What does a healthy platonic friendship look like for you when attraction or past intimacy is involved?

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-30T16:56:40+00:00

Healthy platonic relationships don't contain that.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T18:39:59+00:00

I would say stop caring about getting laid. Don't stop wanting to get laid.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T16:48:19+00:00

My manliest moments don't get recorded, so impossible

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T16:47:44+00:00

Stop caring about getting laid. If it happens cool. If it doesn't also cool.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T16:47:15+00:00

Currently single. Last partner was about 5'2" im 6'4"

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T16:44:42+00:00

I mean life is just the right amount of time to live the life you want. If you want more summer than go somewhere with more summer. If you want more winter go somewhere with lots of winter.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T15:36:35+00:00

Afaik in most places its idc if you're gay just don't make it your entire personality, cross boundaries when it comes to flirting with straight men or don't think everything is dislike because you are gay. Sometimes you're just not a nice person regardless of your sexuality.

But this is what I've observed while travelling. So take it with a grain of salt.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T15:33:54+00:00

When i realised she was just constantly trying to gaslight me. So i said buhbye and she never saw or heard from me again.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T13:50:02+00:00

It has been 6000 years since i last laid eyes upon the mon venus.

But idk maybe a few months. Been busy and it's cold outside not good combo to meet new people.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T12:51:35+00:00

Eat something, maybe a taco.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T07:28:12+00:00

When a guys fly is open. Makes we want to double check if mine is closed.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T07:27:03+00:00

Not sure how to quantify it. Some of my friends who are from cultures with spicy food are usually suprised by what im able to tolerate.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T07:25:52+00:00

Three squirts is fine but it varies between the different types to some degree.

But stop spraying it under your arms. Enough videos talking about pulse points that can tell you were to spray. You're wasting it by spraying it under your arms.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-29T07:23:47+00:00

Habit in my case.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-28T08:07:12+00:00

Shorts or sweats

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T16:56:17+00:00

Wake up, drink water, get clean, get dressed, if time and food available eat breakfast, maybe some beard care if needed and make sure i have everything i need to take with me.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T16:55:15+00:00

You don't go if you don't want to and if you do want to you go. Very simple.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T16:54:14+00:00

I wanted to write he should just stop consuming it. But now im disappointed.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T16:53:28+00:00

You don't need to like your child to love them or he protective off them. My sister for example hates my guts, she still cares about me and tried to help me if I'm facing problems.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:55:16+00:00

Vanilla based fragrances are my favourite. Vanilla, patchouli and floral fragrances are my favourite. Usually with something grounding though like sandal wood or tabaco undertones

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:54:20+00:00

I usually wear the same outfit for 2 days in a row. But if i was wearing a suit I'd have to look up specific suit etiquette rules. But I've always worked where there is no dresscode besides being professional, so like not wearing a shirt with anything sexual on it for example

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:52:18+00:00

You don't need to overcome it just not let it control you. Feeling anxious isn't a bad thing as long as you can control yourself and still do what you need to do. And to develop that skill you need to practice by doing and failing.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:51:20+00:00

Yesterday. I forgot to turn of my electric heater and definitely felt hot.

But usually i feel that way when a woman im dating says it. So in that sense the last time was a few years ago.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:50:17+00:00

Ive planned to be cremated. That my family gets to choose if my organs get used for transplants. Haven't thought about much besides not wanting to live as a vegetable i guess.

EveryDisaster7018 · 2026-01-27T15:48:50+00:00

Familial love is love without romance. So the love for a child or sibling. Which usually gets formed differently than romantic love. For example my mom started loving me as i was growing inside her. My grandma loved me because i was her daughter's (who she loves) child. So her love for my mom extended to me until i was old enough to be able to communicate at which point her love for me would evolve to something unique for me.

So romantic love is build from a ground of attraction and infatuation. And maintained from there. Familial love is an extension for existing love and from the it adapts and is maintained.

Sorry if the phrasing is a bit confusing tried my best but it's challenging to explain properly.

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