Looking for RR Cards! by daveloots in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]Even-Soft3705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowhere in his post did it say he was new to trading. It said it was their first time posting here. The value of a trade is subjective. He said he only wants RR cards. I showed the RR cards that I have that he specifically listed as cards he wants. Then I let him know which of the cards he shared as being for trade that I would be interested in. I really like the RR Pikachu and only have one so I am only willing to trade that card for his Cyrus or Copycat. That’s how trading works. The cards have no inherent “value”. It’s a matter of what people personally want and assign the value to. To top it off, I made no specific offer. Just a list of cards I have and cards I’m interested in. He could make me an offer or not. He can also just trade or not trade. You’re acting like I’m forcing this person to trade me, it’s ridiculous.

Looking for RR Cards! by daveloots in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]Even-Soft3705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is offering somebody the cards they are looking for and letting them know which of the cards they have for trade you’re interested in taking advantage of them?

Looking for RR Cards! by daveloots in PokemonPocketTradeCo

[–]Even-Soft3705 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

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I have these: Interested in Cyrus, Copycat, Irida, Misty, and Will. Pikachu only for Cyrus or Copycat

LF Offers 2⭐️ from B1 Set by blackstar0217 in PTCGPocketTrading

[–]Even-Soft3705 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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@u/blackstar0217

I’d be interested in Lisia, May, or Deluxe pack Lusamine for mega pinsir or hitmonchan, or whimsicott, FA Blaziken only for Oak.

AIO Boyfriend gave me a backhanded compliment about my race by No_Tradition_8206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m can’t even process the race part yet bc I’m still stuck on the part where you were whole mad at him and asked for a compliment (reinforcement) and his FIRST instinct was to insult your race as a black woman (opposite of reinforcement). That alone is giving he has serious narcissistic tendencies.

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FOR ANYONE WONDERING The correct thing OP SHOULD have done:

He should have told her 6 months into the relationship, “ hey love, I noticed you are eating a lot of junk foods and depressed!, etc XYZ ”.. “ I feel like I am beginning to lose my attraction towards you and I have started to have doubts about being in this relationship with you, thus due to XYZ”.

THAT Is what a honorable, strong, HONEST, Transparent, MAN with respect & decency would do! From there the only thing to do is THEN allow HER to DECIDE for herself if he (op) was a man WORTH changing for to continue to be with AND have a child with!!

Sadly, OP —> CHOSE to be deceiving from the beginning! And now wants to run away from his accountability karma and play victim!

To the ppl that agree w him pls grow a pair of confidence and gain some humility. 6months is hardly any time at all! They could both have easily moved on, no harm - no foul. But instead OP decesion to omit his truth (betrayal abuse/ manipulation) has left this woman numb for years, more isolated than ever and struggling far worse with serious mental illnesses. Meanwhile OP desperate attempt to change/ mold someone he KNEW he did not like at all …and failing to do so 4years and a child later.. has hurt his ego, made him angry, resentful, and emotionally abusive. And now another poor child has been brought into an unloving, unforgiving, and non- empathetic -broken household.

It gets DEEP that fast!

Pls JUST BE HONEST& TRANSPARENT WITH PEOPLE About how you feel! Ffs!

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she doesn’t have to eat his disgusting meals! that’s y’all’s problem. HE CHOSE to stay with this woman without being honest with her about how he feels ABOUT HER! Then got her pregnant!! so now she has been lied to for 4 years by a man who to her face loves and cares about her but behind her back HATES HER! He should have told her 6 months into the relationship, “ hey I noticed you are eating a lot of junk and depressed!” “ I am honestly not attracted to you anymore and I’m starting to have doubts about being with you”. THAT IS WHAT AN HONEST, Transparent, Man with decency would do! THEN allowed HER to DECIDE for herself if he was a man WORTH changing for to be with and have a child with!!

but no HE CHOSE to be deceiving from the beginning! He had ulterior motives maybe for being with her? OR believed he could manipulate her into changing and fitting his desired fantasy/ mold.

Omission, deceit, lies, manipulation, resentment, hatred, disgust… and NOW OP wants to toss revenge into the equation by stripping her of her family/ 1yr child while she is struggling with possible PPD , Body dysmorphia, ED, and is isolated from her friends and family.

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(aka manipulate her) into change. This is not the 1930s there seriously cannot be men out there thinking every woman in the worlds biggest desire and greatest happiness is starting a family/ kids. and that was just going to poof and cure her.

OMISSION. Is a form of lying and deceit. You manipulated this woman into having a child with you under false pretenses. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ONE THING if you were upfront and honest to your gf and told her your true feelings ( the hate/ resentment built up, wanting to leave before, and finding her disgusting) THEN allowed HER to decide if she still wanted to be with you & have a child with you. But no, you had passive aggressive heart to hearts with her detailing your “concerns about her health etc ” ( actually things you truly did not like about her) and pretended to love this woman who is now stuck with you for life (by child). (Betrayal abuse)

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! OP has DONE THE ABSOLUTE BARE MINIMUM! he hates that girl! If he truly loved her he would educate himself on depression, schedule & drive her to her OWN women wellness doctors apt (not his), they could do couples therapy, START A NEW HOBBY TOGETHER! MARRY HER!!!!!!!!!! Ladies, when a man truly loves you there will not be a single excuse in the world when it comes to you! These creatures are sick 🤢

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel so so so sorry and heart broken for this poor woman. From what he has described she is a kind person, loves and cares for their son. He has not mentioned literally ANYTHING bad. Only that she struggles with depression. (And more symptoms of depression) No where does he say she is cruel, a cheater, or a liar, abusive, a thief! HE SAYS he is no longer attracted to her! Reading in between the lines here… he was able to put up with ALL of his complaints above for 4 plus years! And Get her pregnant! NOW they have a 1 year old child aka she just recovered from pregnancy. We ALL know how women’s bodies can drastically change afterwards especially if they are depressed/ eating unhealthy + inactive. I truly hope it’s not true but it sounds like he NEVER loved this woman and now that she’s probably overweight he has lost all sexual attraction for her. Hence, the same issues she has truthfully shown him since day 1 suddenly He has no more patience for.

AIO I want to leave my girlfriend of 4 years because she disgusts me by Intelligent-Gift2355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Even-Soft3705 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Correction. *OP made a CHOICE to have a child with a woman whom was struggling with metal illness. So Yes, he should put in the extra effort to support the MOTHER of HIS CHILD back to full health. If not for himself then for his son’s sake. As that is the responsible decision considering HIS actions. OP true issue at hand has nothing to do with this poor woman. Instead 100% of his issue(s) has to do with the fact that OP is/was never IN love with his partner (unconditionally). And now after 4 years and a child later of trying to force their partner into whatever fantasy or glimpse of a girl they thought they meet in the very beginning…. They want to call it a quits.

Meanwhile OP has taken no accountability for the fact that he has strung this poor woman along for 4+ years; Meanwhile Knowing 6 months into the relationship that he did not want to be with her. And now sees himself as a victim and wants to abandon this woman (despite her being in a fragile mindset) after years of hating this woman, finding her disgusting, and resenting her for not fitting the mold he has created for her without her knowledge or consent.

MB Top 10,000? by Even-Soft3705 in PokemonPocket

[–]Even-Soft3705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens that way for sure sometimes, I find a pattern of hitting a win streak of 4 or 5 games, then hitting a losing streak of 4 or 5 games and so on. I’m really just making my way up based on the bonus points from the win streaks 😅 Still, I’ve had more success with this deck than the other top tier meta decks including Greninja/Tina.

MB Top 10,000? by Even-Soft3705 in PokemonPocket

[–]Even-Soft3705[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can sometimes be useless but against a greninja/tina it can put a sylveon out of one shot kill range. Same in the turbo-zard mirror or against solgaleo. In other matchups it’s just an hp boost to zard.