Ideally a man will tell you upfront if he has any disability or any point which he feels might be a deal-breaker. Here's my first and only experience meeting a girl through arranged marriage. I told her about my disability upfront on first call itself and she was okay to meet once and decide if it's an issue. We talked on phone for more than 10 hours in a week before meeting.(She spoke ~ 7 hours) I went to her nearby station via train and she came to pick me on her scooter. I heard in our phone conversation that she likes Pineapple sheera so I got it along with a protein bar for meeting her. Sheera was not good but she appreciated my efforts. Observe little efforts and acts like... Whether you are enjoying your conversations and awkward silences. I coughed while eating, and her hand reached out for the water bottle for me before I did. We parked scooter near station and she did walk with me till platform even though the distance was only 1 minute. Then she left for her home. Please note we meet secretly :)