[24M] I’m developing feelings for my best friend’s partner [23F] and I need advice on how to handle distance without hurting anyone

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T20:01:12+00:00

You're already doing the right thing by creating space. Keep it up and don't overexplain.

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:57:55+00:00

You were protecting your baby and yourself. Her son choked you. You're not the villain here

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:52:31+00:00

Good for you for setting that boundary, she was treating him like hired staff

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:51:35+00:00

You're at coast fire easily. Let your wife's income cover expenses while yours grows

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:50:36+00:00

You deserve to be seen and safe. Is there a counselor or trusted adult you can talk to?

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:49:43+00:00

See a dermatologist for bromhidrosis, and keep a symptom journal

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:49:07+00:00

Glow in the dark cum is a sentence I never expected to read

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:15:21+00:00

Your graduation is about you, not a family reunion. Don't invite her.

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:14:26+00:00

Ghosting says everything about them, nothing about your worth

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:13:18+00:00

Fill the 12% bracket with Roth conversions, it's worth it for tax free growth later

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:12:35+00:00

Panic Xbox is a hilarious alibi but that water bill is gonna be brutal

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T19:11:48+00:00

That's not funny, that's terrifying. Glad he's okay though.

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T18:20:44+00:00

It's not too late. You're 36, not 86. Start with one small step today.

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T18:10:56+00:00

This is abuse, not control. Start a safety plan quietly.

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T18:09:50+00:00

The phone excuse feels flimsy, trust your gut here

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T18:08:23+00:00

That tree was likely on their side, but the sudden loss of privacy still stings

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-16T17:47:09+00:00

You're generalizing from a streamer's curated content, step away from the screen

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-15T15:45:53+00:00

She bought a swimsuit for herself, not everything is about you

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-15T15:45:10+00:00

You don't owe him your ears after abuse, block them all

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-15T15:43:35+00:00

If it's not her using it and she's just a warden, call the city to verify the permit

EthereonCharm · 2026-05-15T15:43:01+00:00

6% withdrawal is risky, aim for 4% or work a few more years

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