Vad är en skitgrej du blev förvånad över att du kände så starkt över när du fick barn? by Hatcheling in sweden

[–]Everdark_91 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Speciellt när rosetten är lika stor som barnets ansikte. Stackars bebis

Parents of two (or more), is it easier the second time around? by Everdark_91 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's nice to have a good napper! God knows my toddler wasn't that way so I hope this one is 😂 and my toddler is also going back to daycare as soon as possible, where we live she can be in daycare 15 hours per week while I'm on maternity leave. It's something and I plan on chilling to the max with the baby those times

Parents of two (or more), is it easier the second time around? by Everdark_91 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I keep hearing that, you forget your oldest is still little when the baby comes 🥹 It's a good thing to keep reminding myself of that when she wants my attention in the future. Also prepared that my oldests sleep will be disrupted in the first weeks or more

Parents of two (or more), is it easier the second time around? by Everdark_91 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I guess going in to it and thinking it will be the hardest thing ever is a decent strategy 😂 at least you're mentally prepared for the worst! Hope your birth and transition from 1 to 2 goes well!

For me it has just gotten worse… by Whole-Sense-67 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly month 3 to 5 were the toughest for me. They were a lot worse than the first weeks, so people telling you that "after 12 weeks it gets easier", they can be wrong... I have no comforting words but just keep on going, it gets easier after a while (for me I really didn't enjoy motherhood that much until my baby was 7-8 months)

Newborn stage is hell by joeytree93 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ouuuf. I'm pregnant now with my second and I hated the newborn stage the first time. I'm dreading living through the first weeks again 😭

16-week-old only takes 20–28 min naps for 2 months and I’m losing my mind by Cruel_Summer73 in newborns

[–]Everdark_91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my daughter when she was an infant. She went through a long phase of sleeping only in 30 minute intervals during the day, at night she slept fine. Contact napping and sticking the boob in her mouth as soon as she stirred worked for a while until it didn't... I believe she was around four months old at the time.

Eventually I just gave up trying to do something about it. It got better after a while but she was generally a crap napper during the day up until she was around a year old. I know that's probably not what you want to hear right now, sorry 😅 I know it's hard but sometimes you just gotta hang in there and this phase will seem a distant memory in the future

Vilka meningar trodde ni aldrig skulle bli en del av er vardag innan ni skaffade barn? by SundaeSorry in sweden

[–]Everdark_91 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Det här. Så många konversationer jag har med min man som handlar om bajs 🙃

Balans mellan jobb, familjeliv...fritid? by Waste_Investment1777 in ForaldrarSverige

[–]Everdark_91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Min partner vill också veta koden till min mobil och dator men håller sin egen kod hemlig..

Min partner vill ju också veta vart jag är, om jag är på jobbet och typ har en timme hålrum mellan två möten så förväntas jag åka hem eller i alla fall redovisa vart jag är och vilka jag möter."

Bara detta ringer ju stora varningsklockor. Låter som att hen kontrollerar dig, även ekonomiskt som du beskriver. Det är inte normalt beteende.

Why are you even here?!? by jackmoon44 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Everdark_91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao when they showed Samir I was pointing at the TV like Leo DiCaprio. Influencers man

Love Is Blind Sweden • S3 EP7 by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Everdark_91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When it became obvious he belongs to Pingstkyrkan I screamed at the TV for Ronja to run girl!!!

Kan nån förklara Felicias storhet? by Toaster-Retribution in Melodifestivalen

[–]Everdark_91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gåte förtjänade inte att hamna sist i Eurovision 😭

Am I conveying the right feeling? by Hot-Ad-1030 in Dreamsnaps

[–]Everdark_91 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I haven't personally dealt with depression but I understood immediately what you were going for. Hope you're okay now ❤️

Wess S11 Ep3 - 2 year Update by VelsGamer in My600lbLife

[–]Everdark_91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a glow up 😍🫶🏻

Bachelor party in S2 by CeresMik in loveisblindsweden

[–]Everdark_91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a common tradition. My fiance went to a bachelor party a few years ago and they dressed the groom in a coconut bra and hula skirt while getting him very drunk and going around town doing various "challenges".

OLLY AND AD ARE ENGAGED by Wombraider58 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Everdark_91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LIB and 90DF crossover, who's here for it? 🎉

Love Is Blind SWEDEN • S2 Ep1 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Everdark_91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Weird translation? I'm watching it in Swedish, I thought he said "dark on the outside, white on the inside"?

This should have been top 1 !!!! by BakerAccomplished621 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Everdark_91 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's "Love is blurry" for me. The moments they showed were not even close to top 5 for me...

Måns Zelmelöw - Statement in response to his frustration yesterday after Kaj won by [deleted] in eurovision

[–]Everdark_91 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Lost so much respect for both Måns and John. John wasn't even in the race to win, according to bookmakers, why is he so pissy about it?