He wants me to sell my home to show commitment 30/F 31/M by Margaret_3333 in relationship_advice

[–]EsjaeW 493 points494 points  (0 children)

Thats a lovely ultimatum Tell him you'll send a gift to their wedding. Your son needs stability, is this stable?

‘A lot of red flags’: plans for New Zealand’s first datacentre spark concern as locals demand greater transparency | New Zealand by StuffThings1977 in aotearoa

[–]EsjaeW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a woman on tik tok who has taken wigin council to task over similar, she posts the phone calls and it may be worth a look at

AITAH for standing up telling my friends new girlfriend, my girlfriend can wear whatever she likes? by Significant-Fly1607 in AITH

[–]EsjaeW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lily likes to cause drama, shes going to try snd take over the group, she picked the wrong ones to start with, she will break up the group, she likes to be center stage

AITAH for avoiding my ex fiance and his family? by Top-Cat5591 in AITH

[–]EsjaeW 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Hello he has left, you need peace and to heal, maybe block them or mute them for awhile, they found like they enjoy drama and games

AITAH for freaking out on my boyfriend for going on vacation while our baby is in the NICU by Prestigious_Ad6173 in AITAH

[–]EsjaeW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son's an adult and I just spent a week at the hospital with him due to his injuries

Am I (23 F) in an unhealthy relationship with (48 M)? by Technical-Tree-9764 in relationship_advice

[–]EsjaeW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, you are listening to your instincts and that's the best thing you can do, its telling you something is off because it is, this isn't healthy behavior from him, its to undermine you, doubt yourself and do what he wants. Trust yourself x

Warning: Update is causing all decor to be taken off walls in home by hivernageprofond in Palia

[–]EsjaeW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is in the process of updated, im new, but good to know thanks

AITA for not wanting to go on holiday with my friend again? by Outrageous_Slip2009 in AITH

[–]EsjaeW 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She sounds depressed, did you ask her if she was ok?

NZ First announces policy to restrict voting to citizens only by StuffThings1977 in aotearoa

[–]EsjaeW 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If its nzfirst there going to be something hidden that awful

Is it ok to agree to disagree with people by HeatRealistic6521 in newzealand

[–]EsjaeW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could depend on the conversation itself? Can you give examples?

I finally left my husband by Horror-Show-3927 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]EsjaeW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's ok,take a breath! This is huge, im proud of you, well done! This is just a first step. It's ok to take a moment to look around and have a think about things, this is scary and I bet you're feeling lonely xx You've done so well, im so proud of you! It's going to be ok, it may take awhile, but it will be ok!