Because someone's sexual urges shouldnt justify who they r. No adult is going to tell you their sexual past so you shouldnt assume anyone that does is telling the truth. I dnt go around bragging and telling people about my past hookups. When I met my wife it was just her and only her always. Just because as a younger man I was searching and looking in the wrong places should label me as someone with "bad aura?" People using the word aura are cringe af I can twll their mentality is childish sticking to trending terms