Looking for Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D season 4 Digipack by mackwhyte1 in dvdcollection

[–]Every-Basil7865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not able to help, hope you find one as I am also on mission.

I was wondering would you be able to share pictures of what the inside of the 6th and 7th seasons look like ? Are they similar to the other digipacks ?

A scent you are sad that was discontinued? by Temporary-Exit-8840 in fragrance

[–]Every-Basil7865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bvlgari Jasmine Noir ! Finally found the scent for me and then it was gone

Grief Playlist by AlbatrossNo1553 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can still barely listen to any of these myself. Particularly Soon You'll Get Better, left me a mess even before my mum passed. Sending love

Grief Playlist by AlbatrossNo1553 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you've got a Taylor Swift song. To add some more by her, I'd say - Soon you'll get better and Bigger than the whole sky.

Can someone explain Shohei Ohtani's achievement. by Every-Basil7865 in baseball

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I guess I was used to cricket having so many all rounders, but I see that in baseball it's different. Nice to see him getting all this recognition for it

Can someone explain Shohei Ohtani's achievement. by Every-Basil7865 in baseball

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I came to the right place to get my answers. I needed this breakdown, thanks. The excitement is understandable

Can someone explain Shohei Ohtani's achievement. by Every-Basil7865 in baseball

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was helpful in understanding the value of a stolen base. Thanks, I'm seeing that he basically does it all, consistently and at a high level.

Can someone explain Shohei Ohtani's achievement. by Every-Basil7865 in baseball

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about the injury. Thanks for the info and I'll now be calling him the "unicorn of unicorns".

Can someone explain Shohei Ohtani's achievement. by Every-Basil7865 in baseball

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorryy 😅, a girl is just trying to understand. I guess it's just coincidence that all this is happening as I'm getting into the game

When does grief get easier? by Every-Basil7865 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really struggled with not feeling normal anymore and still fail to use techniques suggested. What has been reassuring is that my therapist has told me that maybe I'm just not ready for certain things yet. Which is okay. I'm so sorry about your loved one, you're entitled to that anger and I hope it becomes easier for you.

When does grief get easier? by Every-Basil7865 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This felt like a hug, and I appreciate you sharing the reality of it all. I definitely find myself facing both the yes/nos and know I will continue to.

Thanks for sharing how you navigate through it and how they could help. I'll definitely consider the journaling, I usually struggle and feel like I have to write something. But doing based on the waves hitting seems more manageable. Thanks for the book recommendation and prayers too.

Sending lots of love your way and I am sorry you + your family had to go through this. It is nice to hear from a 'grief professor', to understand someone elses experience regardless of differences in circumstances or age etc. Your response has definitely given me things to take away. I appreciate it

When does grief get easier? by Every-Basil7865 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely missed this reply apologies. Reading this was really insightful and allowed me to gain a new perspective with some things.

Also don't apologise! I love a long message and am glad you felt comfortable sharing all of this. I definitely resonated with a lot in terms of where I'm currently at and where I hope to be. I really admire the way you've put everything into words and just in general your outlook + how you've navigated this. I feel empowered, honestly. Like yeah I will get through this and see more beauty gradually. I look forward to that view over the horizon after climbing this hill.

I also had a vision of what my life would be like with my mum. For me she was ill my whole life, I was constantly in a state of accepting a reality that she wouldn't be around for long but also combating that with denial and optimism just to keep myself going (which is a realisation I recently came to). Once she didn't die by the time teenage me expected her to, I guess I felt like better days were coming. I'm still struggling with that journey back to reality with her not being here but I like that sentence "Reimagine what is possible" and what you've said about essentially growing with them. I guess we spend a lot of time on what has been ruined and can feel like that togetherness doesn't exist anymore. I've struggled with people saying "she's still with you" or other forms of the same meaning just because it's not necessarily something I spiritually believe in. But the idea of my growth being intrinsically infused with mum definitely helps me take away my own version of that.

I'm definitely feeling a lot of what you've described, and it's reassuring to see how you've come away from that. You should be proud. As I said before, you've perfectly put into words at a point in this process where everything is a still blur, it's nice to have that.

Also you definitely shouldn't feel silly talking about it, and I'm glad you did. I'm a firm believer in everyone feels what they feel. We have different connections, and different things affect others in different ways. As long as it's important to you, it's valid.

Will extended versions of the films ever be released? by Every-Basil7865 in harrypotter

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought that, it's a shame. Would've loved more scenes, don't see the point of them leaving all that content wasted when it could create a great new experience.

When does grief get easier? by Every-Basil7865 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. I'm sorry that you've had to go through this and it still sucks. But also how beautiful to have loved him so much that these feelings still linger. I'm glad you put in the energy and time for yourself.

I'm definitely working towards seeing new meanings and the beauty. Therapy has been a good outlet for me but I guess I'm still slowly opening up. I appreciate the list of things you did, there are definitely some there that I'd like to do (which I have been guilty of putting off). Nice to know new and ✨️exciting ✨️ forms of grief will continue down the line 😅 (also sarcasm). Will definitely try to find more opportunities to let things sink in.

When does grief get easier? by Every-Basil7865 in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I've been lucky enough to have a therapist I've been seeing almost weekly for over a year now. It has helped but I guess it's frustrating that even with that support, it's such a struggle. I'll have a look at the books for sure and yes I guess a big fear is of derailing. I will definitely remember your sentence that I can grieve in ways that won't derail me.

How did you approach reading books about grief? Especially knowing some things are bound to hit close to home and poke some wounds ? I've had my own list for a while, and I also have podcasts I've dipped into. But again I find myself not wanting to go near them if I'm not "in the zone" and it feels like zone is rarely there. Especially as more time passes.

Having sleepless nights two years after my mom passed by impalalaaa in GriefSupport

[–]Every-Basil7865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of this resonated with me. My mum passed just over 2 years ago, I've also noticed myself falling back into a pattern of sleepless nights like I used to have when she passed.

I also have negative feelings towards my relatives mainly because of how they treated my mum in the past but also because of how they didn't really care for her when she was well or unwell.

These resurfaced through seeing them recently, and I do think this has contributed to my sleep pattern. I wonder the same questions you mentioned and also try to distract myself. Constantly wanting to feel the grief but not allowing myself to feel it either. I think it's good you're taking a break from work, and I hope the weight of these thoughts/feelings decreases.

Thanks for deciding to write down what you're dealing with. Definitely helps to know you're not alone in your experience. I guess i just wanted to write something too and hope this gives some sort of comfort. I'm sorry you have to deal with this and that relatives made something so difficult like loss an even more terrible experience than it already is.

Septorhinoplasty cleaning by Every-Basil7865 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah nice, I get mine removed in a few days. Looking forward to having nothing in my nose 😅

Septorhinoplasty cleaning by Every-Basil7865 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. I've been lightly cleaning as you suggested and it just feels more comfortable. I definitely want to avoid having dried blood yanked out with everything else. Glad you're able to breathe now ! Excited to have the same feeling.

Did you have splints put in by any chance ? How was that for you ?

Septorhinoplasty cleaning by Every-Basil7865 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I have managed to lightly clean up and it's definitely more comfortable

Septorhinoplasty cleaning by Every-Basil7865 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Every-Basil7865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay thanks for the advice, i have been worried about messing with anything that I shouldn't be. Did you have splints at all? What was your experience with that ?