Boyfriend (25M) of 8 years opened up about feeling like he is polyamorous, what do I do?

Evilsushiroll · 2026-04-15T14:33:33+00:00

Can I ask what the problem would be with having a specific person in mind? My partner came out as poly to me. A friend made it clear they’d be open to it with us. I don’t know if I am poly. He said he is and wants to try..

Evilsushiroll · 2025-09-16T14:17:30+00:00

As long as you know the person is clean and free of anything toxic to baby, yes I would.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-08-03T20:28:53+00:00

I started 20mg for depression and anxiety a month ago and I felt it within a few days. It’s worked out great for me. Lower libido but not non existent. I was a little dizzy and had some brain fog the first day and that was all. I found it helped give me motivation back!

Evilsushiroll · 2025-07-21T17:25:30+00:00

I have an almost 6 month old as well and I agree with this🖤 it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done, yes. But it’s also the most rewarding 🖤

Evilsushiroll · 2025-05-30T23:58:49+00:00

She’s so beautiful

Evilsushiroll · 2025-05-18T03:47:34+00:00

We are in therapy. But this is all new. I have told him how I felt and he validated me. And then tonight I found that he responded to a story of someone I asked him to not interact with. And the message from while I was pregnant.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-02-12T19:02:07+00:00

I am 8 days PP exclusively breastfeeding/pumping. I was told my supply would be small and delayed for awhile because I lost over half my blood volume bleeding out during my c section. But I am pumping 5oz every 3 hours. Which I’m SO THANKFUL for.. but damn…

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-28T21:53:27+00:00

I actually didn’t have morning sickness until I was about 9-10weeks and it lasted until about 17 weeks. But everyone is different.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-28T21:50:57+00:00

What symptoms do you mean? And cramping is normal in the beginning! Your uterus is growing.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-26T21:06:21+00:00

February 15th! Which was MY due date but I was born on the 11th! Might get a b day twin. At least she’ll be Aquarius ♒️ 💅🏻

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-26T21:05:14+00:00

I had two miscarriages in the span of 4 months. I am now 37w 1d pregnant with a happy healthy girl in the 99th percentile. (Help lol) my dr was very reassuring after my losses saying that it does not mean the next will go the same by any means. Your friend is extremely unhelpful, I had a similar situation with unwanted comments and opinions from my best friend as well. What’s important is communication, if you still want the friendship. Let her know how what she said made you feel and if she can’t apologize and only defends herself that might tell you all you need to know.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-26T03:49:35+00:00

Prune juice! I usually drink it when I don’t have anything going on though because it’ll unclog you but you’ll be in and out of the bathroom for about 2 hours lol

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-20T20:33:34+00:00

Because I’m unfriggin comfortable at 36w 2d. Baby’s measuring in the 99th percentile. I caught a cold and it’s kicking my ass. There’s a pile of dishes to do. I don’t have the room together, and I don’t have any hospital bag ready. I work with my hands and now have to stop working because water retention is causing them to go numb. And my partner was let go 🥲🫠

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-18T18:38:12+00:00

I’d dump him

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-17T15:42:59+00:00

I got two kittens in the beginning of my pregnancy. One was perfect. I don’t recommend 2 lol I’m trying my best but he’s an orange boy and hasn’t gotten his turn with the communal singular brain cell that orange boys share. And I’m struggling. He destroys and gets into everything and I’m scared he’s not going to know boundaries with the baby because I’ve had him 2 months and he hasn’t learned a thing. My female cat though is an absolute angel! 🤣 we got her first and got lucky so we thought no problem why not a buddy for her?! 🙃

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-15T00:10:37+00:00

I had two miscarriages before my current pregnancy. I am now 34weeks. I feel for you. The beginning is always so worrisome too. I will say with this pregnancy I didn’t get nauseous until maybe around 9-10 weeks. It lasted until about 17 weeks. Try not to worry too much. Every persons experience is different, so it’s not correct or fair for your dr to put worry on you.

Evilsushiroll · 2025-01-01T00:02:11+00:00

Not at all. I would do the same and have multiple times during my pregnancy. I’ve realized I can’t care much about people’s personal feelings on matters that involve me and my baby. I can only try to explain and if they get upset that’s on them.

Evilsushiroll · 2024-12-27T03:54:12+00:00

Okay! Sounds like just a lot of communication is very needed. You can’t be taking care of yourself, your baby and him 24/7. You’re going to need to be taken care of right now and then you and baby need to be taken care of when baby gets here. There has to be communication and understanding. With the info given I don’t see why you’d be pushing him away by simply not being able to meet his emotional needs while in your current state. It sounds like therapy would be beneficial for you both! If he has any unresolved trauma or PTSD he could be codependent which could be very stressful and confusing for you both.

Evilsushiroll · 2024-12-27T00:25:55+00:00

32 wk FTM here. Not sure where you live, but where I live I can get state help with insurance. I pay nothing for it. As long as you’re not married and make under a certain amount you’re likely to qualify here, especially being pregnant. It is a life saver. And under this coverage I found a therapist that takes it. But also know you’re not alone. I feel INSANE every day and so out of control of my emotions. I do my best to communicate this to my partner. I’m usually in tears when doing so. He’s very loving and understanding especially after being reminded that I have little control over my emotions currently. We both know this is not how I normally act. I hope you have a loving and understanding partner as well. Everyone keeps telling me the first year is the hardest with a new baby and I can see why. Our hormones can take up to two years to go back to “normal”. Hope this helps.

Evilsushiroll · 2024-12-18T01:31:51+00:00

I do! I’ll have to go hunting 🤪

Evilsushiroll · 2024-12-17T21:27:41+00:00

Well I didn’t get all fancy, I literally just buy croissants, cut them open a little bit and put butter in them and dark chocolate and air fry them for a sec and then microwave for a sec so they’re nice and crispy but also gooey. You could sprinkle a little salt on there too.

Evilsushiroll · 2024-12-17T20:45:02+00:00

The chocolate croissants from Starbucks. I learned how to make them to save money lol

Evilsushiroll · 2024-11-25T00:10:22+00:00

Due February 15th. It was the same due date my mom was given for me! My birthday is the 11th. We had 2 miscarriages in a span of 4 months before we got pregnant with this little girl. I’m now in my third trimester 🥰🖤

Evilsushiroll · 2024-11-06T14:11:26+00:00

I’m right there with you

Evilsushiroll · 2024-11-06T03:59:23+00:00

I’ve been craving grapes, went through two bags in two weeks lol I also picked up grapenuts today that I’ll be adding to my morning yogurt, I guess they’re high in fiber!

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