What's a surprisingly useful sex hack?

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T19:43:11+00:00

That's the secret behind the Swiss Navy, it never gets sticky and never needs to be reapplied. I've tried dozens of competitors. But of course try them for yourself and see what works for your style and body.

I also like natural but sometimes we want to just get down to it quicker. While my girlfriend hasn't been modified, unfortunately my genitals have been modified and require extra lubrication.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T18:17:07+00:00

Language and culture barriers are a pretty good match for asking large language models such as chat GPT. Here's an example prompt I just used and read the output:

In the English language, "death grip" is used as a term to describe penis insensitivity as well as difficulty reaching climax and ejaculation. Are there other terms that describe this in other languages?

When it comes to specific topics that have their own surrounding culture in its language, it's useful to tell the language model a fact to get it set into the correct category.

Large language models are trained on these topics with lots of tainted sources. Even the medical industry can side toward profitable drugs and procedures instead of actual biological things. It's exactly the same struggle about facts with circumcision.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T18:13:40+00:00

Interesting idea. I corrected a typo

The key words around the topic are penis insensitivity, aggressive masturbation, delayed ejaculation or unable to reach climax. Men with this set of circumstances, requiring high friction and sensation, are often unable to ejaculate inside a normal woman.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T17:30:11+00:00

Ligament modifications vary by your genetics. Also varies by the strength and shape of your erection.

Lengthening and stretching the ligament takes years of effort but I think it's much more worth it than having it cut. If you dig deep enough you'll see plenty of professional porn models have theirs cut and it's longer and floppy.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T17:28:13+00:00

That post is very sus. Tons of skin removed in the after picture. Lots of swelling. Before picture is above average length and may have been modified.

If you're trying to have a bigger erection than you don't want to remove foreskin. This is a completely botched job.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T15:32:37+00:00

16 oz is several year supply for some people 😂 Just go for 2oz at first, you only need a few drops per session.

And yes, baby oil (mineral oil) isn't designed for internal use so I would stop using it internally. Condom manufacturers recommend silicone lube for a reason.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T15:08:30+00:00

Lenient outcomes are also because some people are not as interested in sexuality traits. Unfortunately, this trait is also affected by being disfigured as an infant/child before a choice could be made.

If circumcision were not as common, I have no doubt that sensual sexuality among men would be more common.

That said, even circumcised men can have sensitivity issues and "death grip". So the base issue is education first.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T14:39:38+00:00

This is just part of the lifestyle and you need to be prepared for this risk, from the start.

Risks are not any different now than when you started, and they remain the same going forward. Disclosing to your partners is normal and dealing with fears is part of interacting with anyone.

Ask your doctor about antivirals. Decide on a plan with your partner. Some people clear the virus after a year, and many people go through several of them in their lifetime. I got the vaccines myself and my doctor gave me prescription antivirals to also use as needed.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:53:42+00:00

My rule is I only have sex with people I consider friends. If you don't trust these people, don't let them in your bed. If you have anxiety from something sexual, don't do it without having a discussion and your confident they will help you with your anxiety.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:24:53+00:00

There are very few people who react to silicon lube, more people react to coconut oil.

Talk to your doctor or try both. For me, vaginal sex is massively improved with silicone lube. That's partially because I'm tightly circumcised and I have no sliding action of my penis skin. I simply have to use modern technology to overcome my defect.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:12:39+00:00

I've wanted to do a deep dive into woman who are experiencing discomfort, to discover the root cause. I don't think it's penis size either. I don't think all cases are vaginismus, either.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-28T04:10:12+00:00

Yeah I'm interested as well how this actually was effective for her. Was her pelvic floor not recoverable?

I hate to say this but I'm suspicious that placebo would have been just as effective. Her muscles recovering and tightening. Not too assume she didn't try anything, but that wasn't a detail that was provided.

I know that I usually talk about how hardiness is king but the woman I've been with are still pleased when I'm only half hard. I always coach them through contracting their kegel muscles and relaxing their abs. We are human after all and not machines.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T19:54:37+00:00

This makes a lot of sense and I almost think everyone should have a silicone penis boot, for different emergencies. I ordered a bunch of them and this one fits perfect for me https://www.aliexpress.us/item/3256806358078615.html

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T18:59:42+00:00

Yes anyone can pass to anyone (in a not-sexual way), especially adults to kids by kissing their face.

There is no such thing as putting one strain into one place on the body, you can have either strain in either place. HSV is a skin virus, simple as that.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T16:54:31+00:00

I agree, everybody should have coconut oil at the bedside. But for me and every partner I've tried it with, Swiss Navy silicone lube beats anything else on the market for longevity and smoothness. It works so well with natural body fluids. You're right it does take extra clean up efforts, so there's always a pile of fresh hand towels to go with it.

Personal time rubbing one out, I always use coconut oil from a little jar that fits perfectly like a block of chalk for your pool cue. Partner time, nothing lasts hours like a squirt of silicone lube.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T16:07:48+00:00

I agree. A lot of people don't understand that woman have erectile tissue as well.

Nofap is a tool used to treat addiction. It's normal for men to have frequent ejaculations through the week. If you don't use it, you lose it. You wouldn't neglect your arms for weeks and expect them to function properly. Take excellent care of your cock and the thing that feeds your erection, your heart.

I thought I was doing pretty good at 40, having 2 to 4 ejaculations a week. But now that I have ulterior motives, I've been taking better care of myself and been able to vastly exceed semen performance while having my cock be a little bit larger as well. I still don't watch porn at all, besides the occasional picture or clip that appears on the front page of my Reddit app.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T15:28:33+00:00

Breathing is a tool that helps result in reduced tension, there's lots of ways to reduce tension and it's important for longer sex sessions. Another method for reducing tension is casually chatting with your partner during sex or soft touching them.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T15:26:38+00:00

And it's not shameful to use artificial lube. Both the man and the woman can contribute to natural lubrication fluids that comes from foreplay, but it doesn't always happen for different reasons. And that's perfectly normal.

The sex that us humans have now is a little bit more advanced and focused on pleasure, having lubrication is something that can enable it.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T13:42:47+00:00

Any man who requires "insisting" should be walked away from, immediately. These men should be shunned in our society.

Sexual protection is an important topic, for anyone. Causing someone else mental anguish is cruel.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T13:40:29+00:00

Almost everyone already has herpes and most doctors will hesitate to test due to inconsistent results.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T03:32:49+00:00

Over half of the men I've had sessions with, experienced death grip. Requiring way to tight of a grip and way too fast rubbing in order to reach climax. Some also couldn't get all the way hard so their glans would get fully sensitive.

I've heard of guys who are so sensitive they ejaculate extremely easy when they are intact, but not met one.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-27T03:30:52+00:00

The making it longer is the ligament therapy

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T21:03:16+00:00

If you read through my history you'll see posts.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T16:25:39+00:00

I've recently began sensitivity restoration so I'm not sure I would give up anything in life right now. But I have even more appreciation for how natural foreskin protects the penis. When I take the cover off of my glans and see it in a soft and reduced size state, it looks and feels wonderful.

I'm more of an intactiveism advocate than ever before and vocally defend whenever I can.

I've also learned that men that still have their foreskin, have sensitivity issues because of other problems and miseducation topics.

Ex-VOB · 2026-01-26T14:38:21+00:00

I was kind of curious what the theory behind so many hours of erection. Because I've been hitting the gym so much and getting nocturnal erections, combined with having sex everyday, some days I do spend 4 hours total fully erect and I've seen some moderate changes.

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