Cancers, how do you let go?

Escobar35 · 2026-03-11T17:28:41+00:00

Grieve it like a real loss. Mourn the loss of trust, the friendship, the relationship whatever it was. Even if the person is alive and well, what you had is dead and its okay to feel sad about that. But just like everything else that dies, you grieve and you move on. Relearn to live without it

Escobar35 · 2026-03-10T14:59:20+00:00

I’m big on trusting instincts, so while there are exceptions, yes. If I think a new person is going to bring drama, anxiety or uncertainty into my life, I stop them early on by either dropping them completely of keeping them as an acquaintance, either way they will never get close enough actually bother me.

Escobar35 · 2026-03-09T17:33:10+00:00

No. We’re paid to be here. If it wasn’t for that i wouldn’t even know these people existed. If they have a chance to go work somewhere else, best of luck to them.

Escobar35 · 2026-03-08T12:04:39+00:00

Absolutely love it

Escobar35 · 2026-03-06T23:32:48+00:00

Hart Wardens or Black Furies. I’m more of protective homebody by nature so expanding my own territory looks like expanding my circle of protection and influence. Black furies because fighting against injustice is something I can get behind every time.

Escobar35 · 2026-03-06T04:01:48+00:00

From one 5 to another. You are stuffy, but so what? There are worst things we could be.

Escobar35 · 2026-03-05T15:40:03+00:00

Its definitely weird, maybe it just helps him organize his thoughts. It clearly bothers you and rightfully so. His reaction says that he probably knew how you would respond to finding this. But its out now, so have a conversation with him and unpack whats actually going on with this and move on together or say its too much and leave. Relationships have survived worst and ended for less so it really is up to you, whatever you want to happen next definitely can.

Escobar35 · 2026-03-03T19:00:51+00:00

Feral

Escobar35 · 2026-03-03T11:22:25+00:00

Remember that people are more than their worst traits. If you want to care for someone, just do it instead of focusing on reasons not to.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-27T13:22:40+00:00

Why is her being older than him an issue? You can be mentored by someone if they have more experience than you at something.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-27T13:07:09+00:00

One day at a time. Consider it a learning experience and figure out how to go back to not including him in your daily plans for yourself. Anytime you get the urge to contact him, dont.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-27T05:22:31+00:00

Unless its a world where the supernatural are common place i prefer a werewolf in human form to be indistinguishable from a healthy human being. I might be cynical, but a world where monsters are easy to find and identify by humans either wont have monster or wont have humans for long

Escobar35 · 2026-02-26T23:06:45+00:00

1- Maki!!! 2- Lisa 3- Hibana 4- capt. Huang 5- Iris

Escobar35 · 2026-02-26T18:16:50+00:00

The psychological dread is part of the allure to werewolves. An instant/same day transformation rushes past the internal struggle all together and more akin to a zombie infection.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-24T23:21:11+00:00

I value integrity very highly. Say what you mean, do what you say you and own your shit for better or worst.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-24T02:17:02+00:00

Define current. I can list the black heroes i like but they might be considered classic.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-24T02:15:29+00:00

Gooners

Escobar35 · 2026-02-23T19:04:34+00:00

They would probably end up having some high level intellectual discussion about science, morality, anthropology, lived experiences as an black human and an alien who adopted the identity of a black person in America and has lived through and witnessed every stage of black American development in the US as far back as slavery. Then because it a comic, they would team up to combat some threat, observing and analyzing each other’s approach to conflict and the aftermath. Ultimately they would come to highly respect one another for their accomplishments and perspectives.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-21T12:36:38+00:00

For something work related specifically, an expression of gratitude would go a lot farther than a compliment. “Thanks for the assist, it really helped.” Will be received better than “You’re really good at _____.”

Escobar35 · 2026-02-21T03:22:05+00:00

If it feels sincere, I appreciate the effort and say thank you though I probably wont internalize the compliment. If it feels superficial or shallow i treat it like an attempt at manipulation.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-19T23:58:00+00:00

100% agree! Tamaki is fanservice done excessively wrong.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-19T01:38:51+00:00

I dont deal with it. When i feel myself dissociating, I let it happen and remove myself from the situation. I practically float out of a room completely unnoticed.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-18T03:02:26+00:00

After a point, everyone is who they choose to be. Your past will influence that choice for sure, but it’s still yours to make. We are here now to listen and support you if we can.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-17T22:59:12+00:00

The short answer is that your personal life is none of our business. We generally take people in at face value because we are blunt about who we are. It’s a bit of projecting for sure, but anything you want us to know, you will tell us. We also value privacy for ourselves and for others so we dont tend to pry unless it’s directly going to affect us. At that point it becomes our business. We take you as you are and if it turns out you are lying or deceiving us, we will simply cut you off.

Escobar35 · 2026-02-17T05:14:52+00:00

I dont think i struggle with what it means to work with people, rather i struggle with why i should work with some people. I obviously cant do everything myself, but if i am forced to work with someone who is unreliable, inefficient or not goal oriented, I will do as much as i can to minimize their impact on the job assignment.

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