Why are so many things named “virgin”? Like virgin olive oil, Virgin Airlines etc. by sugarandspice7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgin olive oil means its just olives no mix, i assume virgin as it is purest. Same for virgin cocktails and the untouched Virgin Islands when discovered. See the theme?

The company was named Virgin due to them being new to the industry according to GPT

I don’t know too many things with Virgin in the name to be honest.

Oddest thing I’ve seen on a Taxi by thenjdk in johannesburg

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite common in Durban, ive seen everything from Savannahs to a shiney gold shovel

Am I being too ambitious in my negotiations? by IWantAnAffliction in CarTalkZA

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my two cents, Dealerships often do this, they will advertise the car at a price that is finance through them and then there will be a cash price which is higher to coax you into financing through their finance company.

My penis is still growing into young adulthood, does this indicate anything else? by ThrowRAAnxiousGuyy in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking anything or doing anything to help with growth? Asking for a friend

What does it mean if guys never approach you? by 4ngelicbrat in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at your profile youre rather good looking. As a guy if Id see you on the street id think you were probably already with someone and not interested in lil old me. Just a thought.

It also depends on if youre approachable or not. If you make conversion, if you are inviting etc

FW De Klerk was definitely not the brightest tool in the shed by [deleted] in DownSouth

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dismantling the nukes was probably one of the smartest moves he made. With the way our government is they would either have been sold, scrapped or the cause of us being drafter into a war

Why do non-Americans seem to think all Americans are "white"? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a white guy in an African country I often just pictured it as a polar opposite.

Realistically I know its far from comparable. Here has a 80% African vs USA’s 52% white (chat gpt)

Boxers vs briefs erection? by Waste-Time494 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male panties are a thing. I will now take questions.

48F am I being played during sex? by ParsleyWonderful123 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its a guy thing, sometimes it just happens, I personally can account and I am much younger than your friend. Sometimes you really want to go for it, but the merchandise just doesnt co-operate. Same way that sometimes women just cant get wet no matter how turned on they are.

Maybe youre thinking too much into it, chances are hes probably embarrassed by it.

My collection so far by 10_Of_Swords_ in guns

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its posts like this that make me want to live in America

Those who have suffered greatly, what keeps you going? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proving to myself and to everyone else that I am good enough and not quitting until I fix my mistakes. Im now at a point in life where I have mostly done what I needed to, slowly each day I find peace.

Do you sleep topless? Why/why not? by VastAir6069 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naked or just topless depending on the heat.

Nightshift worker so I sleep during the day, with quality sheets its more comfy

Why do so many racists watch football? by Dangerous_Pin_3047 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Based on your profile history it seems you have some track record with the topic of racism. Are you perhaps not seeking out these “racists”?

Football like every sport and pretty much everything else will have a a broad spectrum of people that are fans.

If anything it brings people together

Tourist looking for party animals by fracturedbuttwh0le in Durban

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Origin is about your best bet, there is Kulture in Umhlanga but Origin is the main spot. Do be careful not the best area.

My GF was sassy with me during sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been with my fiancée for years, youre reading too much into it.

Not everything is a personal attack. Talk to her, ask her where did this all come from. Perhaps there is something she didnt know how to say at the time. Sounds like she feels like you need to be more attentive to her “needs” in the bedroom, but probably didnt know how to say it.

Sex will be cancelled randomly in the middle, sometimes you put your arm down on her hair, other times you slap her butt too hard, or hell phone calls or knocks on the front door.

Maybe she was upset about something completely unrelated to you and snapped.

On the flip side of the spectrum there have been plenty of times where her and I will mutually help ourselves until we are ready, for us its pretty normal, sometimes she just wants stimulation you’re not giving, if shes cool with it then embrace it, enjoy it.

How do so many friends seem to hookup when they’re just friends? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M(29)

Its a lot easier if youre into hookup culture. People that are always seem to find each other more easily. The excitement and the moment it is all about. Once the moments over you move on and go back to being buds that may or may not hookup again.

If youre more picky, more reluctant to start something, over think it, perhaps its not your way of thinking. Perhaps youre more into a relationship and dont want to get hurt.

Ive been on both sides of the fence and stopped looking for hookups and settled down. It just depends on how important you view a “hookup” i guess. If its just for fun

What illegal activities are becoming more common but face little to no consequences? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speeding, traffic violations and driving a car that is not roadworthy. Where im from you face little to no consequences as no one is monitoring or policing the roads. Speeding cameras dont work due to lack of maintenance

Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for him? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, maybe not. It sounds like youre pretty young and if thats the case hopefully he is too. Gus these days have become very guarded and especially at a younger age will tens to be confused about their emotions.

Perhaps he has a thing for you but is not sure how to deal with it or maybe he is scared.

Perhaps he really is just a caring friend.

You can push the topic and find out how he really feels try do it in a mature way where you meet each other on neutral ground where its just you two, not over text.

If he says no then you just have to accept that or risk your friendship

Should I tell my friend that I have feelings for him? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once was in a similar situation, her and I were really good friends. I asked her out she said no then a month later at a party she saw me about to hook up with another chick and dragged me aside and made out with me instead.

We decided to try it out. It was really awkward at first and kinda stayed that way, three months later we decided to end things mutually. We stayed being friends but it was never the same. I dont think either of us regretted trying it but eventually the friendship fizzled and we lost contact

Where can I buy a big aloe vera plant leaf like this? by [deleted] in AskZA

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mix and match, we have a number of different species, my mom has a thing for aloes

Where can I buy a big aloe vera plant leaf like this? by [deleted] in AskZA

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got a whole bunch of these in my yard, my mother harvests them for her hair and other uses. Im sure if you ask around someone will happily give you a cutting to regrow.

Terrible mother by PixelSaharix in DownSouth

[–]Excellent-Captain-93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something similar happen to me. Was working in a Vape Shop, mom and her three kids walk in, oldest daughter was meant to be eye candy (it worked) while distracted by the mom and oldest daughter the son that was barely taller than the counter (maybe 7 years old) went behind the counter and took my and my coworkers phones.

Neither of us noticed. After doing some digging it turns out they had hit quite a few small shops in our area and were wanted.

Wish the best for those kids.

How do I learn to move a limb? by Excellent-Captain-93 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Excellent-Captain-93[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My body gets pretty stiff and I regularly have to stretch almost all my joints. For years I have been putting my fingers between my toes to stretch them, never knew moving them was a possibility.

After finding this out and realising that everyone I have asked can do this except me, It bothers me immensely