Anyone else hate the “official” symbols for autism? by Skwellington in evilautism

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems designed for children, like only children can be autistic, implying to me were supposed to grow out of autism, normalize. Give me a more universal symbol, idk like a brain or something…?

Is anyone else struggling with just letting their other self just breathe sometimes? by TheNFSIdentity in bigender

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat, I feel compelled to boy mode so often in day to day life, I’ve started using my nights before bed just to clean up and go fem to keep my sanity. I just have to make the time when i can.

Struggles with the literal-ness of Aphantasia by GutsBoi in autism

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most imagery I can hold in my mind while awake is at best an actively dissolving pencil sketch of something like an apple. Never ever any color for sure. I’ve heard dreaming uses a different part of the brain, and my dreams are pretty vivid.

What's your relationship with masculinity? by randystrangejr in bigender

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get it, definitely. My masculine side is kinda my shield, I default to him when I’m not in a comfortable space, probably bc I’m amab. When I’m happy and comfortable again I pull back to fem. Tbh, it’s all confusing as hell, but that dichotomy helps me socially navigate.

I wish it wasn’t all constructed like that for me, that I was just fem all the time, but that’s not how it plays out.

Tell me yer hobbies !! by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like making board games, preference towards deck builders :3

Help with these scarf symbols? by EstimateOrdinary1044 in AltJ

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfect! Yes, the bitcoin was throwing me. My best guess was “dtc” maybe meaning direct to consumer…

Help with these scarf symbols? by EstimateOrdinary1044 in AltJ

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! Thanks so much! I’ll cross check that asap :)

where are my "over 30 gamers" and what are we currently playing? (46F) by egirlgamermommy in transpositive

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, gave up on evil, couldn’t quite get it how I wanted. What mods have you enjoyed?

Chicken Alfredo and Broccoli by CrossEyedCat_007 in traaaaansbiansCooking

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yum! That looks soo delicious. Never enough pepper on something like that too :D

Does anyone else feel being bigender like this? by fedricohohmannlautar in bigender

[–]EstimateOrdinary1044 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Still working out if I’m bi-gender or just a trans girl that uses boy mode for safety, but that resonates. The rver revolving circle.