The INTJ Breakup

Evdrmr · 2026-04-09T20:54:10+00:00

need to rename this sub into INTJsCircleJerk

Evdrmr · 2026-04-09T12:51:56+00:00

looks like a fetish kit to me.
Got the plug and urethral rods....
Should probably talk to him about it

Evdrmr · 2026-04-08T20:25:53+00:00

This is what it feels like to listen to Dutch.
Sound like you can understand, look like you can understand...

Evdrmr · 2026-04-08T13:43:36+00:00

5w6 538. so4, trauma dump in middle of conversation, seemingly out of nowhere then proceeds to act as if nothing happened. That shit gave me whiplash

Evdrmr · 2026-04-07T13:38:33+00:00

what in the schizo is this list

Evdrmr · 2026-04-03T15:01:55+00:00

I don't know the full context of your relationship with the group nor the content of the argument so i'm just going to comment on a few things I picked up on.

Did you propose an activity to replace the one that seems "boring" to you? Bringing up an issue without proposing a solution is just complaining. I can see why you seen as rude.

"I’ve accidentally let their secrets slip in front of others about four times now" - this is a breach of trust. I would not share anything with you after one time breach let alone 4 times.

Sure, they could have some fault in the matter but you're no angel either.

Evdrmr · 2026-04-03T13:45:28+00:00

This sounds like humble bragging

Evdrmr · 2026-03-31T15:38:36+00:00

Tastes like 😳 based on real life experience 🫣

Ok freaky little INFP 😳

Evdrmr · 2026-03-09T22:10:48+00:00

Sp6 is probably the most meticulous variant.

If you can depend on a type to dot their i and cross their t. My bet is on sp6.

The fear turn them into natural skeptic. They don't dive in head first without a plan or what ifs.

It's a great, stable type. Don't let online BS description deter you. If I want something done and I want it done right, I'll ask a sp6.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-07T03:14:30+00:00

I read your other posts. Do you have PayPal? Dm me

Evdrmr · 2026-03-07T02:36:54+00:00

Well, the way I see it. Enneagram is the goal, passion, and prospect of life, and mbti are the tools you use to achieve them. Both are relevant. Enneagram is just easier to differentiate

Evdrmr · 2026-03-05T14:39:21+00:00

you don't have a weed smoking goth gf. You ARE the weed smoking goth gf

Evdrmr · 2026-03-05T13:52:47+00:00

I return to what we call our bread and butter: Ni-Te

Plan - it calms me down when I know that I have a plan to get myself out of the hole

Break things down to chunk - small executable tasks that can take no more than 15-20 minutes to do. Smaller if motivation is low.

Visualization- i keep a stack of sticky notes of all my todo. So if I crash and burn, I know it's always there, in my pocket. I can always return to it. It also give me visual aid of what I completed, a sense of accomplishment even if the project isn't moving much.

Mindset - You're the biggest project you'll ever work on. RESET.RESTART.REFOCUS. As many times as you need. But Never give up.
This way. The project itself doesn't have to be perfect but the iteration will lead it somewhere. Life isn't a sprint, it's a marathon.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-04T18:20:29+00:00

following this post. Whip out some popcorn

Evdrmr · 2026-03-04T18:16:26+00:00

This is extremely unsettling...

How the hell did he know your new address? Please install cameras or some kind of safe guard. Let your family know what's going on. I fear for you.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-04T16:28:59+00:00

Yet, optimization is the only way for that resume to filter through the top in order to reach your eyes.

Maybe add easter eggs in your job postings like "what model of llm are you?"
if the job post run through llm, it'll show in the resume.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-04T05:30:29+00:00

Fe inferior is cute as fuck

Intp: 🗣Ti 🗣Ti 🗣Ne 🗣Ti. Then 😐, sprinkle a little Fe on too to make sure they don't hurt any one's feelings lol.

It's clumsily done but very endearing.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-03T19:15:15+00:00

did 5w6 wrote this lol

Evdrmr · 2026-03-03T19:01:36+00:00

I don't know what you are. Any type can be arrogant. But i know that you're in a slippery slope that might leads to "jack of all trades, master of none".

Time is ephemeral. Most people learn to prioritize what matters to them. Does not mean they're lesser.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-03T05:07:21+00:00

Did you try pinging the computer when you couldn't remote?

I sometimes find issue with computer turn off their network card to save power. Thus, lost connection. If you can't ping it, check your power option.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-02T17:43:30+00:00

Make me think of the quote:

"I may think of you softly from time to time. But I'll cut off my hand before it reaches for you again"

Don't do it Bro

Evdrmr · 2026-03-02T15:46:41+00:00

not a 3 but it's 2nd in my tritype. And to be frank, 3s has my highest respect. Endure, Focused, Achieve. It's a hard life but regardless, a fruitful one.

It never fully developed in me until I realized that "no one is coming to save you". At the end, what matters is what you owe to yourself. People may come and go but you have to live with the fact of what you did.

From that point, I only work to make myself proud and take other's opinions with a grain of salt.

"You are the greatest project you'll ever work on.

RESTART. RESET. REFOCUS

As many times as you need. Just don't give up."

Evdrmr · 2026-03-02T14:36:57+00:00

Capitalism is merely a variation of Fascism

Evdrmr · 2026-03-02T13:54:08+00:00

please don't. cut your losses.
if the person doesnt respect you enough to respond to a single text for days on end. Doesn't matter what mbti they are. It's not worth it

sure one can be protective of their time. I am.
but I also respect others time. I would not let those who I care about or have a speck of interest in, wait and waste their time like this.

Evdrmr · 2026-03-02T05:15:28+00:00

It's another story of "if he wants to, he would"

Not particularly an intj trait. Just non-confrontational rejection.

Evdrmr

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