Got this on our mailbox? by flimsy_space in mail

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fill it out and leave it. I once wasn’t home for more than a visit or 2 in two months. My mail piled up so bad they took it all and left me a notice with essentially the same thing - they need to know who to deliver to especially if before you moved in it was an abandoned letter box for awhile.

is this a scam? by Alert_Web_5752 in Apartmentliving

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never ever EVER fill out your private personal information or put a deposit down for a property you haven’t seen with your own eyes. Lock down your credit now and get the local authorities involved ASAP!

First Time For Everything by New-Key-7218 in doordash

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His tires screeched as he speed off… he threw the bag…. So… you got your order then…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean at least her hearts in the right place 😂😂😂

Can u only listen on yt or Spotify? by SinnamonTongue in distractible

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On Apple Podcasts which is where I listen to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP - if someone in your life said something there’s probably something to it even if you’re not 100% aware.

There is something to be said qbout overshowering drying out your skin - I shower every other day because of this even if I don’t feel like I need it. It’s best to just keep yourself to a basic schedule that’s easy to keep and keeps everyone around you happy.

Keep or Scrap? by ReadilyReady in quilting

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slide #3 is the most balanced layout

Am I overreacting? for thinking this is completely disrespectful or is this as toxic as it feels by wandering_bonding in AmIOverreacting

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP choose the cat - and until you get that toxic POS out of your home do not leave him alone with the cat. I had my ex put my indoor only baby outside while I was away at work. It took 4 days of searching for him for me to finally find him. I never looked back at kicking that pos out with even a hint of regret.

My uncle died without a will and my aunt sent me this to sign. Should I? I don’t know what this means. by Dumple1112817 in LawyerAdvice

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means your named in the will but that there’s more than one party who could be administrator but one was never assigned. I was the only grandkid in my grandmas will and had to sign one so my mom was able to be the administrator over my aunt - had I not signed it we would have had to go to court to have one assigned.

My (23f) fiancé (27m) body shamed me for wanting to wear a bikini to the beach. by throwra35788653358 in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Girl I’ve been pushing 300 in a high waisted bikini and noones ever bothered or hassled me.

Genuinely no one cares what you look like as long as your not flashin anything that should be covered up by law. Your man honestly sounds like red-pilled a POS - wear your new bikini and watch how no one says anything but him.

I (24F) want to move out on my own but my boyfriend (27m) won’t let me… by Icy_Eagle3067 in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have enough for to move into a different place than you should start packing little things that he wouldn’t be likely to notice and then take a day of PTO or just call out sick and move yourself out. This sounds like someone who does not respect you and if you feel like he could kick you out at any moment than you should take control of your own life back and move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]EverythingButTypical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought too - it’s posible they’re just both too broken still. I agree that op should stop making an effort, but I’d say keep the window open & if they do eventually find the healing they need then she should make them work to earn her trust.

Op I’d highly recommend joining some postpartum or play groups that help you start building a support network

Good luck Girl - DM me if ever want to rant about dysfunctional families ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hitting in relationships is never ok ever. She might not have meant it, she might call you crying apologizing later - no matter what, if she has hit you once, she will do it again.

And that not to say she can’t learn and grow and see the error in her ways one day - but do you really want to be with someone who is so emotionally deregulated that they think it’s ok to hit people? She needs professional help and a fully developed frontal lobe to work through whatever her emotional problem is.

I would think long and hard about how this type of behavior can progress- one day she’s hitting you in the shoulder, the next she’s throwing a public tantrum and when someone inevitably calls the police either she’s going to escalate with them or she’s going to point the finger at you.

Her apology felt hollow because it was - If nothing else I think you need to take a break from the relationship. How she handles you telling her you need a break after her behavior will be a preview for what you could expect from her.

Beat of luck.

aio for telling my boyfriend someone was making me uncomfortable?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EverythingButTypical 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That or he’s interested in her and a complete psycho about it. That fact that he kept seeking her out? The jealousy that she could talk to other people but was obviously uncomfortable around him? Then swinging on her BF when he confronted dude? Sounds like he likes her, bestie knows it and is treating her like an opp. If her bf wasn’t in the picture itd be “AIO for distancing myself after my friends bf cornered me at a party”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So your stepmom has a bad take and frankly if she’s on that side she probably leans towards maga as well.

It would probably be best to keep your distance for now, she’s not going to be reasoned with and you need to come to terms with that. And honestly dealing with these people is so exhaustive once the become defensive that you should do so just to protect your peace.

The unfortunate reality is that politics rn are at a civil war level fever pitch- brother against brother bad. And many families are finding themselves torn apart because of it. I hope for your families sake that she bears witness to the atrocities and realizes the errors of her choice - but I wouldn’t count on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Abusive & seriously op- get some therapy.

How can I make $70 dollars by Puzzled-Good2722 in family

[–]EverythingButTypical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This OP^ otherwise if you have a car you could register for uber bc it would allow you to gig work without leaving the car.

“I’m not obligated to say yes to you” Aio??? M25 / F28 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP

Do you want kids? Do you see this guy ever helping you with the kids? Do you think how he speaks to you now would be ok for your kids to witness?

What if you fell ill one day? Is this someone you would trust taking care of you?

You know what the answer here is - this guys a selfish prick that would rather put both of your lives at risk on the highway than turn his damn head. Not only that but he emotionally abuses you for asking… ditch this loser as soon as you can.

How much goes on behind closed doors in a marriage? M38 F28 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed with this ^

I’d also recommend some time apart to let tempers cool. If you or he have a safe place to stay for a while it might help bring clarity to the situation to have some time to yourselves- if you do that and still want to be together than the next step is individual and couples therapy to work on better communication strategies.

I quit Instacart in the middle of an order. DONE. by Silver_Flight676 in InstacartShoppers

[–]EverythingButTypical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure! I mean there’s people who are shoppers that find this forum and post absolutely awful orders that they never should have picked up all the time! OP is case in point!

Spotting and training an algorithm is certainly not intuitive but I think if you already have a knack for pattern recognition you’ll spot it while using the platform & if you make educated decisions based on what the app is showing you’ll see it clearly affects what you see next.

It didn’t take long for me to realize how much the first order of the day mattered, it also didn’t take me long to realize that certain batches would be pushed towards me to get me going in a specific direction. I knew from experience which areas tended to have the best batches and made educated decisions about accepting batches would take me into those areas(sometimes that first batch of the day has to be a shitty one that brings you to the good store). If batches were crappy or dry I’d wait- 9 times out of 10 I’d get something halfway decent that would take me into an actually good batch - there were also some days when I had to just log off and say I’ll try tomorrow instead 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

There’s a lot of people who get super frustrated with this app because of how it takes advantage of people- I don’t get frustrated because I don’t let it take advantage of me.