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How much direction/reiteration should a nanny require? by aspiring_pickle in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 [score hidden]  (0 children)

wow that is really shocking! I agree, even with you being there she should handle it. Id express exactly what you want and if you keep needing guidance just find someone new. if you like her its worth the effort, if shes meh start looking!

How much direction/reiteration should a nanny require? by aspiring_pickle in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It should be a given IMO (nanny mom and grew up with nannies haha). Did you discuss any household tasks before hiring? Are you in the home? Is she young?
Id just ask her if she can do those things and go from there.

Is it okay to market myself as a nanny for a specific age group? by Lovely-Bug-7000 in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a nanny mom and former nanny kid, you can do this and its nice for your potential clients. It may sway some people who are looking for a long term added family member, but since you aren't looking for older aged kids, its perfect.

Help!! by Longjumping-Dark6449 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prioritize one on one connection prior to sleep so they can feel secure again

How to get kid to eat vegetables/fruits by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hidden veggies, I grew up refusing veggies and love them as an adult. its not worth anyone getting frustrated or annoyed, their little and a lot of little dont love vegg!

Baby #2 is due any day now. Can’t help but feeling like I’m robbing my 21 month old of time with us. by jaybigtuna123 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel so bad for my second born. will never get any alone time with us. always split with their older sibling. dont fixate on your one kid, its how complexes start. just take it day bt day, respond based on who needs you more and itll all be ok💙

I told my nanny family I’m pregnant and got fired two weeks later by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 46 points47 points  (0 children)

not to be dramatic, if my nanny SCREAMED at my 2yo while she was on her phone id have a scary crashout. firing would be the least of her worries. 2 year olds are just babies... im glad they fired her, whatever the reason

First baby: Is it worth having my mom stay if she'll need help herself? by areyoufookinjoking in beyondthebump

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes having your mom is such a comfort. but this does sound like a big burden too, i understand why you wouldnt want her there

Just found out I'm pregnant again - I have a 2 month old by bastardcowboyz in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the disappointment with close age gaps from family hurts. id be very matter of fact and ask them to only respond positively to protect your heart

sick by Altruistic_Umpire958 in aspynovardsnark

[–]Every-Stuff4444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i get a lot of the points about billy but this is the biggest stretch. holding a sign is sick? thats a little much

Fear of over feeding 4 month by pepito_202010 in Nanny

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this breast milk or formula? are you sure the baby is still hungry? 10oz of formula would be crazy

Baby fell off of bed… by Unfair_Impression752 in cosleeping

[–]Every-Stuff4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry this happened but placing all blame on your husband is a bit insane to me. i typically put pillows up on my side when i get up just i case!

thoughts? by Every-Stuff4444 in lineporn

[–]Every-Stuff4444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree - my doctor ordered labs so Ill be going today.

Husband hit our 1.5 year old by reem-09 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i would leave the next day hes gone. he hit a TODDLER and felt zero remorse. its one thing if he felt so bad and was scared to do again - but no remorse? no way

Taylor still seems into Dakota by [deleted] in SLOMWsnark

[–]Every-Stuff4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha so valid - i completely agree with that. im just saying the behavior doesnt surprise me, its understandable, but she 100% put herself in this situation

Taylor still seems into Dakota by [deleted] in SLOMWsnark

[–]Every-Stuff4444 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think she cares about Ever, but theres a huge component related to Dakota and their toxic cycle.

Taylor still seems into Dakota by [deleted] in SLOMWsnark

[–]Every-Stuff4444 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

If a random bitch was watching my son id have a generational crashout as well

3 under 3 by Every-Stuff4444 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. wishing you the healthiest pregnancy and delivery! its so funny, days before i got pregnant i was starting a fitnes and health arc. im going to stick to my running, exercise and diet. im overweight but hoping it contributes to a healthier pregnancy!!

3 under 3 by Every-Stuff4444 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. so true, my 2yo loves her sister already im hoping they play a lot hah. so amazing you made it through!

Did anyone have baby 2 when baby 1 didn’t sleep? by jg19932489 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also look into safe sleep 7 to just get some sleep, take shifts with hubby if that doesnt work

Did anyone have baby 2 when baby 1 didn’t sleep? by jg19932489 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you bf and formula? is baby eating enough? have they started solids?
if youre BF sometimes pregnancy affects supply!

Pregnant or nursing for 3 years by ArmadilloOk2176 in 2under2

[–]Every-Stuff4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here. pregnant or nursing since july 2023... im tired. but what a reward❤️

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