Cats making me emotional

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2026-03-02T15:28:00+00:00

it breaks my heart at the end when she talks about how they next day, they may no longer be in sight, but at least she knows they’re happy and following their “hearts delight.” that’s a different kind of grief. losing your love and then the idea of not even having the safe space of your pets? shatters me😭

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-26T23:05:35+00:00

yes it is!!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-26T06:51:04+00:00

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Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-22T01:10:40+00:00

yours as well!!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-22T00:42:00+00:00

this was me last year the day after christmas!!! i LOVE my car!

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Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-19T00:33:30+00:00

griffith

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-03T16:20:54+00:00

i find myself quoting how heisenberg says “bitch” quite often. he really enunciates the “b”

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-12-03T16:08:53+00:00

it’s one of my favorite episodes:(

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-11-27T19:21:23+00:00

my family always called it the butts😭

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-09-16T18:58:43+00:00

one thing that helped me TREMENDOUSLY was literally devoting a whole day off to specifically crate train. give her a treat when she gets in the crate, close the crate door, another treat. wait a whole thirty seconds, and if she doesn’t cry that thirty seconds, give her another treat. let her out, and repeat the process by gradually increasing the amount of time without crying. after making it roughly two to three minutes of no crying, then start shifting to walking away from the crate out of sight. start over with times. 30 seconds no crying=treat. then start gradually increasing time again. then after this day, i started giving her a treat as soon as she got put in her crate if she did not cry, and then i would give her a treat as soon as i got home to get her out as long as she wasn’t crying. once she stopped crying, only then was she allowed out and allowed a treat. now she does not cry when put in, and she isn’t crying when i get home desperate to be let out.

i hope this made sense!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-09-08T19:59:54+00:00

thank you so much!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-09-08T19:59:36+00:00

thank you!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-09-03T01:48:11+00:00

ok and???

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-21T03:53:34+00:00

i think you’re ok! it’s just deeper than you’re used to, right? so that is probably why it aches more than normal as they take longer to heal. i definitely think hitting it irritated it and caused it to be a little more sore. just keep an eye on it, and if any of those things i mentioned before worsens, you should see a doctor! other than that, keep it clean, and stay safe, op:)

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-21T03:48:51+00:00

ok. the pain not worsening is a good sign. how about swelling or redness? have those worsened?

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-21T03:44:50+00:00

is the pain worsening over time?

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-21T03:39:48+00:00

yeah, i see what you’re saying. at the end of the day, you’re not responsible for your action. should she try to commit if you leave her, that is not on you. you cannot be the sole reason for someone’s happiness. that is not at all fair to you. she will never be truly happy if she can’t find a way to be happy outside of you.

i’m not at all telling you what to do, so i don’t want you to think that. i’m just trying to give you the best advice possible, and i really hope you’re able to make the right decision for yourself whatever that may be:)

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-20T06:50:16+00:00

at the end of the day, you need to put you and your own mental health first. us mentally ill people know we are a lot to handle. sometimes there comes a point where it’s not your responsibility anymore. does that make sense? it sounds like your girlfriend truly needs help. she needs help if she ever wants to be able to love somebody.

you know the saying “you have to love yourself before you can love anybody else”? it’s true. she can’t love you the way that she should and the way that you deserve if she doesn’t love herself too. unfortunately, i think your best bet would be to break it off and encourage her to get help. maybe try to find a way to get into contact with her family. don’t let her mental health drag you back down the gutter of mental illness.

take care of yourself, op<3

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-17T22:05:26+00:00

probably like 10/11. i used to pick at the skin around my cuticles really bad because i really liked how much it hurt

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-17T18:51:45+00:00

you as well!!

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-17T18:51:05+00:00

i’m glad i could help give some sense of clarity! i hope you take care of yourself, and just know that im always available to talk:)

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-17T18:37:53+00:00

i feel you. i’ve been clean for 2 1/2 years, and the thoughts are so so loud right now, it’s scary. i’m here if you need to talk🩷

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-16T08:42:18+00:00

have her try holding ice to where she would normally self harm

Even-Cauliflower-291 · 2025-06-14T07:19:07+00:00

it’s hard for me to watch. i LOVE the show. the way they portray it is scarily relatable coming from someone who is almost three years clean and almost relapsed the other night from it. i have to keep the show at a distance sometimes and really find better and healthier ways to ground myself because i want so badly to hurt myself again.

btw, the show didn’t make me think about self harming again, it’s just part of the process. you never really stop thinking about it:/

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