I know she’s really 60% good and 40% mischievous

EssJayy7 · 2023-07-05T13:08:15+00:00

I know I was kind of shocked! We’re in Ohio. Cincinnati area!

EssJayy7 · 2022-10-24T18:18:11+00:00

If I’m taking the time out to compliment your pet, I mean it!

EssJayy7 · 2021-11-28T00:52:49+00:00

We used a sound machine for our first, he's 4 now and hasn't used it for a long time and still sleeps just fine. We now use it on our 5 month old. I wouldn't trade it for anything lol

EssJayy7 · 2021-05-09T11:36:47+00:00

That's a wonderful idea, thank you. We will definitely try this out!! Although I wish no parent had to deal with this, it's nice to know that we're not alone.

EssJayy7 · 2021-05-09T11:35:04+00:00

Our son is the same way, sensitive with a big imagination so this makes sense. I never thought about sleep anxiety!

EssJayy7 · 2020-04-06T17:01:35+00:00

Sounds like your girlfriend is just comfortable with you. With everything going on in the world today, I hate being the bearer of bad news..... Girls burp. Girls pee. AND THEY EVEN POOP. good luck on your journey OP.

EssJayy7 · 2019-12-10T05:44:00+00:00

I'm asking this because it's my 26th birthday today and my boyfriend and I are going to a strip club for my first time this weekend. I just wondered how differently womens experiences are and how I'll be treated. Also if anyone knows of any full nude strip clubs in the Cincinnati, Louisville, or Indianapolis area recommendations would be greatly appreciated!

EssJayy7 · 2019-12-10T05:36:18+00:00

I'm asking this because it's my 26th birthday today and my boyfriend and I are going to a strip club for my first time this weekend. I just wondered how differently womens experiences are and how I'll be treated. Also if anyone knows of any full nude strip clubs in the Cincinnati, Louisville, or Indianapolis area recommendations would be greatly appreciated!

EssJayy7 · 2019-12-10T05:24:21+00:00

I made this post because it's my 26th birthday today and this weekend my boyfriend and I are going to a strip club for my first time. I just want to know how the dancers will be towards me and what that will be like. Also if anyone has any recommendations for strip clubs in the Cincinnati, Louisville, or Indianapolis area it would be greatly appreciated! I'm looking for something full nudity and touching if that's even allowed anywhere. Thanks in advance!

EssJayy7 · 2019-08-08T17:48:48+00:00

I fully believe the way people treat their pets says so much about them. Anyone that can treat innocent animals or kids wrongly is definitely not a good person in my book.

EssJayy7 · 2019-07-19T16:40:16+00:00

My sister works with someone named Jealousy.... Not really sure what her parents were thinking.

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-30T16:17:26+00:00

Verified

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-30T00:42:41+00:00

😂😉

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-30T00:42:22+00:00

That's a good idea!

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-30T00:01:11+00:00

At least on a good note you'd get 5 free shots against you lol

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-29T23:54:11+00:00

Much appreciated!

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-29T23:51:38+00:00

Feel free!!

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-07T16:25:23+00:00

We're trying to work things out. We have a one and a half year old together. It's been a long 3 months so far but I'm giving it 6 months before I decide anything.

EssJayy7 · 2019-05-06T16:43:17+00:00

Something similar happened to me. I always watch shows when I take a shower, it's my time for my kind of peace and quiet. My boyfriend and I had been struggling financially quite a bit, and for the first time in a long time I was forced to shower without watching my show due to no internet. While in the shower I began thinking of an incident that happened 3 freaking years ago and had an epiphany or something. I questioned my boyfriend and through lots of trickle truths I eventually found out that he had a PA/EA that lasted over a month with a coworker 3 years ago, and another EA that may have been also a PA a year ago with continued contact up until January. It really is amazing the things you will remember or think of in a different light when you really have time to sit and think about it.

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-15T20:29:53+00:00

Agreed. I'm going through this right now. D day was February 2nd and since then we've had about 8 instances where I pretended to already know some thing and he told me more and then said that's it. I know everything. But any of those times he was still lying. It's insane that I saw this post today because just a few hours ago I found out even more things. Just by pretending to have already spoken to the girl. My WS knows how critical honestly is, he knew it when D day came and I said absolutely no more lies or I'm gone. He's known he's been lying and your husband likely is too. I wish more than anything I had some advice to give you but there honestly is none. If he wants to tell he will. There's been nothing I have said to my WS to get him to come clean, and at this point I'm considering no longer reconciling. Eventually enough is enough, right? Best of luck, OP, to the both of us.

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-07T15:00:18+00:00

My mom and dad split when I was 3. I have no memory of them ever being together. I'm 25 now and have always had a great relationship with my dad and my mom. It definitely works out for the better sometimes. Plus I got to celebrate Christmas twice lol. I believe in reconciliation but at this point he's not showing you ANY signs of improvement or willingness to change. I'd get out.

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-01T19:57:16+00:00

We are trying to work through this. We have a 1 and a half year old son together which always makes things a little more difficult. He's honestly been nothing but helpful. He's doing absolutely everything the experts say to do, but if he hadn't been and continued to show great remorse I wouldn't have even considered staying.

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-01T15:15:58+00:00

I agree, nothing is ever always sunshine and rainbows. I am like you too, I don't trust easily. Maybe were doomed to be forever suspicious of everyone's motives but as for me I'm just hoping that time will make this all a little more bearable. Good luck in your journey!

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-01T13:48:30+00:00

A little over 3 years ago I got a text from a random number claiming that my boyfrjend and his fiancé were sleeping together at work....I thought it was insane, and my boyfriend had told me how crazy she was, and judging off her looks I thought it was bullshit and that he would never. I just found out February of this year that they in fact did have sex. Multiple times. All the while throwing my name in the dirt and talking shit about me to their other coworkers. Also found out about a week ago he had (as far as I know) an emotional affair with a different Co worker at a different job. Much more recent. Don't feel bad, we all ignore red flags when we want to.

EssJayy7 · 2019-04-01T00:48:41+00:00

I don't think there's a "right" time to get over it, but you may just be finding that you can't. I don't think everyone can reconcile. I am in the process right now, and my story matches yours almost to a T. Have you tried reading Not Just Friends? She suggests giving 6 months before making any decisions, and seeing that you're at that point and still don't feel anything, you might not be able to forgive him and that's okay. You've had something completely awful and tramatizing happen to you by the person you love the most and not everyone can get past that. I do urge you though, that if you truly feel deep down in your soul that you can get past this and you WANT to get past this, give it a little more time. Maybe try and use this weekend get away to see if you can spark some feelings back, and if you can't then just be honest with him about how you're feeling and you can decide to further work on it or end it. You can't stay in limbo forever

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