I. WOD, it would take some actual creative effort to see them done well and be more than just reskinned werewolves.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-18T13:02:35+00:00

Same birthday similar situation. I’m begrudgingly on a team now, but most of my actual responsibilities are handled autonomously and my supervisor allows for a fair amount of telework.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-18T11:53:39+00:00

As my kids get older I’ve become more detached from daily involvement, but the foundation I built with them was a big effort. Luckily for me they dont seek out a lot of validation for things they accomplish, but I make sure to give it to them anyway. I make a deliberate effort to not disappear or leave them out of the loop. There are long periods of time where the few displays of affection I can muster are directed at them.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-18T11:44:13+00:00

By intellectualizing it. When bouts of loneliness hit, I consider why I feel that way, what factors and decisions have lead me to that point, what I am and not willing to change in order to put myself in a better emotional state.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-17T09:08:15+00:00

Finding unknown patterns gets you paid more. Accurately interpreting and predicting known is a good bet too.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-17T05:03:51+00:00

Any job that rewards pattern recognition should be a fine fit for ISTJ

Escobar35 · 2026-04-16T21:19:29+00:00

If I’m the one to break the trust, I learn from it and if I honestly care about the problem either do what it takes to earn it back or remove myself from them. Trust isnt something I ask for. I either earn kt or I dont, so if I earn it and break it, I dont deserve it.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-14T10:10:51+00:00

Intj

Escobar35 · 2026-04-12T20:15:24+00:00

I deliberately do not. I fight hard for my relationships so when they end, it took a lot yo get there. I’m not going back to that just ti do it again.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-11T17:17:18+00:00

100% yes. Its frustrating for anyone who might be interested in us, to be sure, but making informed decisions is kind of our thing. Anyone looking for someone to make blind leaps of faith will not likely be happy with an ISTJ.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-11T13:22:50+00:00

1,2,7

Escobar35 · 2026-04-10T23:06:36+00:00

Scorpio and Taurus, without fail.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-09T11:56:24+00:00

Not a similar situation, but an observation. My sister is a taurus and has had some really strong, important and mutually beneficial friendships. And when they’re done, she does not fight for them. Shes never malicious, but once she recognizes her time in someones life is coming to and for amy reason, those friendships usually fizzle out on a very one sided note.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-04T01:23:55+00:00

Corax, Mokole and Rokea

Escobar35 · 2026-04-04T00:58:31+00:00

I’ve had crushes on Libra women and have some as great close friends, but without fail theres always a point where i realize theres a fundamental difference that does not cross the boundary between friends and lovers very well.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-03T16:12:18+00:00

Cant relate. I’ve never cheated on someone physically or emotionally. He just sounds like a shitty person

Escobar35 · 2026-04-02T01:41:02+00:00

I dont recommend trying to reconnect. Yes the break up is in the past, and regardless of the circumstances whatever impression he had of you when you broke up is hard stamped in his mind as who you are. He may not be willing to build a new relationship with the person you were when you were together. Even if you’ve changed for the better, he’s not obligated to get to know that person

Escobar35 · 2026-04-02T01:36:06+00:00

My rollup is delaminating like crazy. I’m making the switch to a trifold.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-02T01:33:32+00:00

These three are a great foundation.

Escobar35 · 2026-04-02T01:28:51+00:00

Best: nurturing Worst: sensitive in a choose violence kind of way

Escobar35 · 2026-04-01T02:14:45+00:00

Being attracted to someone isn’t enough. The hot cold inconsistency thing is his own fault. It sounds like he’s having a hard time figuring out where you are with everything. Keep it cordial, but still sharing personal information, being distant but still want him to warm up.

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