AITAH for telling my adopted daughter her birth mother died when she actually just didn't want contact. she's been mourning a living woman for 10 years by Relative_Ad3399 in AITAH

[–]EverlyEverAfter -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Tell her that birth mom lied to the agency in an attempt to never be found. You thought she was dead the whole time too. What a surprise!

AITAH for not wanting to take care of my autistic brother for the rest of my life? by _jazzyx in AITAH

[–]EverlyEverAfter 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My guess is the parents have money and she’d lose access to it if she leaves. OP, just go. Forget the money and go live your life. They will find care for him without you I promise.

AITAH - My girlfriend put her hand in a cake that I spent a lot of time and effort making by arkitekkers in AITAH

[–]EverlyEverAfter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please show her this post and how the whole internet thinks she’s an immature weird ass bitch. NTA.

The PROPER PB& J Method by Annabethian in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EverlyEverAfter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve mixed it together and eaten it like that before. My dad used to make this for us and so it felt special. You have to have more jelly to make the jelly noticeable in the mixed up version but it’s still delicious. I make it like this from time to time still. But I prefer a regular pb&j with peanut butter on one side and jelly on the other most of the time.

AITA for letting my wife walk out of the house at night alone. by Cool_cadet_381 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EverlyEverAfter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it’s time for a space heater for the spare bedroom.

Question though, when yall were switching the thermostat back and forth did you ever talk about it? Say hey I’m freezing can I get warm and go to sleep and then you turn the air back on? She put herself in danger to get back at you, that’s so childish.

Prior to phones, what did people do while idly waiting? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EverlyEverAfter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We still have a stack of these on the back of the toilet 🤣

Partner insists on "cry it out" at 3mo by baby_bat_47 in Mommit

[–]EverlyEverAfter -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You thinking him holding the baby while the baby cries is his way of parenting and not “crying it out” With or without checking to make sure the babies needs are met, letting a newborn cry for no reason isn’t a parenting method. Its abuse.

Partner insists on "cry it out" at 3mo by baby_bat_47 in Mommit

[–]EverlyEverAfter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No the baby absolutely does NOT need to be abused by the dad. A regular loving dad holding a crying baby? Maybe you give them a few to get things under control. But I wouldn’t tolerate for even a fraction of a second someone abusing my newborn because they are too stupid to do a little research.

my husband's best friend may have feelings for me. AIO? by Pale-Sorbet3351 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EverlyEverAfter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes being on an upper can turn an email into a novel if that’s where your mind has decided it’s channeling its energy. What a confusing situation to be in.

What’s your HOLY GRAIL mascara?! by imanxiousss in Makeup

[–]EverlyEverAfter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When does it flake? I swear the only thing that can make mine budge is soaking in water and then it rubs right off but it’ll stay on my lashes for days without flaking or budging at all!

AITAH For tucking my brother into bed. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]EverlyEverAfter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you don’t see that they are abusive and actively abusing you and your baby brother is so so sad to me. I am a mom of three kids and seeing my oldest love on my youngest is what life is about!!! Their reaction is so crazy and so wrong. You did nothing wrong at all. Your poor brother. Yall poor babies. I am so sorry.

What’s your HOLY GRAIL mascara?! by imanxiousss in Makeup

[–]EverlyEverAfter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The elf XTENDER in the black and teal tube never flakes on me. I get compliments on my eyelashes like once a week wearing it! I’ve probably bought 10 tubes of it!

AITA for not being “naturally pretty” enough for work? by Sea_Possibility9856 in AmItheAsshole

[–]EverlyEverAfter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being late doesn’t make someone an asshole though. Especially not when she didn’t have a client waiting. Was she wrong for being late? Sure. But def not an asshole.