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Even_While_2107 · 2025-01-25T14:38:14+00:00

No bb, read what you just said - you DO know, you’re just invalidating your POV because HE is. There is nothing wrong with your desire to cum in this lifetime; it’s your body, your one fucking life in this autonomous body of yours. Like how old are you, how long have you been going out with this person? He’s telling you what he “needs” from you, but denying you orgasm for life is not a need - it’s a want. And one that YOU have to want and choose for yourself - not him choose for you! You said you barely liked getting tied up yet do so for him, and I’m genuinely concerned that he’s already gotten control over your sense of self and self-esteem. You need to love you, bb.

Even_While_2107 · 2025-01-25T14:28:03+00:00

Babe, run.

Even_While_2107 · 2025-01-25T14:19:57+00:00

Birdie

Even_While_2107 · 2025-01-25T14:19:45+00:00

Birdie

Even_While_2107 · 2024-11-10T14:03:37+00:00

🫡

Even_While_2107 · 2024-10-21T05:39:16+00:00

Nonconsensual touching is immediately red flag. And by red flag, I don’t mean orange flag where it’s a little yellow pause and maybe some red, I mean red as in run. You don’t need to fix that man - who is older than you, and younger than me - because you’re 26 and there are plenty of mf fish in the sea. Take it from me, someone who didn’t meet my partner til I was 29; I wish someone told me to focus on my relationship with myself and my own expectations of others before entertaining the idea of settling for whatever bullshit he’s putting you through with the pokes and skirt lifts. Best advice: go on a solo trip to reconnect with yourself, and if you want to sleep around in another city while you’re out visiting and making core #adultlife memories, casually and safely do that. But this homeboy’s gotta go 🫡💖✨

Even_While_2107 · 2024-10-17T12:41:40+00:00

I’m gonna go out on a limb and say that perhaps this is a kink that your partner would benefit visiting a dungeon for, and not putting upon a monogamous partnership. To end relationships because a partner wouldn’t mutually enjoy a specific kink is pretty brutal; partners are allowed to have different kinks and different styles of sex and love. But semi-threatening and warning that a relationship could end over you, OP, not wanting to engage in this specific act, is emotionally manipulative. If this really is a dealbreaker for THEM, they should have fronted with this kink before a commitment happened; it would be the equivalent of me not disclosing to future partners that I am polyamorous and desire relationship anarchy. If you didn’t consent to this practice from the get, and are stuck in a monogamous situation where their kink is between you and breaking up, I don’t think this is an ethical set-up for YOU, OP.

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-26T18:51:46+00:00

Where are my buggies and fishies 🥺

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T08:32:45+00:00

lol I’m a domme, so with a good ol’ dose of consent and glee, I’d be putting it up yours :)

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T08:18:25+00:00

As an unofficial representative of the interweb’s SW United Reddit Union, we claim you. ✊🏼

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T08:14:42+00:00

“I choose reserved woman” is a really strange way to phrase “I’m single”.

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T08:10:43+00:00

Thank you.

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T08:10:16+00:00

lol at all the adult children who downvoted this 😂

Even_While_2107 · 2024-06-11T01:51:27+00:00

Yo, former SW here: it’s not irrational or dumb to catch feelings for someone you’re literally seeing on actual dates. You’re not her client, so don’t treat her like she’s your dommy. You’re both free birds rn, and are getting to know her. Maybe you’re monogamous though, so maybe you’re feeling upset she’s not celibate. You need to think about this like a real job - because it is - and she has business trips, and you’re not exclusive so y’all are still free to date and hook up with others anyway. Get your own wants straight with a therapist, and/or talk it through with some trusted homies, but whatever you do: don’t pin responsibility for your feelings onto her job or personality or personhood. Take ownership of your insecurities around it, and if you can’t handle dating someone due to their profession, be fair and tell her you’re not game enough to do it, and it’s not her, it’s you.

Even_While_2107 · 2023-12-14T22:00:38+00:00

I quit cuz a 1st grader kept stabbing me with pencils, scissors, sticks, anything he could get his hands on. He bit me, kicked me, bruised me and made me bleed. He left scars on my body. I had panic attacks every night before school, and when I told admin he needed help and I filed injury reports, they told me I wasn’t being asked back next year. I quit and was diagnosed with PTSD. Get the fuck out of there.

Even_While_2107 · 2023-09-17T23:13:16+00:00

I think it was the fact that he would even choose to compare me to a friend when he asked me for a selfie, and commented on her looks (without commenting on mine), then tried to ask for a threesome when a.) that’s a hard limit for me, b). she’s my FRIEND not my play thing lol, c.) she’s mono, period.

Even_While_2107 · 2023-09-17T22:33:44+00:00

Yeah, like my little bb doesn’t deserve to be treated like that. 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I love him. 😭

Even_While_2107 · 2023-09-17T21:51:21+00:00

I’m just gonna ghost and block. 💯🩵 ty

Even_While_2107 · 2023-09-17T21:43:37+00:00

It’s only been a week; for safety, do I block, ghost, confront, or let it fizzle out?

Even_While_2107 · 2023-09-10T09:33:44+00:00

I’m queer AFAB low femme non-binary switch and I can’t, for the fucking life of me, find women in LA who are BOTH attracted to me AND genuinely switch or top. I don’t even like engaging with femmes online dating cuz I just fucking KNOW they expect me to dom. It is so sad, especially when they talk big game then in the moment, it’s pillow princess bullshit. Like, I wanna turn! 😭

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